Hey Folks

[Cheska]

So sorry for your loss...only time will heal your pain...all my thoughts and prayers go out for the two of you

[Rocker Chic]

Lula and Dean, I am shocked and saddened to learn of your loss. I was away on vacation for a while there and just found this thread buried among the many of them that I had yet to get to. Words cannot express how sorry I am that you both had to go through this sorrow.

When I was pregnant with my son, the pregnancy was originally twins. It was in my first trimester that the doctors found them both and were concerned that one was already smaller than the other. I was getting sonograms pretty frequently due to a few factors. I am reminded how hurt I was to learn at one of my sonograms that the smaller one's heart had stopped beating sometime since my previous sonogram.

My son is now almost 4, yet I sometimes find myself wondering what his brother or sister what have looked like when I look at him. Would they have been identical or different? It is hard enough for me not knowing, but I can't fathom what it feels like for the two of you who got to hold, love, and care for Trevor. My heart goes out to you both and your entire family. May you both find the love and support in your families and each other to get you through this difficult time.

All the best,
Debbie

[Ftloperry]

Dean and Lula----

My deepest condolences to you both on your loss. May all the wonderful memories you have carry you through this difficult time.