I, for one, believe there is some truth to the story. JT has been an incredible asshole in the past, but most of the time he does do his job. And, like Gunbot said, that job is to be the "bad guy" ... the guy that will say and do what the band wants to, but doesn't because they wanna steer clear of the dirty work. JT's job is tough and, while I don't envy what he has to do one bit, I can say two things: 1) He does, at times, a
great job of looking out for the band members' interests at all costs, and 2) he can be a
giant prick that is rude and insulting to women and other fans and does not have the ability to use any sort of discretion in regards to just how much "attitude/tough guy" is needed. He just flies off the fucking handle at times when it's really
not necessary.
I don't doubt for one fucking second that Arnel said he'd pack his shit and leave
if this is what happened. In fact, I'd bet just about anything that he did say that. I'm pretty sure I know you "Y" is ... considering Arnel's assistant's name starts with a "Y."

Personally, I've met "Y" twice (assuming we're talking about the same person) and he was incredibly gracious and kind.