Gideon wrote:This is a phenomenon referred to as confirmation bias, people see what they want to see. If you want to like something, chances are that you'll have a positive impression. If you want to dislike something, chances are that you'll have a negative impression. It works both ways, is pretty much ubiquitous, and it's extremely easy to observe, especially here where you have access to post histories, etc.
Nope, I think that you're completely wrong on that statement...
For example, I adore Tesla and have for decades (seen them a handful of times). Many years ago (while Tommy Skeoch was still in the band), I couldn't wait to see them at the Beacon Theatre in NYC, so I was pumped for the show. Right from the beginning of the show, Jeff Keith and Tommy were obviously wasted, yet they continued to guzzle cans of beer throughout the night (they had a large cooler filled with beer set up right next to the drum riser, very out in the open). Jeff sounded like shit and his singing, as well as Tommy's playing, was the sloppiest I have ever seen and heard. Jeff's interaction with the audience was deplorable and condescending. The 3 other guys looked like they would rather be anywhere but on that stage with Jeff and Tommy. I was embarrassed to even be there, but more so for paying good money to see that train wreck.
That night, I swore that I would never pay to see them again, if they didn't clean up their act and do the job that we pay them to do. I have many favorite bands that span all sorts of genres and, when they suck, I will flat out say they suck. This wasn't simply an off night for Tesla. It was so totally horrible from beginning to end, that I swore I was witnessing their ultimate demise.
Years later (after Tommy had left the band), my same friend and I had an opportunity to get free tickets to see them at the Nokia (now Best Buy) Theatre, so we figured we didn't have anything to lose and took a chance on seeing them again. It turned out to be one of the most enjoyable Tesla shows that I had ever seen! Jeff was clean and sober (only drank water all night), he sounded great, the rest of the band was as energetic and tight as I'd ever seen them, and their crowd interaction was appreciative and engaging. They redeemed themselves tenfold!
Now, there are those fan-boys/girls that profess that their favorite artist/band can do no wrong... EVER! I am not one of those. In fact, if I was asked who my favorite band is, I honestly don't think that I could even answer, because there are so many that I love. I love them all for very different reasons and, to me, each one has recorded material or gave performances that I thought were truly abysmal. Maybe I'm more objective because of that. I don't know, but if I expect to enjoy a performance and I don't, I will say so.
Debbie