Melissa Etheridge Signing Party with Lora, Cyndy, & Dean

[artist4perry]

Getting a few PM's from folks about things said in this thread. All I'll say is that I tend to look at people differently. If someone made fun of George Michael right now, I would laugh. Say whatever you want - he strikes me as out there. But Melissa is truly an artist with so much good in her heart. The biggest problem I have with the fan base is that more heterosexuals are not involved because they seem to have pegged her as a "type" of singer. I think her audience, based on her talent, should be more full of all types of individuals. I know people that simply will not listen to her based on her sexual preference. That is absurd to me.

For me, her "Skin" album epitomizes what I am saying. That album moves me. I lived with that disc for a year and felt all of it. I didn’t have to stop and think that she was speaking of someone that is the same sex as here. Her words are meaningful period, not just meaningful to some.

Add in the fact that she has done incredible charitable work, is very giving to her fans, and puts herself out there in a vulnerable way on stage every night and I think she deserves the respect of us all. Because she isn't one that has to lip-sync or steal songs or fake her way through a tour. She has some serious singing and writing ability.

By the way, I do not in any way judge her talent based on the fact that she survived cancer. I judge her character on the way she had to publically deal with that illness and how she did not let it define her. I’m sure she had her private moments, but I have been inspired how she always lets people know how great she feels. She never played the “feel sorry for me” card.

Very nicely put, my friend.

But it should be said that it helps so many that people like her reach out to those who have dealt with or are dealing with breast cancer. I do not care what her preferences are, I appreciate her music and what she has accomplished as a person. My mom means the world to me, we almost lost her to that horrible disease. I am always amazed at how strong these women become. I am humbled by their spirit.

[Memorex]

I will say one thing that struck me last night. Looking at that photo of her signing an autograph, and others I took at that same time, I thought how beautiful she looked, and vibrant. Best I have ever seen her look, in my opinion. She has handled the road, motherhood, and age very well. Wish I had those genes.

[artist4perry]

I will say one thing that struck me last night. Looking at that photo of her signing an autograph, and others I took at that same time, I thought how beautiful she looked, and vibrant. Best I have ever seen her look, in my opinion. She has handled the road, motherhood, and age very well. Wish I had those genes.

Regardless of the rude comments, some of us appreciate your sharing your fun with us. I imagine you come back with great memories!

[Saint John]

Cyndy told me some really cool stories about Melissa's relationship with her fans and I commend her greatly for that.

You are so right, Dan. Melissa is one of the most giving, caring, kind, honest and positive people I have ever been around. I love her music, her message, her talent and her spirit. If a few homophobes can't relate, that's their loss.

Probably the coolest one Cyndy told me was how M.E. will randomly ask a fan BY NAME how they're doing over the mic, either during a song or between. Little things like that make fans feel like a million bucks!!! I'd shit my pants if Arnel or SP ever said "Hey Dan, how are you enjoying the show tonight?" during or between a song!!!

[Tito]

Wish I had those genes.

Are you sure? She ain't "wired" right.

Sorry this one was too easy to pass up.

[Saint John]

Wish I had those genes.

Are you sure? She ain't "wired" right.

Be nice, Tito.

[artist4perry]

Wish I had those genes.

Are you sure? She ain't "wired" right.

No Tito, that would be you..........

[Uno_up]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.



Regardless of your implied anger, i've always been a Huge ME fan since her debut and continue to support her causes.

[Saint John]

I call "BULLSHIT!" here

Sustained.

[Tito]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.



Regardless of your implied anger, i've always been a Huge ME fan since her debut and continue to support her causes.

This is correct. I even went back to check to make sure I didn't screw up and wasn't an @sshole off the bat by hijacking a serious thread. I'm in the clear.

[Memorex]

I will say one thing that struck me last night. Looking at that photo of her signing an autograph, and others I took at that same time, I thought how beautiful she looked, and vibrant. Best I have ever seen her look, in my opinion. She has handled the road, motherhood, and age very well. Wish I had those genes.

Regardless of the rude comments, some of us appreciate your sharing your fun with us. I imagine you come back with great memories!

Yea. With Lora in SF area and me down in LA, we don't get to see each other much. This year, we have been able to hang out a few times and that is always a highlight for me. I know there were comments about the heat, but it was a beautiful evening last night. Anyone denies that, they are crazy. We put up with scorching days for a few hours of really nice evenings. We saw Melissa at the Greek a month ago and that was an equally nice night.

I actually don't see many shows anymore. Not much money for the fun pool. So I restrict it to things I think I will truly enjoy. Thinking of seeing Lukather on Friday.

[artist4perry]

I will say one thing that struck me last night. Looking at that photo of her signing an autograph, and others I took at that same time, I thought how beautiful she looked, and vibrant. Best I have ever seen her look, in my opinion. She has handled the road, motherhood, and age very well. Wish I had those genes.

Regardless of the rude comments, some of us appreciate your sharing your fun with us. I imagine you come back with great memories!

Yea. With Lora in SF area and me down in LA, we don't get to see each other much. This year, we have been able to hang out a few times and that is always a highlight for me. I know there were comments about the heat, but it was a beautiful evening last night. Anyone denies that, they are crazy. We put up with scorching days for a few hours of really nice evenings. We saw Melissa at the Greek a month ago and that was an equally nice night.

I actually don't see many shows anymore. Not much money for the fun pool. So I restrict it to things I think I will truly enjoy. Thinking of seeing Lukather on Friday.

You guys are at a great advantage to see so many great shows. Not like we get alot here in the ARK N SaW. LOL! Even if I cannot go I enjoy hearing stories like yours. Don't let the idiots keep you from posting them. Have fun if you go to see Lukather!

[bluejeangirl76]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.

Wtf are you talking about? The thread started out talking about the CD signing - its IN the title - and a slam against gays was thrown out and THAT is what I initially bitched about. Whatever else came up later I had nothing to do with.

[Memorex]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.



Regardless of your implied anger, i've always been a Huge ME fan since her debut and continue to support her causes.

This is correct. I even went back to check to make sure I didn't screw up and wasn't an @sshole off the bat by hijacking a serious thread. I'm in the clear.

You should know when you are the only one at the party talking about something no one else wants to talk about. You're comments are lame at best. No need to reply to me as it should be evident no one really wants this crap in this topic. Feel free to start a thread and discuss all you want.

[bluejeangirl76]

I'm in the clear.

No you're not. You're FIRST post was:

"WoW!, Look at this!"(not that there's anything wrong with this). [/b]"

There IS something wrong with that.

I said no there wasn't and you went on to call M.E. names and join in on the jizz jokes, etc.
And 3 pages later, you're STILL doing it.

[Uno_up]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.

Wtf are you talking about? The thread started out talking about the CD signing - its IN the title - and a slam against gays was thrown out and THAT is what I initially bitched about. Whatever else came up later I had nothing to do with.

I was referencing cancer awareness...the only thing that can be taken as SERIOUS from this whole thread.

[Deb]

Cyndy told me some really cool stories about Melissa's relationship with her fans and I commend her greatly for that.

You are so right, Dan. Melissa is one of the most giving, caring, kind, honest and positive people I have ever been around. I love her music, her message, her talent and her spirit. If a few homophobes can't relate, that's their loss.

Probably the coolest one Cyndy told me was how M.E. will randomly ask a fan BY NAME how they're doing over the mic, either during a song or between. Little things like that make fans feel like a million bucks!!! I'd shit my pants if Arnel or SP ever said "Hey Dan, how are you enjoying the show tonight?" during or between a song!!!

For sure!

[Tito]

...it pissed me off and was offensive, not only in general but especially as an unnecessary slam when this thread was about something else altogether, so I replied.

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.

Wtf are you talking about? The thread started out talking about the CD signing - its IN the title - and a slam against gays was thrown out and THAT is what I initially bitched about. Whatever else came up later I had nothing to do with.

I was referencing cancer awareness...the only thing that can be taken as SERIOUS from this whole thread.

Thank you. That is what I was talking about. That wasn't brought up until after the fact.

[artist4perry]

To those that want to be crass, please leave the thread. I don't care about your reasoning, or that you think you are the most witty person and everyone must hear your input. If you have been asked to stop, show some class and do so.

[Tito]

To those that want to be crass, please leave the thread. I don't care about your reasoning, or that you think you are the most witty person and everyone must hear your input. If you have been asked to stop, show some class and do so.

I agree.

Who we talking about?

Oh. I'm leaving now.

[artist4perry]

To those that want to be crass, please leave the thread. I don't care about your reasoning, or that you think you are the most witty person and everyone must hear your input. If you have been asked to stop, show some class and do so.

I agree.

Who we talking about?

Oh. I'm leaving now.

Thank you.........

[bluejeangirl76]

Unless you're some kind of magical soothsayer, I call "BULLSHIT!" here, as it wasn't until the 33rd post of this thread that the reason for her appearance was divulged. Had this been known from the start, I doubt this thread would have gone offtrack.

Wtf are you talking about? The thread started out talking about the CD signing - its IN the title - and a slam against gays was thrown out and THAT is what I initially bitched about. Whatever else came up later I had nothing to do with.

I was referencing cancer awareness...the only thing that can be taken as SERIOUS from this whole thread.

That's fine, I was referring to something else that started before cancer awareness came up, so don't call b.s. on me. But since you brought up the cancer awareness point, you're right.

[Lula]

If a few homophobes can't relate, that's their loss.

Thank you.

I don't care for her music period. The other stuff is icing on the cake.

dude, you've got issues

[Uno_up]

Cyndy told me some really cool stories about Melissa's relationship with her fans and I commend her greatly for that.

You are so right, Dan. Melissa is one of the most giving, caring, kind, honest and positive people I have ever been around. I love her music, her message, her talent and her spirit. If a few homophobes can't relate, that's their loss.

Probably the coolest one Cyndy told me was how M.E. will randomly ask a fan BY NAME how they're doing over the mic, either during a song or between. Little things like that make fans feel like a million bucks!!! I'd shit my pants if Arnel or SP ever said "Hey Dan, how are you enjoying the show tonight?" during or between a song!!!

She winked at me...does that count?
True, she carried on at least a two minute conversation with some woman near me that looked like Hagar the Horrible's wife, after she spotted her sign that said "I came all the way from NORWAY to see you". She also talked to a few small kids that had a "OUR FIRST CONCERT" sign. SJ, bring a sign if you want to talk to her.

[Granny]

Hey Mike, it was so great hanging out with you, Ann & Deano (missed you Lula) last night. Melissa was her usual amazing self, signing autographs for over 350 fan club members and doing her part to shine a light on the fight against cancer. The event was held at the Hard Rock Cafe at Universal City and was the launch of Pinktober, as October is breast cancer awareness month. We had a blast, even in the 100+ degree heat.

Check out Melissa's Pink Page for breast cancer awareness info.

Lora, great pic of You, Cyndy and Dean...
I did my part for Pinktober...bought a set of PINK pots and pans for new apartment.
Donation went to Breast Cancer....

[artist4perry]

Hey Mike, it was so great hanging out with you, Ann & Deano (missed you Lula) last night. Melissa was her usual amazing self, signing autographs for over 350 fan club members and doing her part to shine a light on the fight against cancer. The event was held at the Hard Rock Cafe at Universal City and was the launch of Pinktober, as October is breast cancer awareness month. We had a blast, even in the 100+ degree heat.

Check out Melissa's Pink Page for breast cancer awareness info.

Lora, great pic of You, Cyndy and Dean...
I did my part for Pinktober...bought a set of PINK pots and pans for new apartment.
Donation went to Breast Cancer....

I am going in for a mamogram. I am way overdue. Again Lora, thanks for the Pink Link. It resides on both sides of my family. My mother and two aunts on my father's side. This might be good for many of the ladies on this site. If you are at high risk, take the time, put it on priority, and get yourself checked out.

[Don]

Hey Mike, it was so great hanging out with you, Ann & Deano (missed you Lula) last night. Melissa was her usual amazing self, signing autographs for over 350 fan club members and doing her part to shine a light on the fight against cancer. The event was held at the Hard Rock Cafe at Universal City and was the launch of Pinktober, as October is breast cancer awareness month. We had a blast, even in the 100+ degree heat.

Check out Melissa's Pink Page for breast cancer awareness info.

Lora, great pic of You, Cyndy and Dean...
I did my part for Pinktober...bought a set of PINK pots and pans for new apartment.
Donation went to Breast Cancer....

I am going in for a mamogram. I am way overdue. Again Lora, thanks for the Pink Link. It resides on both sides of my family. My mother and two aunts on my father's side. This might be good for many of the ladies on this site. If you are at high risk, take the time, put it on priority, and get yourself checked out.

Aren't you supposed to get checked once a year after 40?, like guy's getting their prostate checked annually after 50.

[Rhiannon]

I am going in for a mamogram. I am way overdue. Again Lora, thanks for the Pink Link. It resides on both sides of my family. My mother and two aunts on my father's side. This might be good for many of the ladies on this site. If you are at high risk, take the time, put it on priority, and get yourself checked out.

And remind everybody, too! It's genetic all through my maternal side. My Grandmother beat it just this year, she had a mastectomy in July. Doctors say she's good now! My Mom's sister beat it, and my Grandmother's sister, too. Early detection saves lives!!! Mammograms girls.

[Melissa]

Hey Mike, it was so great hanging out with you, Ann & Deano (missed you Lula) last night. Melissa was her usual amazing self, signing autographs for over 350 fan club members and doing her part to shine a light on the fight against cancer. The event was held at the Hard Rock Cafe at Universal City and was the launch of Pinktober, as October is breast cancer awareness month. We had a blast, even in the 100+ degree heat.

Check out Melissa's Pink Page for breast cancer awareness info.

Lora, great pic of You, Cyndy and Dean...
I did my part for Pinktober...bought a set of PINK pots and pans for new apartment.
Donation went to Breast Cancer....

I am going in for a mamogram. I am way overdue. Again Lora, thanks for the Pink Link. It resides on both sides of my family. My mother and two aunts on my father's side. This might be good for many of the ladies on this site. If you are at high risk, take the time, put it on priority, and get yourself checked out.

Aren't you supposed to get checked once a year after 40?, like guy's getting their prostate checked annually after 50.

Depends on your family history, I've been checked every 6 months since age 31, when it killed my mother. Now I have to go every 3 months instead, to a breast center and I'm followed closely by 2 breast surgeons now. Ultrasound every 3 months, diagnostic (the more painful one ) mammogram every 6 months, and MRI once a year. I'm supposed to be tested for the genes too, but haven't hopped on that yet, kind of nervewracking the decisions that have to be made if those are positive.

I'm sure you men love all this pink now huh? lol- just for October Sorry, didn't mean to start it, lol.

[StevePerryHair]

Hey Mike, it was so great hanging out with you, Ann & Deano (missed you Lula) last night. Melissa was her usual amazing self, signing autographs for over 350 fan club members and doing her part to shine a light on the fight against cancer. The event was held at the Hard Rock Cafe at Universal City and was the launch of Pinktober, as October is breast cancer awareness month. We had a blast, even in the 100+ degree heat.

Check out Melissa's Pink Page for breast cancer awareness info.

Lora, great pic of You, Cyndy and Dean...
I did my part for Pinktober...bought a set of PINK pots and pans for new apartment.
Donation went to Breast Cancer....

I am going in for a mamogram. I am way overdue. Again Lora, thanks for the Pink Link. It resides on both sides of my family. My mother and two aunts on my father's side. This might be good for many of the ladies on this site. If you are at high risk, take the time, put it on priority, and get yourself checked out.

Aren't you supposed to get checked once a year after 40?, like guy's getting their prostate checked annually after 50.

Depends on your family history, I've been checked every 6 months since age 31, when it killed my mother. Now I have to go every 3 months instead, to a breast center and I'm followed closely by 2 breast surgeons now. Ultrasound every 3 months, diagnostic (the more painful one ) mammogram every 6 months, and MRI once a year. I'm supposed to be tested for the genes too, but haven't hopped on that yet, kind of nervewracking the decisions that have to be made if those are positive.

I'm sure you men love all this pink now huh? lol- just for October Sorry, didn't mean to start it, lol.

And then the rest of us have to wait every 3 years, isn't that what it is? I had my baseline early so I'm not sure yet since I just turned 40 this year.