strangegrey wrote:It's still a travesty burying this piece of shit among solders that died for the flag that Fat Teddy was so hell bent on allowing people to burn...

Soldiers don't die for a flag. They die for an ideal of protecting their country and their people, or to protect their comrades in arms, sometimes for a political ideal, but most often they die because their job is to be a soldier, and one of the risks is getting killed. They don't want to, they don't expect to, but it's what happens when that is the job you took, for whatever reason. Dress it up with any jingoism you want, but Superman never joined the armed forces, ordinary men (and women) do, for ordinary reasons and not always willingly, and then they are sometimes required to do unbelievable, horrific, heroic and terrible things, one of which is dying. NO ONE dies for a piece of painted cloth, they
might die for what it symbolises to them. That burning bit of cloth is also just a symbol, of the anger and the hurt about what a beloved country has been allowed to become.
If Kennedy had stood in front of a bunch of veterans and told them they were murdering scum of the earth, or tried to cut off their benefits, deprive them of their earned rights to health care and support from the government of the country they served (and for all I know, he did) then by all means scream blue murder that he is to be buried with them. But to stand up for a person's right to disagree with their government? To protest at what their nation is doing? To commit a symbolic act that expresses a person's despair at what their nation has become? Funnily enough, that sounds to me like something Americans tend to be pretty proud of as one of their rights - the right to challenge their government and to express their anger and outrage.
But what would I know - I'm just an Aussie who waved goodbye to the man she fell in love with so he could go serve his country in a war zone.
(And before anyone jumps all over me about it - someone wants to burn the Aussie flag or the Union Jack - yup, I'll support their right to do it, but I'll also tell them they're a fucking idiot to do it and there are better ways of going about it. Someone wants to spray paint a swastica over the local taxation office as a form of protest, I'll support their right to do, and I'll support the building owner's right to expect them to pay to get it cleaned off. Someone wants to burn a white cross on my black neighbour's lawn? I hate it with every fibre of my being, but I'll support their right to do it - and absolutely support my neighbour's right to have that person charged with trespass, criminal damage and harrassment, and I'll support the right of any person to make their outrage at the cross-burner known by screaming blue murder - hell, I'll even hand out the rotten eggs.
Protest isn't just about yelling your point of view - it HAS to include accepting the consequences of the action for it to be meaningful, be that criminal punishment, social exclusion, or whatever. You can't have one without the other.)
Why treat life as a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving in an attractive & well-preserved body? Get there by skidding in sideways, a glass of wine in one hand, chocolate in the other, body totally worn out, screaming WOOHOO! What a ride!