Who Really Cares About "Uniting" Journey Fans...No

I've tried to stay out of this whole "apology" thing, but can do so no longer! Who really gives a rat's ass about "uniting" BT and MR? I certainly don't and never will. People say "We're all Journey" fans. I say SO FUCKING WHAT! What the hell does that have to do with anything? I've been a Red Sox fan most of my life, and certainly don't feel compelled to be friends with every Red Sox fan on the planet! The reality is that we're all VERY different people from VERY different worlds, and that will never change. As Lula expressed earlier, we all have very different senses of humor as well!
The one thing I really have an issue with is this "holier than thou", sanctimonious attitude I see from Balktalkers about how awful MR is and how much they're bashed here. The reality is that the only reason I ever even heard about this site was because of the constant bashing I used to see on BT when I was a member on that site! Many people on that site have always been a bit annoyed that Andrew has Journey news before the "official" site gets the news, and have expressed as much. I say so what...If you know the news about your favorite band is here first, come and read it. Andrew was the one who took the high road and decided to wait until Journey had an "official" announcement about their lead singer, before publishing the interviews he had with the guys, weeks ago, and the guy still gets shit for that!
There is a very simple solution for all of us. If you don't like BT, don't post on the site! If you don't like MR, don't post on this site. I can tell you that as soon as I found out there was a Journey forum I could visit, and actually express my honest opinions about my favorite band, I never posted on BT again! I simply grew tired of the nonsense of not being able to express any opinions without 10 people whining about it or getting an email from a mod, telling me that I should probably change my opinion! The only reason I stayed on that site as long as I did was that I felt it was my only option to talk about Journey!
BT and MR cater to two VERY different groups of people, and that is how it should be. If you're someone who finds some vulgarity to be distasteful, you'll probably find BT to be a fine place to hang out. If you're someone who enjoys a good laugh, and prefer to discuss things, other than wiggles and red leather pants, you'll probably find MR to be a bit more palatable!
I think something worth mentioning is that people really take any of this shit FAR too seriously! This is an internet message board, folks! Nobody here is curing cancer, ending world hunger, or bringing our troops home from Iraq! These boards are meant to be light-hearted and an escape from the real world, and nothing more than that! If you're taking things more seriously, it may be time for a new hobby! I can't say that I'm all that surprised about the mods response to Dean's apology. I've been saying for years that most of that group thinks their place in this world is FAR more significant than it will ever be. Their response simply affirmed what I've always believed! I think instead of calling a "truce" next time, we should just have members of BT stay on their boards, and we'll stay on our boards! Honestly, after being on both boards, I don't know why members on this site would ever want to post on BT, with the way that site is currently operated. I also don't know why member of BT would ever want to post here. If we stay out of each other's way, Andrew can have some peace and quiet in his life and not be forced into referee mode! Okay...my rant is over (for now!)
John from Boston
The one thing I really have an issue with is this "holier than thou", sanctimonious attitude I see from Balktalkers about how awful MR is and how much they're bashed here. The reality is that the only reason I ever even heard about this site was because of the constant bashing I used to see on BT when I was a member on that site! Many people on that site have always been a bit annoyed that Andrew has Journey news before the "official" site gets the news, and have expressed as much. I say so what...If you know the news about your favorite band is here first, come and read it. Andrew was the one who took the high road and decided to wait until Journey had an "official" announcement about their lead singer, before publishing the interviews he had with the guys, weeks ago, and the guy still gets shit for that!
There is a very simple solution for all of us. If you don't like BT, don't post on the site! If you don't like MR, don't post on this site. I can tell you that as soon as I found out there was a Journey forum I could visit, and actually express my honest opinions about my favorite band, I never posted on BT again! I simply grew tired of the nonsense of not being able to express any opinions without 10 people whining about it or getting an email from a mod, telling me that I should probably change my opinion! The only reason I stayed on that site as long as I did was that I felt it was my only option to talk about Journey!
BT and MR cater to two VERY different groups of people, and that is how it should be. If you're someone who finds some vulgarity to be distasteful, you'll probably find BT to be a fine place to hang out. If you're someone who enjoys a good laugh, and prefer to discuss things, other than wiggles and red leather pants, you'll probably find MR to be a bit more palatable!
I think something worth mentioning is that people really take any of this shit FAR too seriously! This is an internet message board, folks! Nobody here is curing cancer, ending world hunger, or bringing our troops home from Iraq! These boards are meant to be light-hearted and an escape from the real world, and nothing more than that! If you're taking things more seriously, it may be time for a new hobby! I can't say that I'm all that surprised about the mods response to Dean's apology. I've been saying for years that most of that group thinks their place in this world is FAR more significant than it will ever be. Their response simply affirmed what I've always believed! I think instead of calling a "truce" next time, we should just have members of BT stay on their boards, and we'll stay on our boards! Honestly, after being on both boards, I don't know why members on this site would ever want to post on BT, with the way that site is currently operated. I also don't know why member of BT would ever want to post here. If we stay out of each other's way, Andrew can have some peace and quiet in his life and not be forced into referee mode! Okay...my rant is over (for now!)
John from Boston