Rip Rokken wrote:scarygirl wrote:I've seen this website. I would never do it. The website that is. I'd die if an employer saw it. I want them, but i'll pay for them myself. No man required.
This is unrelated to your comment, but it reminded me of girls I hear who say, "I didn't do this to be stared at... I did it for myself." RIGHT!!! If there weren't guys around to appreciate them, they wouldn't even wear makeup to work, much less get any kind of enhancement.
I don't totally agree with that. I believe there are a good percentage of women who do it to make themselves feel better about how they look not be STARED AT. If that translates to a man noticing her in her newly aquired confidence then that's just icing on the cake. However, there are a number of women due to media images of so called normal that begin to feel that they themselves aren't normal and will seek out the surgery as a way of correcting a perceived deformity. Men and women alike can be quite cruel to those that are different without taking into account the hormonal variations that made that person different in the first place. There are lots of women, who are as or are even more so as flat chested chested as most men. It's just not glamorized. It's nothing to be ashamed of, that's how God for whatever reason made them.
There are men who say that they don't care about such things, but when you really question them you'll find if they had a choice between "something" and "nothing", they'll choose the "something" everytime. Men are visual creatures sad but true. Why else do you see so many ugly ass men and beautiful women? Not saying it can't and doesn't happen, but typically if a male doesn't like the visual presentation he won't ask you out. Doesn't matter how smart or funny you are. Of course, I'm talking in generalizations here....
This surgery like a lot of things in life is very personal. Although this so called FREE IMPLANT website is something I wouldn't personally do, I understand why some women might feel desperate enough to do such a thing. I know with myself, it has been a long running joke with family and friends that if I can't save the money I might resort to the money jar with my picture on it at the gas station route with the caption, "Please sir, I want some more."
