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This is NOT a thread to piss people off, just a thread out of curiosity! How many of you think that someone who's new to the Forum (say under a year, or even 6 months), should be able to come in here and be disrespectful to others in here who have been here for quite a while? Should thread count even count? Does your post count matter at all? Do the countless hours you spend on this forum count when it comes to newcomers? I guess this is all subjective, but I'm just curious to see what the general opinion is...

Post count does not reflect how long someone has been here.

Many people post much and say nothing. Personally, I think the post count should be removed.

G.I.Jim wrote:This is NOT a thread to piss people off, just a thread out of curiosity! How many of you think that someone who's new to the Forum (say under a year, or even 6 months), should be able to come in here and be disrespectful to others in here who have been here for quite a while? Should thread count even count? Does your post count matter at all? Do the countless hours you spend on this forum count when it comes to newcomers? I guess this is all subjective, but I'm just curious to see what the general opinion is...

I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

I'm with you on the naked part...I'm already there! I do think that spending countless hours on here, being friends to several others that spend those same hours here counts for something though! Maybe it's just because I'm military minded, but I'm used to the concept of seniority. I think if you invest the hours and time to get to know people here, it should count for something. That's not to say that I think it should count as a free pass though! If someone's being a serious ass, it doesn't matter HOW long they've been here. JMHO.

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

nolippin wrote:
Many people post much and say nothing.

Hot damn..thought of the year..

Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

G.I.Jim wrote:

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

Being a newbie here myself I think anybody should be able to come in here and post their own opinions so long as they are respectful of everybody. With that said it would be nice if everybody was respectful of everybody else. We all have opinions, that does not mean that ours is the right or wrong it just means that we think and or feel a certain way.

Rich the Newbie

Well, it definitely goes both ways.

For those of us that have been around for awhile,
we do take offense when some newb comes in here
and just starts slinging shit for the sake of having some
fun or srarting trouble. Most times it's a lack of knowing
"how things work here" or they just don't have good
"Forum Ettiquette". Given some time, we all learn the ropes.

But all of us vets have to be nice to the newbs too
Like me, how many of you out there are hesitant to interact with
newbs right away? It's hard to distinguish who is genuine and who
is a reject from other boards using different names, some times multiple,
just looking to stir shit up. but I at least try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Their true colors eventually unfold...

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

Me too! Just kidding.

I agree with you on post counts not counting for anything........somebody that posts alot doesn't mean they are on the board any more than some lurkers. Some people may come on and post a whirlwind of posts to catch up on things and then be off........same token, some people may read these boards for hours and never post. So I don't believe you can go on post count for how much time somebody spends on the board. I think any newbies who have lurked for any amount of time know what the board is about and gets a feel for who is who.......or at least if they were smart they would get a feel for the board first. This board is GREAT, it's like a little community of like minded people with a passion for melodicrock music......so ya of course anybody jumping in first time to attack a long timer is going to be put in their place. There is a way to deliver your opinions and way not to.

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

G.I.Jim wrote:

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

You're making vary valid points Nolippin. Quality posts should mean more.

I know personally, I tend to act like a big brother (and get in other's business) when I feel that someone I like is wronged. I know I need to just let people do what they will, but I guess it reminds me of high school a little....I was always the one to stand up for others when I thought they were threatened. I got in several fights for people who couldn't fight back, and I guess I just held onto that after all these years. I need to just let people settle their own differences. I'm not just saying this because of last night, but I've noticed that I do it quite a bit in here...I'm going to make a concerted effort to stop!

BTW, If anyone needs me to kick some ass (outside of here of course), just let me know!

Deb wrote:

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

Me too! Just kidding.

Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

G.I.Jim wrote:

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

G.I.Jim wrote:

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

You're making vary valid points Nolippin. Quality posts should mean more.

I know personally, I tend to act like a big brother (and get in other's business) when I feel that someone I like is wronged. I know I need to just let people do what they will, but I guess it reminds me of high school a little....I was always the one to stand up for others when I thought they were threatened. I got in several fights for people who couldn't fight back, and I guess I just held onto that after all these years. I need to just let people settle their own differences. I'm not just saying this because of last night, but I've noticed that I do it quite a bit in here...I'm going to make a concerted effort to stop!

BTW, If anyone needs me to kick some ass (outside of here of course), just let me know!

nolippin wrote:Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

G.I.Jim wrote:

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

G.I.Jim wrote:

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

You're making vary valid points Nolippin. Quality posts should mean more.

I know personally, I tend to act like a big brother (and get in other's business) when I feel that someone I like is wronged. I know I need to just let people do what they will, but I guess it reminds me of high school a little....I was always the one to stand up for others when I thought they were threatened. I got in several fights for people who couldn't fight back, and I guess I just held onto that after all these years. I need to just let people settle their own differences. I'm not just saying this because of last night, but I've noticed that I do it quite a bit in here...I'm going to make a concerted effort to stop!

BTW, If anyone needs me to kick some ass (outside of here of course), just let me know!

Agreed. I'll tell you what happened last night though.....Lots of work-related stress, and BEER!!! I'm drinking tonight too, but I'm in pre-birthday mode. Tomorrows my birthday. I promise to behave tonight as long as everyone agrees with me! Just JOKING!

G.I.Jim wrote:

nolippin wrote:Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

G.I.Jim wrote:

nolippin wrote:Same here. I lurked before joining for years. Look at when you joined and when I joined and note the difference in post count.

What I feel is out of line is when people act like their opinion is worth more because they post more. It may only be because they have more time on their hands. I think quality of post should matter, too. Many posts are nothing but "me, too"s or emoticons. That's why I discount the number of posts entirely.

G.I.Jim wrote:

Since 78 wrote:I definitely think you should be able to post naked regardless of your thread count And Ive personally never been disrespectful to anyone. Ummm O.K. there was that " Your Mom Thing "

On your point Nolippin', I agree that we really DON'T know how long people have been lurking here. I was present probably 4-5 years ago, but never got interested enough to sign up until a couple of years ago. Maybe I should have added the option that "Lurking" time should be included in the count? I know there's plenty of them here!

You're making vary valid points Nolippin. Quality posts should mean more.

I know personally, I tend to act like a big brother (and get in other's business) when I feel that someone I like is wronged. I know I need to just let people do what they will, but I guess it reminds me of high school a little....I was always the one to stand up for others when I thought they were threatened. I got in several fights for people who couldn't fight back, and I guess I just held onto that after all these years. I need to just let people settle their own differences. I'm not just saying this because of last night, but I've noticed that I do it quite a bit in here...I'm going to make a concerted effort to stop!

BTW, If anyone needs me to kick some ass (outside of here of course), just let me know!

Agreed. I'll tell you what happened last night though.....Lots of work-related stress, and BEER!!! I'm drinking tonight too, but I'm in pre-birthday mode. Tomorrows my birthday. I promise to behave tonight as long as everyone agrees with me! Just JOKING!

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!! Cheers!!!

Hey!! we need one of those MYSPACE Birthday reminder things! Thoughts?

Thanks!!! I appreciate it. I'm having a party of one at the moment (everyone else is asleep), but it sure is fun!

Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

I agree wholeheartedly. There was a major clique that existed here for far too long. As much as I enjoyed these forums I always felt I'd get shouted down if I didn't toe the party line. Seemingly some of them are now gone. As a long time lurker, that was an impetus for me to start posting at least a little bit. Personally, I'd never run up much of a post count regardless, but it's cool to share some opinions every once in awhile. Thanks all!

Allied Forces wrote:

Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

I agree wholeheartedly. There was a major clique that existed here for far too long. As much as I enjoyed these forums I always felt I'd get shouted down if I didn't toe the party line. Seemingly some of them are now gone. As a long time lurker, that was an impetus for me to start posting at least a little bit. Personally, I'd never run up much of a post count regardless, but it's cool to share some opinions every once in awhile. Thanks all!

Thanks for your input man, and I enjoy your posts. I agree with what you said about the Cliques. I think a lot of people felt the same way. Again, I apologize for last night. I re-read some of my posts, and I came across as a serious ass!

Well, back to my party-of-one!

G.I.Jim wrote:

Allied Forces wrote:

Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

I agree wholeheartedly. There was a major clique that existed here for far too long. As much as I enjoyed these forums I always felt I'd get shouted down if I didn't toe the party line. Seemingly some of them are now gone. As a long time lurker, that was an impetus for me to start posting at least a little bit. Personally, I'd never run up much of a post count regardless, but it's cool to share some opinions every once in awhile. Thanks all!

Thanks for your input man, and I enjoy your posts. I agree with what you said about the Cliques. I think a lot of people felt the same way. Again, I apologize for last night. I re-read some of my posts, and I came across as a serious ass!

Well, back to my party-of-one!

Dude, No need to apologize. Some of the crap around here gets old and sometimes you just gotta say what you think. I didn't think it was out of line at all. But back to the Party

Since 78 wrote:

G.I.Jim wrote:

Allied Forces wrote:

Thanks!

I don't know what happened last night. I've never been a fan of the "piling on" stuff. People should be allowed to express their agreement or disagreement with anyone...regardless of how "popular" they are...without feeling like they're going to be jumped on. Of course, it should all be done with respect. That just goes without saying.

I agree wholeheartedly. There was a major clique that existed here for far too long. As much as I enjoyed these forums I always felt I'd get shouted down if I didn't toe the party line. Seemingly some of them are now gone. As a long time lurker, that was an impetus for me to start posting at least a little bit. Personally, I'd never run up much of a post count regardless, but it's cool to share some opinions every once in awhile. Thanks all!

Thanks for your input man, and I enjoy your posts. I agree with what you said about the Cliques. I think a lot of people felt the same way. Again, I apologize for last night. I re-read some of my posts, and I came across as a serious ass!

Well, back to my party-of-one!

Dude, No need to apologize. Some of the crap around here gets old and sometimes you just gotta say what you think. I didn't think it was out of line at all. But back to the Party

WooHoo!!! Only problem is....I've drank almost all of my beer! Why do they only put 12 in a 12 pack???? Seems like some fuzzy math to me!

G.I.Jim wrote: Thanks for your input man, and I enjoy your posts. I agree with what you said about the Cliques. I think a lot of people felt the same way.

I trust everyone is happy at this point in time?

Andrew wrote:

G.I.Jim wrote: Thanks for your input man, and I enjoy your posts. I agree with what you said about the Cliques. I think a lot of people felt the same way.

I trust everyone is happy at this point in time?

Very much so! That is...as long as people are saying things that I agree with! JUST joking. I think it's been pretty relaxed around here lately. I think some may say a little TOO uneventfull, but I'm good! BTW, I'm completely out of beer now!

I don't like when noobs come in guns blazing, but I also don't think thousands of posts give someone the right to play Internet Tough Guy for no real reason.

The amount of post you have doesn't earn my respect for you. Treating me with respect does. It will get you the same in return.

Sassie wrote:The amount of post you have doesn't earn my respect for you. Treating me with respect does. It will get you the same in return.

And if we don't, will get sassy with us?

Sarah wrote:I don't like when noobs come in guns blazing, but I also don't think thousands of posts give someone the right to play Internet Tough Guy for no real reason.

That's a well balanced statement. I agree.

I sure will!

i can't even remember most of my posts to begin with.hell some days i've woke up and thought gosh darn did i really write that,lol.

my vote was for I believe God gave us 1 ear, and 2 mouths for a reason.

Sassie wrote:The amount of post you have doesn't earn my respect for you. Treating me with respect does. It will get you the same in return.

Well said...that's exactly how I feel.