OT | Job Offer?

Just thought I'd do a little poll this evening as something's been nagging at me the past day or so...
So here's a scenario:
You're an engineer....You've been approached by a headhunting firm who claims a large international engineering firm is interested in hiring you. They want to meet with you, and interview you at your job. So the CEO and CFO fly out to your office in Minneapolis and your interview goes great. So great, in fact, that they terminate the person in the position they would hire you for, and invite your family out to their headquarters in Boston and meet with the board members.
You and your family fly out to Boston, where you are wined and dined by the chairman of the board. Later that week, you meet with the board and they offer you a dollar amount in salary, as well as bonuses, and give you a start date. After ironing out a few details, you agree that you're all on the same page, and you fly back to MN. Later in the week, the payroll department describes the terms of your payment, and you fill out the appropriate tax forms.
Unfortunately, shortly after all of this takes place, one of the officers of the company reveals some troubling information about the stability of the company, and you ultimately decide to withdraw from consideration.
So. Later you find out the company denies an offer was ever made to you, and you end up looking like a fool. Luckily you have phone messages, voice mails, and emails that document the entire process. However, you ultimately find yourself branded a liar despite all of this....
I'm still trying to wrap my brain around this one...At some point in this process, wouldn't it be safe to say that an offer HAD been made? Especially around the time where money, start date, and first paychecks were discussed and agreed on?? I'm a little brain dead and confused about this whole issue today...
Anyway, opinions? And, yes, this is all hypothetical and has nothing to do with real life.
So here's a scenario:
You're an engineer....You've been approached by a headhunting firm who claims a large international engineering firm is interested in hiring you. They want to meet with you, and interview you at your job. So the CEO and CFO fly out to your office in Minneapolis and your interview goes great. So great, in fact, that they terminate the person in the position they would hire you for, and invite your family out to their headquarters in Boston and meet with the board members.
You and your family fly out to Boston, where you are wined and dined by the chairman of the board. Later that week, you meet with the board and they offer you a dollar amount in salary, as well as bonuses, and give you a start date. After ironing out a few details, you agree that you're all on the same page, and you fly back to MN. Later in the week, the payroll department describes the terms of your payment, and you fill out the appropriate tax forms.
Unfortunately, shortly after all of this takes place, one of the officers of the company reveals some troubling information about the stability of the company, and you ultimately decide to withdraw from consideration.
So. Later you find out the company denies an offer was ever made to you, and you end up looking like a fool. Luckily you have phone messages, voice mails, and emails that document the entire process. However, you ultimately find yourself branded a liar despite all of this....
I'm still trying to wrap my brain around this one...At some point in this process, wouldn't it be safe to say that an offer HAD been made? Especially around the time where money, start date, and first paychecks were discussed and agreed on?? I'm a little brain dead and confused about this whole issue today...
Anyway, opinions? And, yes, this is all hypothetical and has nothing to do with real life.