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OT: Social Networking: An Internet Addiction?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 9:51 am
by Voyager
Do you spend much time on sites like MySpace, Facebook, and Twitter? I don't. I tend to prefer posting on forums like this one where you can have an open discussion. But any type of social networking can be addicting, including this forum.

(CBS) Social networking Web sites like MySpace and Facebook have never been more popular. As CBS News National Correspondent Hattie Kauffman reports, some worry the sites are perhaps too popular... maybe even addicting.

Students busily typing on their laptops are a common site on campuses like UCLA. But could it be they're avoiding a textbook by logging onto Facebook?

"I'm wondering if you've ever thought, 'Am I spending too much time on these sites?'" asks Kauffman.

"Yes. I have thought that!" graduate student Jessica Doing admits. "I've been trying to finish my thesis for awhile now, and Facebook, being on the computer -- it's sort of addictive."

Herman Rosiles Rodrigues, a 21-year-old graphic design major agrees.

"There were nights where I, like, spent the entire night just, like, customizing my page."

On Web sites like Facebook and MySpace, users can instantly see what their friends online are doing and can keep them updated on their every move. Most users know it's not a substitute for face-to-face communication, but they say it's the next best thing.

"Friends are kind of scattered all around the country," says graduate student Chris Beitel. "So it's just kind of nice to be able to keep in touch with people."

MySpace says a quarter of all Americans use the site, with 300,000 more joining every day.

"It's a really comprehensive snapshot of what everyone that's important to your life is doing at any given time," says MySpace co-founder Chris DeWolfe.

"I think what kids and what adults are doing with Facebook and MySpace, is they're extending their sense of identity, their sense of self," says Psychiatrist Dr. Jerald Block.

Dr. Block treats patients who use the Internet excessively -- more than 30 or 40 hours a week. Studies suggest Internet addicts' number in the millions.

"It's not just involving the Internet," Block says. "It involves the computer more generally. You can be checking e-mail excessively; you can be playing computer games excessively."

Not to worry, says the co-founder of MySpace.

"I don't think it's a concern at all," DeWolfe says. "I think it's more substitutional. People are spending less time watching television, and they're spending more time on MySpace."
Users say they end up connecting with many more people than they otherwise would; however, some wonder if all that instant information has a down side.

"It can really get addicting," admits Adriana Manago, a graduate student in psychology. "You start to want to stalk people. You kind of follow their every move. People who normally wouldn't be stalkers might even find themselves kind of following people online."

So where's the dividing line between having fun and having an addiction? CNET.com Senior Editor Natali del Conte says the American Psychiatric Association is starting to recognize Internet addiction as a real affliction.

There are signs. Del Conte says if you find you can't function in your real life without the social networks, then there's a problem.

How can you prevent Internet addiction? Del Conte offers a few recommendations:

Set limits: Associate your social network as a leisure activity, not something you need to accomplish every day. Set aside a time of day, for example your lunch or coffee break, to visit the sites.

Turn off e-mail notifications: Many sites send e-mail alerts when someone posts a message on your social networking page. Getting lots of these e-mail alerts can tempt you to visit the sites more often, so its best to disable this feature.

Don't leave your social networks open: People using tabbed Internet browsers may tend to leave windows open. It's best to close out those windows when you are through with your alloted time. Del Conte says Salary.com released a study last year that found, on average, Americans are spending 1.7 hours of their work day fooling around on the Internet.

Don't network on your phone: Many social networking sites have mobile applications. If you feel you are on the verge of addiction, you should ask yourself if you really need this on your phone.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 9:54 am
by G.I.Jim
I'm here WAY too much. :shock: :lol: I bounce between here, WTF, and Myspace. I spend MUCH more time on here though.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 9:57 am
by Voyager
I found this excerpt of the article interesting:

Del Conte says Salary.com released a study last year that found, on average, Americans are spending 1.7 hours of their work day fooling around on the Internet.


I wonder how many paid working hours each month are spent by people posting on just this forum? I would guess it's in the thousands of hours each month.

If only Andrew could get a small percentage of those paid hours for maintaining the site, he would get rich.

:lol:

Re: OT: Social Networking: An Internet Addiction?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:05 am
by Sarah
Voyager wrote:
Herman Rosiles Rodrigues, a 21-year-old graphic design major agrees.

HOLY SHIT I KNOW THAT GUY.

Re: OT: Social Networking: An Internet Addiction?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:07 am
by Voyager
Sarah wrote:
Voyager wrote:
Herman Rosiles Rodrigues, a 21-year-old graphic design major agrees.

HOLY SHIT I KNOW THAT GUY.


Don't tell me.... he's one of your Facebook contacts?

:lol: :lol:

Re: OT: Social Networking: An Internet Addiction?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:10 am
by Sarah
Voyager wrote:
Sarah wrote:
Voyager wrote:
Herman Rosiles Rodrigues, a 21-year-old graphic design major agrees.

HOLY SHIT I KNOW THAT GUY.


Don't tell me.... he's one of your Facebook contacts?

:lol: :lol:

Not anymore apparently... he was a coworker when I was at UCLA but I just looked and he seems to have un-friended me and nearly all of our mutual friends. Mean.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:18 am
by brandonx76
Yeah, Facebook has really taken off - Lots of people I knew who hated Myspace signed up for Facebook...This site is a bit of a different concept - (forums have been around for some time longer than the Myspace/Facebook thing)..

As far as an addiction, i think that's an over simplification...there's a time and place, but the more convenient it becomes to communicate, I think is interesting...Similar to the concept of 'texting', facebooking and twitter offer a simplified approach to traditional face to face or phone call discussions...Why bother to have a full fledged conversation with someone when you can send a brief 128 character message and be done with it?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:27 am
by JasonD
For me I think the answer is obvious. I've only been here a couple of months & I've already accumulated 400+ post. Addiction, most definately. Godfather, Andrew, got me hooked man. He dangled that smack in front of my face. He lured me into his cartel? I had to have it. "Try it," my peers said, "One time ain't gonna hurt ya, dude." So I did. Now I got a monkey on my back. I'm hooked. I need a fix two or three times a day. Oh sure, I tell myself I can stop anytime. I even tried going cold turkey, but after a couple hours without my fix I get the chills & then later I break out in beads of sweat. My body starts to shake. My vision gets blurry. Before you know it, I'm back on the smack----indulging in pure internet ecstacy till the next time I come crashing down to earth. :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:34 am
by Rick
JasonD wrote:For me I think the answer is obvious. I've only been here a couple of months & I've already accumulated 400+ post. Addiction, most definately. Godfather, Andrew, got me hooked man. He dangled that smack in front of my face. He lured me into his cartel? I had to have it. "Try it," my peers said, "One time ain't gonna hurt ya, dude." So I did. Now I got a monkey on my back. I'm hooked. I need a fix two or three times a day. Oh sure, I tell myself I can stop anytime. I even tried going cold turkey, but after a couple hours without my fix I get the chills & then later I break out in beads of sweat. My body starts to shake. My vision gets blurry. Before you know it, I'm back on the smack----indulging in pure internet ecstacy till the next time I come crashing down to earth. :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted:


Yep, it's like that. :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:40 am
by Voyager
There's even a forum for weed smokers at marijuana.com that gets thousands of pothead posts a day by stoners from all over the world. They add the weed forum to their list of addictions... LOL.

Errr... not that I go there or anything.

:wink:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:47 am
by Babyblue
JasonD wrote:For me I think the answer is obvious. I've only been here a couple of months & I've already accumulated 400+ post. Addiction, most definately. Godfather, Andrew, got me hooked man. He dangled that smack in front of my face. He lured me into his cartel? I had to have it. "Try it," my peers said, "One time ain't gonna hurt ya, dude." So I did. Now I got a monkey on my back. I'm hooked. I need a fix two or three times a day. Oh sure, I tell myself I can stop anytime. I even tried going cold turkey, but after a couple hours without my fix I get the chills & then later I break out in beads of sweat. My body starts to shake. My vision gets blurry. Before you know it, I'm back on the smack----indulging in pure internet ecstacy till the next time I come crashing down to earth. :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted:


So true in many ways. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:54 am
by artist4perry
I likes it here........you is good peoples. Image

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 10:58 am
by Deacon
artist4perry wrote:I likes it here........you is good peoples. Image


All except me, amirite? :lol: :lol: :twisted:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:01 am
by artist4perry
Deacon wrote:
artist4perry wrote:I likes it here........you is good peoples. Image


All except me, amirite? :lol: :lol: :twisted:


I loves ya too Deacon.........insecure much?ImageImage

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:09 am
by Voyager
25 votes so far and not even one MySpace user? Looks like that thing has been kicked to the curb.

I think it's still a big thing for musicians and bands though.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:17 am
by artist4perry
I don't post and work. I post on my time at home. You gotta watch small children............closely. Image

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:23 am
by JasonD
artist4perry wrote:I don't post and work. I post on my time at home. You gotta watch small children............closely. Image



I post at work, at home, eating breakfast, watching tv, on the toilet, in the shower, mowing the lawn, making love...... Okay, maybe not that last one. :wink: :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:23 am
by youkeepmewaiting
Voyager wrote:25 votes so far and not even one MySpace user? Looks like that thing has been kicked to the curb.

I think it's still a big thing for musicians and bands though.

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MySpace is fantastic for finding new bands and artist and keeping up on tour schedules etc. Few people seem to use it for "friends" anymore

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:36 am
by artist4perry
JasonD wrote:
artist4perry wrote:I don't post and work. I post on my time at home. You gotta watch small children............closely. Image



I post at work, at home, eating breakfast, watching tv, on the toilet, in the shower, mowing the lawn, making love...... Okay, maybe not that last one. :wink: :lol:


So that is why you spewed your Cheerios all over the keyboard the other day? Don't eat Cheerios and type...........a bit of a messy endeavor............Image

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:40 am
by JasonD
artist4perry wrote:
JasonD wrote:
artist4perry wrote:I don't post and work. I post on my time at home. You gotta watch small children............closely. Image



I post at work, at home, eating breakfast, watching tv, on the toilet, in the shower, mowing the lawn, making love...... Okay, maybe not that last one. :wink: :lol:


So that is why you spewed your Cheerios all over the keyboard the other day? Don't eat Cheerios and type...........a bit of a messy endeavor............Image


Coulda been worse. I coulda been mowing the lawn. OUCH! --- there goes my foot!!! :shock: :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:41 am
by artist4perry
JasonD wrote:
artist4perry wrote:
JasonD wrote:
artist4perry wrote:I don't post and work. I post on my time at home. You gotta watch small children............closely. Image



I post at work, at home, eating breakfast, watching tv, on the toilet, in the shower, mowing the lawn, making love...... Okay, maybe not that last one. :wink: :lol:


So that is why you spewed your Cheerios all over the keyboard the other day? Don't eat Cheerios and type...........a bit of a messy endeavor............Image


Coulda been worse. I coulda been mowing the lawn. OUCH! --- there goes my foot!!! :shock: :lol:



Multi-tasking.........my favorite past time.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:45 am
by Voyager
youkeepmewaiting wrote:
Voyager wrote:25 votes so far and not even one MySpace user? Looks like that thing has been kicked to the curb.

I think it's still a big thing for musicians and bands though.

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MySpace is fantastic for finding new bands and artist and keeping up on tour schedules etc. Few people seem to use it for "friends" anymore


I'm starting to get social networking overload. Trying to keep up my MySpace musician's page is enough work, now I keep getting FaceBook email requests and I will have to play the game of adding friends and keeping up with that shit again - most of it being redundant with my MySpace page. I couldn't believe how FaceBook displays a log all of your friends' comments to each other and allows you to read everything they say to each other... that could be addicting in itself (not to mention an invasion of privacy). I'm not sure I'm going to make the FaceBook leap. I spend too much time online as it is, especially with my business being online.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:52 am
by youkeepmewaiting
Voyager wrote:
youkeepmewaiting wrote:
Voyager wrote:25 votes so far and not even one MySpace user? Looks like that thing has been kicked to the curb.

I think it's still a big thing for musicians and bands though.

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MySpace is fantastic for finding new bands and artist and keeping up on tour schedules etc. Few people seem to use it for "friends" anymore


I'm starting to get social networking overload. Trying to keep up my MySpace musician's page is enough work, now I keep getting FaceBook email requests and I will have to play the game of adding friends and keeping up with that shit again - most of it being redundant with my MySpace page. I couldn't believe how FaceBook displays a log all of your friends' comments to each other and allows you to read everything they say to each other... that could be addicting in itself (not to mention an invasion of privacy). I'm not sure I'm going to make the FaceBook leap. I spend too much time online as it is, especially with my business being online.

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I dont think that exist online 8)

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:57 am
by Lula
facebook and mr for me. signed up for twitter, but haven't gone there since. myspace, eh never liked it.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:03 pm
by youkeepmewaiting
Lula wrote:facebook and mr for me. signed up for twitter, but haven't gone there since. myspace, eh never liked it.


Same as me for Twitter. I jumped on the bandwagon.. and then jumped off 5 minutes later.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:46 pm
by mikemarrs
mainly forums for me.never could get into the facebook or myspace.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:51 pm
by Chubby321
I am addicted to this forum and other forums because I am so addicted to Arnel Pineda.

Being an avid fan is not and will not be my cup of tea...well that's what I thought....until Arnel came into the picture.

I used to tell my kids that it's not healthy to spend so much time in the computer....well look at me now. :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:53 pm
by Rick
mikemarrs wrote:mainly forums for me.never could get into the facebook or myspace.


Facebook kicks ass. I've found people on there that I haven't seen since I was a kid.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:56 pm
by JasonD
Rick wrote:
mikemarrs wrote:mainly forums for me.never could get into the facebook or myspace.


Facebook kicks ass. I've found people on there that I haven't seen since I was a kid.



What is the "Facebook" of which you all speak?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 1:12 pm
by G.I.Jim
Rick wrote:
mikemarrs wrote:mainly forums for me.never could get into the facebook or myspace.


Facebook kicks ass. I've found people on there that I haven't seen since I was a kid.


Damn Rick...those people are still ALIVE??? :shock: :lol: :lol: You know I'm just messing with you! :wink: I had to get one more shot in on someone before I go to bed. :D

BTW, I'll be sending you a little "surprise" via email...I've been a busy musician today. :wink: Off to bed now...