tj wrote:koberry wrote:As the years go by, Neal generally seems to have developed an ability to patch up and rebuild strained relations with other musicians. The burned bridge between JSS and he really stands out. JSS is a good guy and really saved the Band's bacon. The way he was treated makes little sense to me.
I am not sure about Neal's ability to patch strained relationships, not saying he doesn't, just don't know. He does seem to have a way of poorly handling things though. The JSS debacle reflects poorly on all of the band members as well as the manager. I get that it isn't easy to tell someone they are fired, especially after they came in and bailed out your company. But man up, grow a pair and tell them.
I have personally fired good friends over the years who were not meeting the expectations of their job. It's hard. Frequently there were tears (mine included). The relationship is never the same. But if it has to be done, and you value the person, you do the hard work. Even if you have the manager do it because you can't find the words, you sit at the table and own it. Anything less shows what kind of person you really are.
I'll definitely agree that we really don't know. I have no inside info, nor have I ever met the man personally. Have just been a very long-time fan of him as an artist.
I won't look for any of them now, but he's been quoted repeatedly along the lines of - hey, what seemed important back way back when really isn't anymore. Everyone needs to grow up and let what's in the past be in the past. I'm sure you've read those quotes and know what I mean.
I was speaking from the perspective of a few strained relationships he's seemed to have patched over the years. It's no secret Carlos wanted nothing to do with Abraxas Pool and they all went on without him and recorded. That is one of my favorite records of his, btw. There was some sort of rift there that is now quite visibly patched. Similarly with John Waite after Bad English imploded, yet they later toured and had good things to say about each other. He and Perry seemed to have patched temporarily for TBF and again at the Hollywood event, though now Perry won't even let Neal know his phone number. If I were Neal, I would have been seriously pissed the way Hagar abandoned the PlanetUS project, but they seem to have remained friends.
Contrast that with how the Van Halen brothers have treated Michael Anthony and Sammy Hagar. And the long running feud between Ozzy/Sharon and Bob Daisley. Even Dio and Vivien Campbell.