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Arianddu wrote:Ok, here's my take on why I am uncomfortable with all the Twitter posts about Steve going up:
Steve Perry is someone who for a very long time has been notoriously shy about sharing his private life. He's said in more than one interview, over many years, 'you have a private life by keeping it private.' Unfortunately, he's also a celebrity with a public profile, so people take notice when he is out and about. I don't think there's any point in going into the whole debate about whether or not it's ok to take someone's photo without their knowledge/permission; you either think it is or it isn't. The point I want to make is the time scale.
Pre-internet, if someone saw Steve out and about, and took his photo, it was a private event. How many people can you show-and-tell it to? Friends, maybe a fanzine, not that many. The internet came along, and suddenly you could show-and-tell the world. So for over a decade now, every time Steve goes out, if someone sees him, snaps a pic, whatever, off they toddle home and if they chose they can post it on the net. Once that's done, fans all over the world scouring the net for info for him pick it up, share it around, speculate on who he is with, what he is doing, how he is doing based on how he looks, etc. Public privacy is gone, but at least in the moment there was some sense of Steve being allowed a modicum of privacy. It took time to go home, download stuff, post it up, have it found by the waiting loons, etc.
Twitter has robbed celebrities of even that momentary illusion of privacy. The instant that moment occurs, someone can send out the message. So we have details of flights being posted, we have immediate locations, there is no delay and there is no thought time for the poster. And it's being found instantly; it's no longer people with a set trigger to search new items on SP on the net once a day if they are really enthusiastic, it's people getting immediate responses all the time. So what used to take five or six days to disseminate across the web is now being done in five or six hours.
When you talk about how lovely it is to get new information/pics on Steve, what I'd ask you to do for a moment is to think about how that information was gathered. These aren't new articles, or interviews, or photo shoots, or industry events. This is a day to day, minute to minute, invasion of his life. It's group stalking - not by one person but by many. Just because one person only took one photo, or only posted one twitter up, doesn't make it any better, because the net effect is lots of photos and personal details going out. Nowhere is safe now; everywhere outside his own home isn't just public, it's potentially all-over-the-web-in-fifteen-minutes public. Twitter is new technology, it is changing behaviour just as surely as mobile phones and the internet did, and unfortunately one of the things it is changing is publically known people's ability to be private.
So, SPiffy (and potentially others) will keep making these posts, and that's their right. Some people on this board will love it, and will think it's ok. Some people on this board will hate it and feel that it is disrespectful and invasive. Some will see it as stalking and bordering on psychotic and/or obsessive behaviour, others will not think of it as stalking, because they aren't the ones out there actually taking the pics and making the tweets. I don't think anyone is going to jump the fence any time soon.
What I do think is going to happen is that some celebrities in the next 12 months or so are going to get fed up, and Something Will Be Done TM, what I don't know. What I'm hoping is that Steve Perry will do an interview soon and will mention twitter and how he feels about it, and maybe that will change a few opinions, one way or the other. What I'm afraid of is that this man we all love in one way or another will pull back further into his shell, and distance himself from the fans he meets, who in the past he has been very generous with his time with.
Speaking purely for myself; SPiffy, this isn't a personal attack, and I say this with no rancour or judgement; I would appreciate it if you stop posting twitters about Steve. It makes me uncomfortable - I know I would hate to have that sort of attention focussed on me. If people want to follow him on Twitter, they can and will; maybe post the searches, links, whatever, that you use and those who will can follow. Like everyone else here, I like to know that he is out and about and doing well, but this is too much. I could shrug it off and say 'I won't read those threads' but to be honest, it feels like shrugging and saying 'I won't listen to the bangs and thumps from my neighbour's house that sound like someone being thrown into a wall during a fight'. It isn't something I can do; I think this is wrong. I can't get you to stop, but I can say that I don't think it is appropriate, I don't approve of it, and respectfully, with an explanation of why I am asking, I am asking you to please stop. You don't have to, of course, you are perfectly within your rights to continue, but you will need to understand that I, and others, will keep saying we don't think this is right or ethical.
Lula wrote:".....think about how that information was gathered. These aren't new articles, or interviews, or photo shoots, or industry events. This is a day to day, minute to minute, invasion of his life. It's group stalking - not by one person but by many. Just because one person only took one photo, or only posted one twitter up, doesn't make it any better, because the net effect is lots of photos and personal details going out. Nowhere is safe now; everywhere outside his own home isn't just public, it's potentially all-over-the-web-in-fifteen-minutes public. Twitter is new technology, it is changing behaviour just as surely as mobile phones and the internet did, and unfortunately one of the things it is changing is publically known people's ability to be private."
well said ari. a line has to be drawn somewhere. if it is an interview, press junket, etc... no problem. but regular living? i'd go insane if my moves were tweets for all to see. if someone chooses to tweet, so be it, it is a personal choice. this is in no way directed at anyone, just some thoughts.
TRAGChick wrote:Hi, Ari.....great post
I was just thinking about this the other day.....how it must feel to someone like Steve "Fort Knox of Privacy" Perry (and I say that with respect) that he can't "be himself" anymore....there's always gonna be SOMEbody there NOT WITH A CAMERA....
... but with a tiny cellphone - that can take a picture - and "make or break" a person, in seconds.
Court of Public Opinion, now in Session..... y'know?
And yes; I commented about how he looked the other day with my "nice guns!" comment as a reaction to seeing him out and about; looking healthy.....not thinking about how he must feel about all of this.....and for that, I do feel kinda weird about my reaction.
I mean, what does a person have to do....move to another Country? That's what Shania Twain did - noted as one of the hottest women in Country Music.
Has anyone bothered HER over the last few years...?
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