donnaplease wrote:This sounds like you're commending SA for committing a farce, yet blaming SP for being 'toast' and wanting off the train.
No, you continue misunderstand me, my motives, and my position on Perry. I don't blame and have never blamed Perry one single iota for shutting down Jon and Neal's plans for a third leg of the ROR tour. He clearly couldn't handle it between the various personal and physical points of stress.
It's the part that comes after that... namely Against The Wall and For the Love of Strange Medicine that I blame him for.
donnaplease wrote:I agree it's commendable that he's not blaming the others (although I don't necessarily agree that they are without some fault),
Neal's superhuman when it comes to touring, Perry isn't. Perry couldn't keep up, neither could Augeri and likely neither will Pineda. At this stage in the game, Neal should be smart enough to know the inevitable ramifications of a demanding tour schedule on a singer. Live and learn. But, nonetheless, the blame lies with Perry. He's gone on record in BTM that he had something of a defiant streak, "putting his nose where other people probably didn't want me to," and all around being a general control freak when it pertains to his own life. He didn't have the balls to step up and tell them no, and that's his fault. What did he have to lose?
donnaplease wrote:I betcha Neal wouldn't do the same thing. Oh wait, he already did (NOT) do that when he denied knowledge of anything but what was in his headphones. What a tool.

Look, let's get this straight: The whole Tapegate fiasco was just that.... a fiasco. It was an unethical and moronic decision made by the band and management for cooking it up and perpetuating it. I hold Neal accountable for it and yes, he acted like an absolute and utter tool. It doesn't hurt my feelings or make me appreciate his fretwork any less.
It's okay to recognize faults, flaws, and weaknesses in those we like or care about, Donna.


