Saint John wrote:Jana wrote:portland wrote:I love Melissa's music....she is very talented as a writer and a musician.
As far as her lifestyle goes...it would not be my choice...but I guess in America we are free to choose how we live our lives.
What one has to do with the other I am not sure?
It's not a choice. My choice isn't to be heterosexual. I just am. .
The "choice" is to engage in a disgusting lifestyle that is unnatural and anti-creation. I'm sure there are hundreds of male teachers that get the urge to bang 16 year old girls every year, and there are probably some that get flat out propositioned. But the overwhelming majority don't because they know it's wrong. Fags could make that very same "choice" to say no. Hey, fuck it, live together, suck each other's cranks, tear up each other's shitters, but do
not be anywhere near kids ... let alone raising them.
Your right about so much said in this statement. About the kids being in these gay and lesbian families, as a kid growing up I can recall that the gay couples that my parents were friends with, the men were always so nice to me when I was a child but they had really nothing to do with my sister, the lesbian couples were always more closer to my sister and didn't really interact with me at all. Not sure why that was, but what I do notice now is lesbian couples will have girls and gay men will have boys. In 1986 I came home from basic training in uniform and my parents wanted me to join them with some of their gay friends for a night out dinner and after dinner drinks at some joint up in San Francisco. So we all went out and in the bar during the after dinner drinks, one of the gay men about 55 at that time and who I knew back when I was a little kid put his hand on my leg under the table and started to rub it up and down. I pushed his hand away and asked him "What do you think you doing?" No one in our party knew this had happened because it was done so quietly and descrete. He was devistated and for the rest of the evening wouldn't even be engaged in coversations with anyone in our party. My mother was about the only one to notice that something wasn't the same with Phil. On the drive home I told my parents what happened and my mother was like "oh I feel so bad for Phil, that probably hurt his feelings. I'm sure you didn't mean to so I will call him tomorrow and tell him you didn't mean anything bad by it.
Based on this story and my experiences in this type of environment growing up, many gay and lesbian people have this idea and "magic solution" that their choice of lifestyle will be accepted if children are exposed to it at a young age. The real deal is when the kids they adopt and force to live in this type of surroundings grow up, form their own opinions and say "hey, I was exposed to this type of behavior growing up and I don't agree with it." What will the excuses then be for the gays and lesbians when that their kids don't agree with and/or support the lifestyle that they had imposed on them under the false pretence that exposing them as children would allow them to accept that type of lifestyle?
So....why is it that only gay men couples have boys and lesbian women couples have girls? Maybe the answer lies with my parents friend who ended up hitting on me when I became legal.
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