JasonD wrote:I want to add a Part B to Jim's question.
Of the ones who are married (knowing what you know now) how many of you would do it again? In other words, is being married better than being single. I kinda like the single life b/c I don't have to answer to anyone .... much.
I'm in that phase right now. I was in a serious 4-year relationship that I thought was leading up to engagement/marriage. We broke up in August and honestly, once the anxiety and weirdness of not havin a serious girlfriend subsided, I haven't looked back. I really don't feel much need to get involved with anyone right now.
With that said, I do want to get married someday and not too far off in the future (don't wanna be a 40-year-old bachelor or anything), but I'm definitely taking my time and enjoying my freedom right now.
Right now, my life is pretty hectic and it's nice just to have time to myself whenever I do get it. No being forced into chick flicks or hanging out with lame friends of the significant other or being guilted into doing something when I'd rather just relax at home or vice versa if I wanna go out etc.