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How long have you been married???

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:25 pm
by G.I.Jim
Alright all you married people out there... just sitting here thinking about it, and thought it might be cool hearing how long all of you have been married!

I'll start... Hi my name's Jim and I'm an...

Oops, 16 years! :shock: :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:26 pm
by portland
married for 12


together for over 20..... :shock:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:27 pm
by Ehwmatt
0 days fucker

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:27 pm
by G.I.Jim
portland wrote:married for 12


together for over 20..... :shock:


Holy DAMN! :shock: You win! I met my wife 6 months before we got married.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:28 pm
by Peartree12249
32 years last September. I was a child bride. :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:29 pm
by portland
G.I.Jim wrote:
portland wrote:married for 12


together for over 20..... :shock:


Holy DAMN! :shock: You win! I met my wife 6 months before we got married.



We moved in together after knowing each other for 3 months! :shock:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:29 pm
by Everett
Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:32 pm
by Triple S
20 years this year (2nd marriage, the first one was 3 years - so 23 in total!)

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:35 pm
by ProgRocker53
FELT like I was married for 3 years even though I just dated this broad for 1

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:35 pm
by Peartree12249
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.


I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:36 pm
by G.I.Jim
ProgRocker53 wrote:FELT like I was married for 3 years even though I just dated this broad for 1


And you STILL never made it to 1st base! :lol: :shock: Just messing with you Prog. :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:41 pm
by Everett
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.


I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.


I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? :lol: j/k

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:43 pm
by JasonD
Single here. :cry:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:43 pm
by portland
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:44 pm
by G.I.Jim
Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.


I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.


I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? :lol: j/k


Maybe you two could have "Blue Bulls"? :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:45 pm
by JasonD
portland wrote:
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)


Does that count? If so, then one month.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:45 pm
by Ehwmatt
G.I.Jim wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.


I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.


I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? :lol: j/k


Maybe you two could have "Blue Bulls"? :lol:


What does Prog think? :lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:46 pm
by artist4perry
Married to Dan (Comedyisnotpretty) for 7 years. Every year gets better and better! :D

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:46 pm
by G.I.Jim
JasonD wrote:
portland wrote:
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)


Does that count? If so, then one month.


Did you buy him an engagement ring, or a cock ring? :shock: :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:47 pm
by portland
JasonD wrote:
portland wrote:
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)


Does that count? If so, then one month.



It counts in my book!!!! :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:47 pm
by Ehwmatt
G.I.Jim wrote:
JasonD wrote:
portland wrote:
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)


Does that count? If so, then one month.


Did you buy him an engagement ring, or a cock ring? :shock: :lol:


Haha, I almost just shit corn laughing, Stevew2 style.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:48 pm
by JasonD
I want to add a Part B to Jim's question.

Of the ones who are married (knowing what you know now) how many of you would do it again? In other words, is being married better than being single. I kinda like the single life b/c I don't have to answer to anyone .... much.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:50 pm
by JasonD
G.I.Jim wrote:
JasonD wrote:
portland wrote:
JasonD wrote:Single here. :cry:




Engaged I thought :)


Does that count? If so, then one month.


Did you buy him an engagement ring, or a cock ring? :shock: :lol:


You're in rare form tonight..... that was a good one. :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:50 pm
by portland
JasonD wrote:I want to add a Part B to Jim's question.

Of the ones who are married (knowing what you know now) how many of you would do it again? In other words, is being married better than being single. I kinda like the single life b/c I don't have to answer to anyone .... much.




That's a tough question.....I'll get back to ya on that one :wink: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:53 pm
by Ehwmatt
JasonD wrote:I want to add a Part B to Jim's question.

Of the ones who are married (knowing what you know now) how many of you would do it again? In other words, is being married better than being single. I kinda like the single life b/c I don't have to answer to anyone .... much.


I'm in that phase right now. I was in a serious 4-year relationship that I thought was leading up to engagement/marriage. We broke up in August and honestly, once the anxiety and weirdness of not havin a serious girlfriend subsided, I haven't looked back. I really don't feel much need to get involved with anyone right now.

With that said, I do want to get married someday and not too far off in the future (don't wanna be a 40-year-old bachelor or anything), but I'm definitely taking my time and enjoying my freedom right now.

Right now, my life is pretty hectic and it's nice just to have time to myself whenever I do get it. No being forced into chick flicks or hanging out with lame friends of the significant other or being guilted into doing something when I'd rather just relax at home or vice versa if I wanna go out etc.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:54 pm
by Michigan Girl
My whole life...don't rush kiddies!!! :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:58 pm
by Ehwmatt
Michigan Girl wrote:My whole life...don't rush kiddies!!! :wink:


It blows my mind at how many friends/acquaintances of mine are rushing into things without even having financial independence established. Right now, it's especially not easy for young people to find jobs and I know some jobless people who are making things official while still living at home or still being in college! :shock:

I mean, what's the point of making things official before you even have income or a career established? That's tossing aside all other iffy things, like people who get engaged with the 2nd person they date in their lives after dating said 2nd person for a few months..

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:58 pm
by G.I.Jim
JasonD wrote:I want to add a Part B to Jim's question.

Of the ones who are married (knowing what you know now) how many of you would do it again? In other words, is being married better than being single. I kinda like the single life b/c I don't have to answer to anyone .... much.


That's a very tough question, yet it isn't. Anyone who's been with someone for quite a while knows that life can become quite stale if you have the same routines day in and day out. Life can become dull. You'll start noticing other people of the opposite sex and think "Damn... those look nice" or "I wonder what kind of clothes she wear's under that dress", or...well you get the idea. There is a lot of temptation out there.

At the same time, it's nice to have someone you can trust, and share things with. It's nice to have someone to talk to and go thru life with. I think EVERY marriage needs a little change every now and then to spice things up.

BTW... Just messing with you about the rings Jason. Hope I didn't offend you. :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:00 pm
by Michigan Girl
Ehwmatt wrote:
Michigan Girl wrote:My whole life...don't rush kiddies!!! :wink:


It blows my mind at how many friends/acquaintances of mine are rushing into things without even having financial independence established. Right now, it's especially not easy for young people to find jobs and I know some jobless people who are making things official while still living at home or still being in college! :shock:

I mean, what's the point of making things official before you even have income or a career established? That's tossing aside all other iffy things, like people who get engaged with the 2nd person they date in their lives after dating said 2nd person for a few months..


I was a senior in college... :wink:

PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:02 pm
by Everett
G.I.Jim wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me :roll: Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.


I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.


I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? :lol: j/k


Maybe you two could have "Blue Bulls"? :lol:


:lol: