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Okay I need the men's advice....

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 6:55 am
by SteveForever
okay this is serious business....going on my first blind date since I've been single.
Its going to happen in the next few days so I still have time to shop....if you were meeting someone for the first time (keep in mind I'm not a kid) how would you like to see your date dressed?

Re: Okay I need the men's advice....

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 6:57 am
by Behshad
SteveForever wrote:okay this is serious business....going on my first blind date since I've been single.
Its going to happen in the next few days so I still have time to shop....if you were meeting someone for the first time (keep in mind I'm not a kid) how would you like to see your date dressed?


why nothing slutty???

Im sure Dean will choose 3rd option ;)

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:00 am
by Rockindeano
I chose hot dress.

Why don't you post a pic of yourself so we can make an educated decision SF?

Just make sure you show leg and for god's sake, shave all the way up! Nothing worse than a girl who stops shaving at the knee.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:03 am
by Don
Medium heeled sandals with a jean skirt and short sleeved blouse over a halter top.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:12 am
by DrFU
I'm not a guy, but, seriously, Liz, you are beautiful. They guy's going to think he won the lottery whatever you have on.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:16 am
by Behshad
DrFU wrote:I'm not a guy, but, seriously, Liz, you are beautiful. They guy's going to think he won the lottery whatever you have on.



Even if she wears this !?
:lol:

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:41 am
by SteveForever
DrFU wrote:I'm not a guy, but, seriously, Liz, you are beautiful. They guy's going to think he won the lottery whatever you have on.


OMG, you just made my weekend! thank you so much Linda ! :oops:

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:43 am
by RossValoryRocks
Beautiful is always enhanced by a little slutty...even if a guy doesn't see it...wear something sexy underneath...even though he doesn't see it it effects your confidence...and trust me nothing is sexier and more appealing than a confident woman.

Just my 2 cents.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:49 am
by Behshad
RossValoryRocks wrote:Beautiful is always enhanced by a little slutty...even if a guy doesn't see it...wear something sexy underneath...even though he doesn't see it it effects your confidence...and trust me nothing is sexier and more appealing than a confident woman.

Just my 2 cents.


Well said bro! :) how have you been!??

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:52 am
by RossValoryRocks
Behshad wrote:
RossValoryRocks wrote:Beautiful is always enhanced by a little slutty...even if a guy doesn't see it...wear something sexy underneath...even though he doesn't see it it effects your confidence...and trust me nothing is sexier and more appealing than a confident woman.

Just my 2 cents.


Well said bro! :) how have you been!??


I've been! LOL...been a LONG LONG 1/2 of the year...medically challenging and that kind of stuff...but getting better each day bro! How about you?

Now that little slutty comment DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU B! I am sick of you showing your frilly g-string and bustier at the aftershow events! And if you go commando...please keep it to yourself! LOL

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:53 am
by Everett
Option 2 get's my vote.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:54 am
by S2M
RossValoryRocks wrote:Beautiful is always enhanced by a little slutty...even if a guy doesn't see it...wear something sexy underneath...even though he doesn't see it it effects your confidence...and trust me nothing is sexier and more appealing than a confident woman.

Just my 2 cents.


Post of the day!! You know women well.... :lol:

Far better than politics..... :P

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:49 am
by RedWingFan
I voted "conservative" of course. :D

Re: Okay I need the men's advice....

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:58 am
by parfait
SteveForever wrote:okay this is serious business....going on my first blind date since I've been single.
Its going to happen in the next few days so I still have time to shop....if you were meeting someone for the first time (keep in mind I'm not a kid) how would you like to see your date dressed?


Dress for your age and body, and please no tacky "short skirt and tubetop" shit.

Classy trumps slutty any day :wink:

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:16 pm
by Jana
I'm not a man, but go for effortlessly stunning, not overdone for a blind date. I was out with friends after work one night for happy hour and dinner, and at dinner, I looked up over at the bar around nine, when the later crowd began coming in, and there were all these woman, same look, 35 to 50, skintight dresses, a little too short for their age in some instances, and many times not a flattering cut, and they all looked like they were trying too hard to get a man's attention with their outfit and over processed hair, and way too much tanning booth time, as they circled the bar. It was depressing to watch. And in walked two women, very pretty, really nice figures, both about 45, but one looking 39. Both had just a really soft, natural pretty look to them,not hard looking. One had on a great pair of jeans and really simple fitted white classic blouse tucked in, unbuttoned just right to give a hint of cleavage, with a great belt and and awesome sexy shoes and very pretty, shiny hair just flowing past her shoulders. The other one had on a sexy dress but not bright, a darker color, but very casual and simple yet classy, not too tight in the wrong places for her body type, and just the right short length and great sexy boots. Neither one had on much jewelry. Mens heads were turning left and right, even the guys at our table. LOL. Effortlessly stunning. They just seemed more confident than the other women and not trying so hard.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:49 pm
by Rick
RedWingFan wrote:I voted "conservative" of course. :D


I did too! :shock: :lol:

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:59 pm
by (Crazy)Dulce Lady
DrFU wrote:I'm not a guy, but, seriously, Liz, you are beautiful. They guy's going to think he won the lottery whatever you have on.


second that.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:00 pm
by (Crazy)Dulce Lady
RossValoryRocks wrote:Beautiful is always enhanced by a little slutty...even if a guy doesn't see it...wear something sexy underneath...even though he doesn't see it it effects your confidence...and trust me nothing is sexier and more appealing than a confident woman.

Just my 2 cents.


second that as well.

so does that make is 4 cents? hehe

Re: Okay I need the men's advice....

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:22 pm
by S2M
parfait wrote:
SteveForever wrote:okay this is serious business....going on my first blind date since I've been single.
Its going to happen in the next few days so I still have time to shop....if you were meeting someone for the first time (keep in mind I'm not a kid) how would you like to see your date dressed?


Dress for your age and body, and please no tacky "short skirt and tubetop" shit.

Classy trumps slutty any day :wink:


Ahhh....so that's where all the classy women who take urine in the mouth are....France....ok, that explains the shortage in the states.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:37 pm
by Lula
Whatever you choose, be comfortable. Don't put so much pressure on yourself and shopping. Nice fitting jeans, fun top, and great shoes will do it. It's all in how you feel- beauty, confidence, strengthn etc radiate from the inside.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 3:24 pm
by SherriBerry
I agree with Jana - effortlessly stunning is the way to go. Too sexy on a first date, especially a blind date when the guy probably doesn't know you at all, may give the wrong impression. You can combine classy with a hint of sexy! I think women of a certain age in that same uniform of skimpy tight dress, overprocessed hair, and noticeably fake tan may believe that they are fooling people into thinking they are in their 20s, but they really look older and give an unfortunate impression. Actually that describes someone I knew who styled herself like that at 28 (except it was a crop top and bellybutton ring) and it made her look much older and kind of "hard".

Good luck on your date! I hope you have a wonderful time and meet a great guy!

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 4:25 pm
by The Sushi Hunter
Dress for the occasion. Meaning depends on what your going to be doing and/or where you will be meeting up and spending your time during the date. Like if it's a laid back casual place like at Starbucks or something, you should then just wear stylish jeans and a nice shirt. If your meeting up at some fancy bar/club and then going out to a nice dinner, yeah, dress classy.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:01 pm
by JH'sTXfan
(Crazy)Dulce Lady wrote:
DrFU wrote:I'm not a guy, but, seriously, Liz, you are beautiful. They guy's going to think he won the lottery whatever you have on.


second that.


Third it. She's a sweetheart also. :)

PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:38 pm
by Behshad
I dont even see why youre even worried about what to wear at a blind date. Just watch out for his cane and movements like this! :P

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:03 am
by YoungJRNY
Nothing more sexier than a woman in heels-- NOTHING. Lather up the legs, get them all nice, shiny and smooth. Expose the quads/thigh to a certain point with a nice v neck top and compliment it with nice, sexy high heel action to exaggerate the definition in the calves. (I also love how a women walks in heels and the movement that goes with the body.) Also, make it classy and make a man use his imagination. Heels are the ticket. Just my .2cents. Good luck, haha. 8)

PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:20 am
by StevePerryHair
Behshad wrote:I dont even see why youre even worried about what to wear at a blind date. Just watch out for his cane and movements like this! :P

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:lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:47 am
by parfait
Here's how a woman should dress:

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:50 am
by StevePerryHair
parfait wrote:Here's how a woman should dress:

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But what if they aren't 6 feet tall weighing 90 lbs?? Then what?? :P :lol:

PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:51 am
by JH'sTXfan
Those outfits aren't very feminine...

PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:53 am
by Behshad
StevePerryHair wrote:
parfait wrote:Here's how a woman should dress:

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But what if they aren't 6 feet tall weighing 90 lbs?? Then what?? :P :lol:


Parfait wrote : "Then piss on them" :lol: