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Bear with me on this one. Why is every nice, sweet, beautiful girl I run into dating some prick who treats them like shit. Then guys like me are left hanging out to dry.

Women like "Bad boys"?

ebake02 wrote:Bear with me on this one. Why is every nice, sweet, beautiful girl I run into dating some prick who treats them like shit. Then guys like me are left hanging out to dry.

If i knew the answer to that question i wouldn't be single

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

That is true.

you just gotta bust like DJ Qualls

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FVIvdY8uYw

Babyblue wrote:

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

That is true.

When they get old enough to know better. By then, you probably don't want to date them.

What do these "bad boys" have that I don't.

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Since 78 wrote:

Babyblue wrote:

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

That is true.

When they get old enough to know better. By then, you probably don't want to date them.

...not necessarily true!!!!

ebake02 wrote:What do these "bad boys" have that I don't.

Just be yourself do not ever change for anyone.The right girl will come along.I also believe its what is on the inside that counts.

Michigan Girl wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

Babyblue wrote:

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

That is true.

When they get old enough to know better. By then, you probably don't want to date them.

...not necessarily true!!!!

Note that i said "probably" there are exceptions I guess. I never found one, but I have heard rumors that they exist. Sort of like Big Foot. Bottom line, its better to find someone who isn't like that in the first place.

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

I knew what you were saying.lol

This is going to be a 5 or 6 pger

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Where did he go??

Since 78 wrote:

Michigan Girl wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

Babyblue wrote:

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

awwww, don'y give up they come around!!

That is true.

When they get old enough to know better. By then, you probably don't want to date them.

...not necessarily true!!!!

Note that i said "probably" there are exceptions I guess. I never found one, but I have heard rumors that they exist. Sort of like Big Foot. Bottom line, its better to find someone who isn't like that in the first place.

...bigfoot!!!
bottom line ...while young, many girls go through this, not all...it's just the way it is!!! I'm a girl and I have girls ...I coach cheerleaders,
I see it day in and day out ...I do try to warn them, but they grow out of it in their own time!!! This in no way means they're hopeless!!!
some of them learn, eventually!!!

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

Babyblue wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Where did he go??

I don't know, hope I didn't make him feel worse.

Babyblue wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Where did he go??

I'm still here!

ebake02 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

You need to quit worrying about silly stuff like that, eveyone says stupid things ...being a part of this
forum should be enough proof of that!! You wait for NOTHING, they may be waiting too!!:wink:

ebake02 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

How about Hi! I'm ...just wanted to introduce myself. Then just carry on with whatever happens.

What say the women?

Michigan Girl wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

You need to quit worrying about silly stuff like that, eveyone says stupid things ...being a part of this
forum should be enough proof of that!! You wait for NOTHING, they may be waiting too!!:wink:

ebake02 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

It's all about confidence, dude. Stop putting girls on some pedestal though - they're not that special. If everything fails, you can always order some girl from Thailand or Ukraine.

Don't listen to that shit about "waiting around for your special one" or whatever. That's just retarded.

Since 78 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

How about Hi! I'm ...just wanted to introduce myself. Then just carry on with whatever happens.

What say the women?

Geez, that's pretty good, 78!! I'm not a good one for answering these questions, I talk to brick walls!!
And personally, I like shy people ...they let me talk, a lot!!

parfait wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

Since 78 wrote:

bluejeangirl76 wrote:

ebake02 wrote:

slucero wrote:Women like "Bad boys"?

That's my biggest problem, the "bad boy" is the total opposite of my personality. I'm more of a shy geek. All those cute sweet girls look at me like I'm a creepy stalker or something. They have no idea hard it is for me the "break the ice".

There's no one type to be in order to be successful with the opposite sex, and there's no one type to "avoid"... There's plenty of shy guys who are creeps and treat their ladies like shit too... and there are also plenty of girls who don't like the bad boy type.

A girl that's worth it won't care about your shyness or geekiness. Don't worry about being shy or quiet ... worry about being a good guy and treating people well and you'll be fine. If a girl looks at you a certain way or judges you without knowing you, is that really a girl you'd want to be with?

Untrue! There are definitely types to avoid.

Not what I meant... my point was about making generalizations without getting to know at least something about the person, not what you "think" they are.

OK, but I think he's stuck on the before getting to know them point.

Exactly. I never really know what to say. I always worry about saying something really stupid. It seems like in my neck of the woods you don't talk to them unless they speak to you first.

It's all about confidence, dude. Stop putting girls on some pedestal though - they're not that special. If everything fails, you can always order some girl from Thailand or Ukraine.

Don't listen to that shit about "waiting around for your special one" or whatever. That's just retarded.

I admit confidence is something I definitely need to work on. I'm just really frustrated, being single kinda sucks.

ebake02 wrote:

I'm still here!

Confidence. Look like you have confidence. Be confident. Fake nothing except that one thing...