Ehwmatt wrote:Tragic loss, but I'd hardly call someone who inflicts the pain of suicide on family and friends "considerate" regardless of how he chose to kill himself.
I'm a huge Boston fan and I had the good fortune of seeing Brad front them twice earlier in the 2000s before he decided to do this. It was a great show other than terrible sound mixing issues at both shows (different venues... can only assume the 5 guitars, multiple keyboards/organs, multiple singers and the trademark Boston guitar effects rigs make it very complicated to get the sound right). But I will not venerate a suicide.
I used to think this way...However, I've come to understand via personal experience (not myself but a relative) that people who are suicidal are not in their right mind. People can say that it's a cowardly thing to do, that they're screwing over the people they care about, etc., but that honestly does not occur to people who are in that frame of mind. I wouldn't call it a disease because I don't buy that mentality, either, but it's just not as easy as "getting over it", dealing with life like everyone else does, etc., etc. I'm now a lot more sympathetic to people who are clinically depressed, which it sounds like Delp was.