No way to be married 30 years and not get fucked in the end

[steveo777]

Red alert! They will run away when you don't have money, run back to you when you do, but in the end you will either get rich or die. Either way she wins.

Whores!

If I never saw another woman again, it would be too soon.

[brandonx76]

I used to think like that when I was younger - then I grew up and stopped being tolerant of people who act like that...so far so good, g/f has a job, I have a job, we keep our $$ separate for now...can't say $$ issues haven't come up, but they've been dealt with relatively painless...sorry to hear if you're dealing with someone like that or if you're having marital problems at this stage in life. Not fun

[Moon Beam]

Red alert! They will run away when you don't have money, run back to you when you do, but in the end you will either get rich or die. Either way she wins.

Whores!

If I never saw another woman again, it would be too soon.

Women that have been hurt by men could spit sours in the same way.
There is no perfect in either sex.
It's a good thing you can't see me right now Sir because you can bet
your heart strings I'd strangle you with em.
Why are you calling all women out instead of tossing your temper at the one who deserves it?
I'm having a dump of a day, sorry, just venting like you did steveo777.

[mikemarrs]

Well i've been with mine 15 years in June but i've never been married.My father remarried in '94 to a woman that i knew from the get go wasn't good.Well my dad always made great money then got laid off in 2009 then after a few months she told my dad she was leaving because she needed to be with a man who could provide for her and take care of her.Through many years most of the family was supportive of her and thought i just disliked her because she wasn't my mom.Well when this stuff was said we all saw her true colors.She still with my dad but she has gave him hell the last three years but he is now trying to get disability.He had an accident on the job in 2005 or so and then a stroke.Well my dads wife started telling everyone my dad could not have sex anymore and she was lonely and was thinking of leaving because her 'needs' weren't being met.Well bottom line is my dads wife is selfish.

[Deb]

We may not agree on alot of stuff here, but whatever you and your wife are going through, i hope it works out the way you both want.

[maverick218]

I used to think like that when I was younger - then I grew up and stopped being tolerant of people who act like that...so far so good, g/f has a job, I have a job, we keep our $$ separate for now...can't say $$ issues haven't come up, but they've been dealt with relatively painless...sorry to hear if you're dealing with someone like that or if you're having marital problems at this stage in life. Not fun

Word of advice: if you get married, keep your finances as separate as possible.

[yulog]

It amazes me how many unhappily married people there are, i remember about 4-5 years ago Usa today posted "for the first time in the United States history, there are more single adults then married".

[StevePerryHair]

It amazes me how many unhappily married people there are, i remember about 4-5 years ago Usa today posted "for the first time in the United States history, there are more single adults then married".

I just see it as there are a lot of unhappy people in the world, married or not.

[Ehwmatt]

It amazes me how many unhappily married people there are, i remember about 4-5 years ago Usa today posted "for the first time in the United States history, there are more single adults then married".

I just see it as there are a lot of unhappy people in the world, married or not.

Truth.

[mmberry301]

I'm sorry to hear about your issues you are dealing with....

Not every woman is selfish but I do understand where you are coming from.

Myself speaking as a man who has been married for 11 years....as much as the ladies on this board may not want to hear this.

There are a majority of women who would fall into that category that you describe

[Yoda]

I think most all women want to find security in a man. Depending on the woman, that security can be found in different aspects. Some women find security in the man's bank account, some find it in how good the man is in bed, some find it in how big his muscles are or how tall he is, and some find it depending upon how big of an a-hole the guy is...LOL!

So you know when a woman latches on to you, and she knows you're not rich, not very muscular, not very tall, and generally nice to everybody he meets, then you've found a keeper for life!

[brandonx76]

I think most all women want to find security in a man. Depending on the woman, that security can be found in different aspects. Some women find security in the man's bank account, some find it in how good the man is in bed, some find it in how big his muscles are or how tall he is, and some find it depending upon how big of an a-hole the guy is...LOL!

So you know when a woman latches on to you, and she knows you're not rich, not very muscular, not very tall, and generally nice to everybody he meets, then you've found a keeper for life!

+1, great post

[The Sushi Hunter]

I guess you'd have a choice to make then. Be with a woman or wake up alone doing the knuckle shuffle on the ol' piss pump every morning.

[Behshad]

I guess you'd have a choice to make then. Be with a woman or wake up alone doing the knuckle shuffle on the ol' piss pump every morning.

You're such a hopeless romantic !

[JRNYMAN]

Wow.... so sorry to read this Steve. There can't be much else that could happen to one's sense of security and overall emotional stability that could be as devastating as this after so many years together. I can only imagine how much it turns your whole world upside-down. The upside, if there is one, is that you're young enough to find someone great and spend the next 25 years as happy as a couple of pigs in shit (for lack of a better term... )

Hang in there my brother. It may be the end of the world for that relationship, but it's not the end of the world as we know it. And don't hate all women just because of the issues and the actions of one individual - there not all bad.

[yulog]

Red alert! They will run away when you don't have money, run back to you when you do, but in the end you will either get rich or die. Either way she wins.

Whores!

If I never saw another woman again, it would be too soon.

You should have figured that out when you were just dating her,30 years of marriage to realize this, shame on you

[steveo777]

This is a thread I wish I had never started. Sometimes one's inner thoughts manifest themselves on your keyboard. Believe it or not the fight started over the cost of Journey tickets, which I insisted I was buying and she was insisting I was not. I guess a few beers and her telling me what to do didn't bode well with me, considering I work my ass off for 60 hours a week and I pay all the bills. She hasn't worked for 4 years and there is one excuse after another as to why, ie., I don't speak spanish, I don't have the right clothes, my teeth need work, I'm not happy about my weight....yada, yada, yada. Yet, I do not do enough, in her opinion! Jesus H., how much more can I work?!!!!! Yet, I am not entitled to any play time? Fuck me!

[Babyblue]

This is a thread I wish I had never started. Sometimes one's inner thoughts manifest themselves on your keyboard. Believe it or not the fight started over the cost of Journey tickets, which I insisted I was buying and she was insisting I was not. I guess a few beers and her telling me what to do didn't bode well with me, considering I work my ass off for 60 hours a week and I pay all the bills. She hasn't worked for 4 years and there is one excuse after another as to why, ie., I don't speak spanish, I don't have the right clothes, my teeth need work, I'm not happy about my weight....yada, yada, yada. Yet, I do not do enough, in her opinion! Jesus H., how much more can I work?!!!!! Yet, I am not entitled to any play time? Fuck me!

Sad as you work hard for the money. You have to enjoy your hard work & kick back some.

[Behshad]

This is a thread I wish I had never started. Sometimes one's inner thoughts manifest themselves on your keyboard. Believe it or not the fight started over the cost of Journey tickets, which I insisted I was buying and she was insisting I was not. I guess a few beers and her telling me what to do didn't bode well with me, considering I work my ass off for 60 hours a week and I pay all the bills. She hasn't worked for 4 years and there is one excuse after another as to why, ie., I don't speak spanish, I don't have the right clothes, my teeth need work, I'm not happy about my weight....yada, yada, yada. Yet, I do not do enough, in her opinion! Jesus H., how much more can I work?!!!!! Yet, I am not entitled to any play time? Fuck me!

Sad as you work hard for the money. You have to enjoy your hard work & kick back some.

[Michigan Girl]

Well I hope you got fucked in the beginning too ...

[Rick]

Well I hope you got fucked in the beginning too ...

[Enigma869]

Well I hope you got fucked in the beginning too ...

HA! Just another reason MG will forever me my favorite chick on this site!

[steveo777]

Let's let this thread die folks. We're fine now, just a bad night. I was venting.

If we weren't fine she would not be seeing Journey with me tomorrow. I'd have a different date.

[slucero]

...maybe you will get fucked in the end...

[Angel]

...maybe you will get fucked in the end...

...or if you're REALLY lucky, she will......

[No Surprize]

...maybe you will get fucked in the end...

...or if you're REALLY lucky, she will......

LOL!