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Ok so you guys are probably wondering what the hell i'm talking about. So I was out to luch today
with my mom (yeah yeah I know). Anyway the server we had today had to have been a perfect ten. She stood
about 5'4-5'6 shoulder length black hair and the prettiest brown eyes you have ever seen. I left her a nice tip
and a note saying how I appreciated her hospitality and now i'm kicking myself for not leaving my number
as well? So what do you guys think should I have left my number or am I biting off more then I can chew?
Unrelated comments/insults welcome

I was going to vote the second one but you misspelled "loser" so I couldn't, in good conscience, use that option.

Don't leave your number. If you want, go back another day without your mom and try to strike up talk then. Actually, if she is interested, she will probably remember you and start small talk on her own.

Don wrote:Don't leave your number. If you want, go back another day without your mom and try to strike up talk then. Actually, if she is interested, she will probably remember you and start small talk on her own.

Don's right. Don't leave your number, ask her out to dinner and get hers. Women like men who aren't afraid to aggressively pursue what they want.

conversationpc wrote:I was going to vote the second one but you misspelled "loser" so I couldn't, in good conscience, use that option.

+1

You must be young. I voted "yes" considering your young. I've done that before myself and it worked for me. I wouldn't do it now though, even if I were single again. Good on you. Too bad you didn't leave your number, she may have called you and you could have been getting some trim.

Good grief go back to the restaurant, fucking go NOW she'll be on shift. Go back and tell her you can't stop humming Van Morrison songs since you had lunch. (brown eyed girl) and the song would never sound the same if you didn't go back. Just say , I hope I m not doing something in appropriate, but can I buy you a cup of coffee of a Miller light some time when you get off.



.....I try that shit all the time and it never fails, I ALWAYS get my face slapped. .... LOL seriously just go.

It would have been funny if you had left the number and some bus boy found it while he was clearing the table.

AR wrote:It would have been funny if you had left the number and some bus boy found it while he was clearing the table.

and turned up to Everetts house in a Mankini! LOL

Should've drank a lil alcohol and went up to her before you left and asked her out.

AR wrote:It would have been funny if you had left the number and some bus boy found it while he was clearing the table.

That's why you hand it to her with the tip.

jestor92 wrote:Should've drank a lil alcohol and went up to her before you left and asked her out.

Yeah, the liquid courage approach.

Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

Everett wrote:Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

Stalker Alert!

If you call ahead of time to see if she is working you have secured a date























with your right hand!

I mean that in a non stalker way b

Everett wrote:I mean that in a non stalker way b

Dont call, just go there !

Everett wrote:Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

No just show up.

Everett wrote:Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

I wouldn't do that, doing so may send the wrong message or some red flags that something could be wrong with you, not saying it is, but you don't know who's going to answer the phone and take the call. I would suggest going in again and if she's there, sit in her area and when you talk to her about your order, service, etc, ask her what her name is and go from there.

Behshad wrote:

Everett wrote:Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

Stalker Alert!

If you call ahead of time to see if she is working you have secured a date

with your right hand!

Fuck Behshad, I knew within some amount of time we would eventually disover something we both had in common.

this reminds me of the brazilian pizza delivery chick I met in Santa Barbara a decade and a half ago....what an ass she had....I actually did the same thing Gin recommended, and went right back to the restaurant and had to say hello again, got her number... didn't pan out ultimately, but was worth the shot

Hmmm....kind of a related story, I was with my band at a restaurant in FL and the waitress was pretty attractive. I was paying my bill and left the credit card receipt on the table and went out to get the van or smoke a cigarette or something. When the band came out we were about to leave when I realized I left my credit card. I came back and the waitress was acting a little weirded out, and I took the little folio that had my receipt and credit card and saw on the reciept where some winner in my band decided to write at the top of the reciept "You are so hot I want to shit all over your face!" Some may think that's funny but it seemed like a pretty "shitty" thing to do (see what I did?).

Anyway, I can't see how that would help you in your situation but there ya go.

The Sushi Hunter wrote:

Behshad wrote:

Everett wrote:Told a buddie about this and got a good lecture about being a dumbass
Anyway looks like I have to back with more balls this time.
Is it ok to call the place ahead of time to see if she's working that day? Don't wanna go back again for nothing.

Stalker Alert!

If you call ahead of time to see if she is working you have secured a date

with your right hand!

Fuck Behshad, I knew within some amount of time we would eventually disover something we both had in common.

I know !
We get along just fine as long as we dont discuss politics or as long as you listen to me and agree with me when it comes to politics!

brandonx76 wrote:this reminds me of the brazilian pizza delivery chick I met in Santa Barbara a decade and a half ago....what an ass she had....I actually did the same thing Gin recommended, and went right back to the restaurant and had to say hello again, got her number... didn't pan out ultimately, but was worth the shot

Too bad, I've heard those Brazilian chicks wax all the hair completely off. Not had the hairless clam sushi before so that sounds inquisitive.

If you were "looser" maybe youd have a chance..... over thinking and being so nervous will scare her! When I worked food service in college, I can tell you 100% I never would have called a strange guy with a phone number on a receipt. And I probably would say no to a customer too, if I didn't know them. Though maybe you could earn points for taking your mom out....unless she took YOU out...forget the whole thing then!! The hand may be your best bet!

StevePerryHair wrote:If you were "looser" maybe youd have a chance..... over thinking and being so nervous will scare her! When I worked food service in college, I can tell you 100% I never would have called a strange guy with a phone number on a receipt. And I probably would say no to a customer too, if I didn't know them. Though maybe you could earn points for taking your mom out....unless she took YOU out...forget the whole thing then!! The hand may be your best bet!

I can't imagine any woman going for this ploy unless you were a veritable Brad Pitt in the looks department or transparently filthy rich (e.g., she sees you get in your Aston Martin to roll out). Hitting on a woman at work generally goes nowhere. I've never seen it work, even when my friends who have pretty good "game" have tried it.

But yeah, if you do try it, do it directly. Don't do some pussy ass write your phone number on the receipt and run out with your tail between your legs maneuver. Gotta go big if you're gonna go to a predictable cliche.

If you gave her as nice a tip as it sounds then she'll remember you. Keep going back but don't be that creepy wierdo and ask about/for her, if she recognizes you as a regular then you'll stand a better chance of getting her number. Don't gives her yours unless she asks for it. Leave mommy at home too because they're date/phone number repellant, trust me on this one, I learned the hard way.

B that pic is freakin gross. Thank you all for your advice. If only dean were here to lend his advice.

just dont mention you have a crush on the lazy susan guy from Styx

Everett wrote:B that pic is freakin gross. Thank you all for your advice. If only dean were here to lend his advice.

He would have lit your ass on fire 10 times over by now.

ebake02 wrote:

Everett wrote:B that pic is freakin gross. Thank you all for your advice. If only dean were here to lend his advice.

He would have lit your ass on fire 10 times over by now.

Lol yes he would and throw in a kevin cronin insult somewhere