A Note of Thanks

by **Marabelle** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:28 am

Whenever I read your post and hear your grief; I cannot help but think how wonderful it was of Trevor to be the one to deliver Wyatt to your waiting arms. Mean words are just words and will disappear with time. Loving memories of the brave little Angel who came to earth to deliver his brother are the memories that will linger forever.

by **ohsherrie** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:37 am

I can't imagine how or why anyone would begrudge you, Dean, Wyatt, or Trevor's memory anything that was done in his innocent name, but like your sig says Lu, if they're that sort, they don't matter.

by **Lula** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:31 am

Marabelle wrote:Whenever I read your post and hear your grief; I cannot help but think how wonderful it was of Trevor to be the one to deliver Wyatt to your waiting arms. Mean words are just words and will disappear with time. Loving memories of the brave little Angel who came to earth to deliver his brother are the memories that will linger forever.

what wonderful words, thank you so much.

by **tammy** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:37 am

I can't imagine how a person would say such an insensitive thing when you & Dean went through the worst loss ever. My heart goes out to you & hopefully that person reads your message & sends an apology.
((hugs))

by **conversationpc** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:38 am

Glad you guys are doing better and surviving. You still have one little guy to take care of (well, two counting Deano...). :lol:

by **johnroxx** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:16 am

That someone would choose to attack you or Dean in any way over this situation literally sickens me.

Know that you are all in my prayers as the healing process continues.

God bless...

;^)

by **Rhiannon** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:29 am

Lula wrote:We continue to feel the support and gain strength as time progresses. Love and peace to you all.

Lula, sweety, I haven't known you as long or as close as some others here. But I know you well enough to say that you are the kindest, gentlest, most humble and meek soul that I have encountered. And, you know, there are a great many souls (or soul-less) to come across here. I'm looking forward to Vegas and getting to hang out with you, Dean, and the little man. You rock, Lu.

by **Jenna** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:35 am

When you give from your Heart-----from those that really cared------No Thank you is required----as for the poor soul that said that to you-------someone higher up will deal with it-----

by **annie89509** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:21 am

I know the heated exchanges and disagreements here are mostly for fun. But to know there are hateful people out there is truly sad. Lula, you and Deano endured a lot of attacks during Tapegate. And then, having to deal with such a precious loss and still have people throw stones at you is outrageous.

Please know that people that give do so from the heart, with no expectation or strings attached. The video you and Deano made with your baby and SP singing When I Think of You in the background, which you guys posted and presented to us is all the thanks we need.

Take care of baby Wyatt and "keep smiling," Lula.

by **7 Wishes** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:05 am

Dean and Lula, I was going through a tough time and wasn't posting or reading this board when you lost your little one. Until this post was bumped back up, I had no idea what had happened. If I had I would have already contacted you.

I have no words to offer you, as I can't imagine what you're going through. If there is anything at all I can do from all these miles away don't hesitate to ask.

Dean, you're a brother in spirit and your insight and passion makes this forum worthwhile.

I wish you all the best.

by **Wildfire** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:32 am

No thanks are necessary, Lula. We wanted to express our sadness at the loss of your beloved Trevor.
I love seeing the pics you post of Wyatt. Thanks for sharing them.

by **bluejeangirl76** » Mon Feb 18, 2008 12:13 pm

ohsherrie wrote:I can't imagine how or why anyone would begrudge you, Dean, Wyatt, or Trevor's memory anything that was done in his innocent name, but like your sig says Lu, if they're that sort, they don't matter.

Agreed. Anyone with a heart that black has bigger issues than you need to worry about, and it doesn't matter. That was a wonderful post, Lula. I'm sure everyone here would agree, we didn't participate for thanks or gratitude or expectation of anything. Sometimes you do things because they are the right thing to do and that's it. Karma will take care of those who need taking care of, and that goes for those who helped you guys out and those who... well, I don't really need to finish that.

by **CatEyes** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 12:17 am

Lula, my friend

The loss of a chiild and the accompanying pain is something I cannot even imagine -
The strength you show by discussing it is amazing.

Trevor will forever watch over and protect you all with his love. Perhaps that was his job all along.

Be at peace, Lula - and enjoy the opportunity to just love your babies.

Cat

by **Memorex** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 1:00 am

Whoever said such a terrible thing to you only reflects what their heart is about, not yours. They obviously want some type of "credit" for their simple deed.

That anyone would think anything other than the fact that you would be grateful for everyone's support is just plain stupid. My advice to that shallow person is to not give in that way anymore. If knowing they helped is not enough for them, than they shouldn’t make the effort. I’m sure once they grow up and become an adult, this will make sense to them.

Hopefully you are aware that 99.9% of those that help need nothing in return. I can’t imagine anyone questioning the genuine need it helped you with and the appreciation you both felt.

It warmed my heart how everyone on this board came together at such a moment. I’ll take that as my lasting memory and these other small-minded folks can live in their greedy hell.

by **Eric** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 1:13 am

Lula wrote:please know that this is not to start trouble or poke a stick at some. i have been wanting to say thank you for quite some time. the unfortunate words are just that and i only included them to let the individual know i will gladly return what money they donated. i know who i am and i say so with a pure heart. my pity goes out to those unable to achieve peace and harmony within.

Outside of our fun bickering on here...we all love you and anything we did - you deserve - and no thanks are necessary ever.

by **Michigan Girl** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:13 am

WOW, I am new so I am unfamiliar with this story, but it has become somewhat clear after reading this thread....I am SO SORRY for your loss!!!!

HOWEVER;Granny HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.........
"No thanks are ever needed for a gift of love".

by **kellyhansenfan** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:16 am

People are are mean to others eventually do get whats coming to them. It's like what someone else said...what goes around, comes around.

by **Behshad** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:38 am

Lula , Dean

You know who your true friends are. We will always be there for you no matter what.
Never think that you have to thank us, cause true friends dont do things to hear a thank you. True friends do it
from the heart, no strings attached.

Those who did expect a thank you, didnt do it cause
of good will. They did it to boost their fake ego.
Nothing can take the pain away from losing a child, THAT I know,,,,, I lost my son's twin brother too 5 years ago,,, Its all about looking at things with a positive attitude, like you both are doing.

God Bless You

by **wildchildtwisted** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 5:25 am

Anyone that would criticize people for how they handle their mourning, or wanted you to thank them in a way that suits them, didn't really give from their heart...and you should not even pay attention to these people. I am sincerely sorry for your loss, and I am glad that you have Wyatt to hold close.

God Bless you and your family.

MR

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