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[Michigan Girl]

DONE ANG!!!! Move on, not even worth your time, SORRY!!!!..........

[Angiekay]

Thanks for making a girl feel good...and laugh!!

He actually texted me a bit ago and wanted to have the conversation and I told him I was done with texting, I want a real conversation. However, he is driving with family at the moment. We'll see if I get a call when he gets home.

My first instinct was to just let it go, but I just can't let him think he is getting away with something. I have too many questions and waaaay too many things I need to get off my chest(before anyone else HITS it! ).


However, the last thing he will hear out of my mouth is, "ROT IN HELL"

[xflajrnylvr]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

On second thought, find a great restaurant that you like and order away. Lobster, steak, crab cakes you name it. Then when he drops the bomb, say "Oh!" and then pretend you need to go to the restroom but instead go straight to your car and drive away. He will be left there to pay the bill and will fend for himself to get a ride home. For the meantime, stop by your neighborhood Blockbuster and rent a chick flick (Thelma and Louise, Steel Magnolias, whatever), and enjoy the rest of the night.

should have thought of that myself a few times

[artist4perry]

Ok, I'm torn. I found out last week that my boyfriend of 10months is now dating a pregnant 21 year old(he's 32). We've had a rocky summer ourselves and when I came back from vacation last week he asked me to go out to dinner. I couldn't make it that night because I was doing our football draft and after that I didn't hear from him for a couple days. I open up my facebook on Thursday to see a picture of him and this girl and the status of them being in a relationship. I'm about 90 percent sure the baby is not his, but throughout our relationship he has talked about wanting to get married and have a family. I've not been sure about how I felt about him and he knew that. Instead of discussing it with me or saying he wanted to date other people, this is how I find out.

I had a short discussion via text on Sunday(he's somewhat of a chickenshit) and he says he met her a couple days before the picture was posted and that it was only because he didn't think I was interested. I have found out since that he has talked to her at least once last fall and that he has asked other women out this summer. There are pictures of them looking more then just in the early stages of a relationship on both myspace and facebook.

Sunday he had to cut the conversation short to deal with some family stuff(his grandfather died over the weekend) and said we would finish it later. I've yet to hear from him again. Do I confront him to finish the conversation or do I just walk away?(the relationship is done, but I would like some answers to a few things).

Help!

Honey, listen to an older woman who knows. My first husband cheated on me with everything that moved. He even got prostitutes. When I became suspicious, he would swear undying love for me, and it was ony a fluke, it meant nothing, yada, yada, yada. One day he confessed to all the cheating he did over 15 years of marriage. I was never unfaithful, and I tried so hard to be the "perfect" wife. When I found out I divorced him, later I dated and married my first love from college, and I have been happy since. For the most part, once a cheat always a cheat. Look at it this way, it would be better than finding out 15 years down the road, with two children. Set him free, no one deserves to be treated that badly. Some people just cannot be faithful. They are too selfish to commit.

[ScarabGator]

Thanks for making a girl feel good...and laugh!!

He actually texted me a bit ago and wanted to have the conversation and I told him I was done with texting, I want a real conversation. However, he is driving with family at the moment. We'll see if I get a call when he gets home.

My first instinct was to just let it go, but I just can't let him think he is getting away with something. I have too many questions and waaaay too many things I need to get off my chest(before anyone else HITS it! ).


However, the last thing he will hear out of my mouth is, "ROT IN HELL"

you deserve better.

[StoneCold]

I'm a little unsure of the status but it sounds like he knows you know. Why's he explaining the picture of the other girl? I wouldn't be so sure the kid isn't his. Seems strange he's hooking up with a girl that's already pregnant.

Anyway, I'm for the cut him loose, move on vote. As others have said, you're lucky to get out of it now.

If you do the face to face, don't end up in jail.

[PowerChords]

Thanks for making a girl feel good...and laugh!!

He actually texted me a bit ago and wanted to have the conversation and I told him I was done with texting, I want a real conversation. However, he is driving with family at the moment. We'll see if I get a call when he gets home.

My first instinct was to just let it go, but I just can't let him think he is getting away with something. I have too many questions and waaaay too many things I need to get off my chest(before anyone else HITS it! ).


However, the last thing he will hear out of my mouth is, "ROT IN HELL"

Sounds to me that he is half Welsh, half Hungarian (Wel-hung) or half Swiss, half Irish (Swish!) - The reason you can't just drop him like a hot potato. I just hope you are not stubborn enough to fall from his lame excuses such as:

1. I was not thinking straight
2. You are 100x better than her
3. I feel bad for her or the classic
4. It's not what you think...
Boys will be boys

[nutz4Neal]

Thanks for making a girl feel good...and laugh!!

He actually texted me a bit ago and wanted to have the conversation and I told him I was done with texting, I want a real conversation. However, he is driving with family at the moment. We'll see if I get a call when he gets home.

My first instinct was to just let it go, but I just can't let him think he is getting away with something. I have too many questions and waaaay too many things I need to get off my chest(before anyone else HITS it! ).


However, the last thing he will hear out of my mouth is, "ROT IN HELL"

Girl, speaking from experience (trust me, I've been 'tho this kind of crap before) drop him like a hot potato. He's not worth your time, he's full of IT. There will be someone better for you.

[Deb]

Thanks for making a girl feel good...and laugh!!

He actually texted me a bit ago and wanted to have the conversation and I told him I was done with texting, I want a real conversation. However, he is driving with family at the moment. We'll see if I get a call when he gets home.

My first instinct was to just let it go, but I just can't let him think he is getting away with something. I have too many questions and waaaay too many things I need to get off my chest(before anyone else HITS it! ).


However, the last thing he will hear out of my mouth is, "ROT IN HELL"

F*ck em! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHbdC1U1EaE

[Angiekay]

Sounds to me that he is half Welsh, half Hungarian (Wel-hung) or half Swiss, half Irish (Swish!) - The reason you can't just drop him like a hot potato. I just hope you are not stubborn enough to fall from his lame excuses such as:

1. I was not thinking straight
2. You are 100x better than her
3. I feel bad for her or the classic
4. It's not what you think...
Boys will be boys

Oh, trust me...I CAN and WILL drop him like a hot potato. I have absolutely no intention of taking him back, no matter what he says, I'd just like a few answers first.

Wel-hung, oh honey, trust me there too...not EVEN close!

[slucero]

Wow Angie.. that sucks...

Ok ... here's what ya do...

1. get a box
2. CRAP in the box
3. put the box in a plastic bag that you can seal up
4. When you get in his car to go to dinner slip the box under the seat.
5. Have a great meal... order the menu!
6. Wait till the next HOT day... send him a text.... ask him how his car smells... tell him you forgot to mention you were leaving his shit in the car... wish him luck finding it...

[Sarah]

Ok, I'm torn. I found out last week that my boyfriend of 10months is now dating a pregnant 21 year old(he's 32). We've had a rocky summer ourselves and when I came back from vacation last week he asked me to go out to dinner. I couldn't make it that night because I was doing our football draft and after that I didn't hear from him for a couple days. I open up my facebook on Thursday to see a picture of him and this girl and the status of them being in a relationship. I'm about 90 percent sure the baby is not his, but throughout our relationship he has talked about wanting to get married and have a family. I've not been sure about how I felt about him and he knew that. Instead of discussing it with me or saying he wanted to date other people, this is how I find out.

I had a short discussion via text on Sunday(he's somewhat of a chickenshit) and he says he met her a couple days before the picture was posted and that it was only because he didn't think I was interested. I have found out since that he has talked to her at least once last fall and that he has asked other women out this summer. There are pictures of them looking more then just in the early stages of a relationship on both myspace and facebook.

Sunday he had to cut the conversation short to deal with some family stuff(his grandfather died over the weekend) and said we would finish it later. I've yet to hear from him again. Do I confront him to finish the conversation or do I just walk away?(the relationship is done, but I would like some answers to a few things).

Help!

Wow what a skeezeball. Don't even waste you time. He's not spending any on you, apparently.

[stevew2]

Get a date with Friga,you wont have to worry about him seeing other women. No really ditch him.

[Don]

Have you keyed his car yet?

[stevew2]

Have you keyed his car yet?

Oh shit my truck was keyed WTF is up with that?

[PowerChords]

Holy Cow! What was your ex thinking!!!!
Angie, you are one gorgeous chick! If he says you are just too freaky in bed and that he can't handle you, I am going to punch that bastard in the mouth!

[Angiekay]

Have you keyed his car yet?

If he had a decent car, that would be a great idea! Plus, he parks it right outside his patio door...it would have to be a night op job! I'd rather just kick him square in the balls.

[Angiekay]

Holy Cow! What was your ex thinking!!!!
Angie, you are one gorgeous chick! If he says you are just too freaky in bed and that he can't handle you, I am going to punch that bastard in the mouth!

LOL!! Where'd you find that?! Oh, he's always said I'm way above him on the food chain. Right now...I totally agree. And I'm MUCH better in bed then he is, that's for damn sure!

[Rhiannon]

Walk away, Angie. There are 3 billion men out there and you can have exactly what you want. You're smarter than to put up with this bullshit and he obviously sounds like he has some issues. Maybe a fun guy and all... but not worth the trouble. Drop it like a sick beat.

[7 Wishes]

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple! [/quote]

You always were such a romantic, RWF.

No flowers?

[7 Wishes]

<--- Major Hottie.

Throw a rotting fish in his car a la Walter Mathau in "Grumpy Old Men.

[PowerChords]

Holy Cow! What was your ex thinking!!!!
Angie, you are one gorgeous chick! If he says you are just too freaky in bed and that he can't handle you, I am going to punch that bastard in the mouth!

LOL!! Where'd you find that?! Oh, he's always said I'm way above him on the food chain. Right now...I totally agree. And I'm MUCH better in bed then he is, that's for damn sure!

Daaaaaaaaaaaayuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!

btw, I found your picture from the old MR photo gallery thread. Glad it was still there. And if you really insist in sending me a picture of you in a two-piece bathing suit, I will have no choice but to accept it. Being a newbie here, I am more than happy to take one for the team...

[7 Wishes]

Angie, your affinity for AC/DC notwithstanding...you're stunning...and obviously bright and talented.

Just don't leave him without a souvenir of some kind...

[stevew2]

Holy Cow! What was your ex thinking!!!!
Angie, you are one gorgeous chick! If he says you are just too freaky in bed and that he can't handle you, I am going to punch that bastard in the mouth!

LOL!! Where'd you find that?! Oh, he's always said I'm way above him on the food chain. Right now...I totally agree. And I'm MUCH better in bed then he is, that's for damn sure!

Daaaaaaaaaaaayuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!

btw, I found your picture from the old MR photo gallery thread. Glad it was still there. And if you really insist in sending me a picture of you in a two-piece bathing suit, I will have no choice but to accept it. Being a newbie here, I am more than happy to take one for the team...

You are fucking cool dude

[Angiekay]

You guys know just how to cheer a girl up when she's feeling like someone ripped her stomach out. Thanks

Although, you might change your tune if a two piece pic comes out.

[bluejeangirl76]

1. get a box
2. CRAP in the box
3. put the box in a plastic bag that you can seal up
4. When you get in his car to go to dinner slip the box under the seat.
5. Have a great meal... order the menu!
6. Wait till the next HOT day...

Remind me not to get on your bad side.

[Rhiannon]

You guys know just how to cheer a girl up when she's feeling like someone ripped her stomach out. Thanks

Although, you might change your tune if a two piece pic comes out.

You're the awesomeness, girl. Do NOT let him bring you down (though we all know how that fucking hurts like hell). Relationshits suck. Go find ya a real good one. And ya are hawt. Don't argue. It's not ladylike.

[7 Wishes]

Rhiannon, your cat rocks...somewhere I have a pic of mine eating carrots and lettuce...

[Angiekay]

You're the awesomeness, girl. Do NOT let him bring you down (though we all know how that fucking hurts like hell). Relationshits suck. Go find ya a real good one. And ya are hawt. Don't argue. It's not ladylike.

That's just it, finding another one is the LAST freaking thing I want right now. Sorry guys, I'm going to be a man hater for a while...present company excluded of course.

[PowerChords]

[color=purple]

You guys know just how to cheer a girl up when she's feeling like someone ripped her stomach out. Thanks [/color

I hope there was no sarcasm there...
Hang in there AngieKay. It's his loss. Someday, you will look back at this experience and thank your lucky stars for Mr. Right is finally with you.