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Enigma869 wrote:Carla777 wrote:hahaha Lol guys that is so condescending!!
So calling a woman "hot" now = "condescending"? What a sad state of affairs
Arianddu wrote:No, but talking as though her opinion is only valid because of the way she looks is. Carla is a damn smart cookie, and it would be nice to see you guys respecting her brain and her view point as much as you value her looks.
Enigma869 wrote:Arianddu wrote:No, but talking as though her opinion is only valid because of the way she looks is. Carla is a damn smart cookie, and it would be nice to see you guys respecting her brain and her view point as much as you value her looks.
For the record, I never once said that I agreed with her list, period, let alone agreed with it because she's beautiful! Apparently sarcasm doesn't translate well into other countries
Enigma869 wrote:Carla777 wrote:Here is my list:
R.Plant
F. Mercury
S. Perry
RJ DIO
R. Halford
C. Cornell
L. Staley
S. Nicks
J. Morrison
J. Joplin
I. Gillan
U. Dirkschneider
D. Lee Roth
S. Tyler
B. Lawless
You look too damn good to even argue with
Enigma869 wrote:Carla777 wrote: hahaha Lol guys that is so condescending!!
So calling a woman "hot" now = "condescending"? What a sad state of affairs Sad
Arianddu wrote:And I didn't say you agreed with her, nor did I say you weren't being sarcastic. Let's refresh your memory:
That's not taking Carla's viewpoint seriously; it IS putting her looks before her opinions. If you were valuing her mind and opinions more than her looks, then you wouldn't have made such a patronising, condescending comment; you would have disagreed if you disagree.
Regardless of whether or not I found it condescending and border-line offensive, Carla obviously did, even though she did what so many of us do when we are faced with this patronising, sexist crap: she laughed it off with good grace. Doesn't change the fact that she was annoyed, and you didn't even have the courtesy to acknowlege that you had pissed her off, you just wrote it off as though her attitude was the problem.
Poor form, man, damn poor form.
Blueskies wrote:Hey you two..could you bypass the debate until day after tomorrow?![]()
Enigma869 wrote:Arianddu wrote:And I didn't say you agreed with her, nor did I say you weren't being sarcastic. Let's refresh your memory:
That's not taking Carla's viewpoint seriously; it IS putting her looks before her opinions. If you were valuing her mind and opinions more than her looks, then you wouldn't have made such a patronising, condescending comment; you would have disagreed if you disagree.
Regardless of whether or not I found it condescending and border-line offensive, Carla obviously did, even though she did what so many of us do when we are faced with this patronising, sexist crap: she laughed it off with good grace. Doesn't change the fact that she was annoyed, and you didn't even have the courtesy to acknowlege that you had pissed her off, you just wrote it off as though her attitude was the problem.
Poor form, man, damn poor form.
Save me with the lecture bullshit. If I want a lecture, I'll call my mom. In the spirit of the holiday, I'll refrain from saying what I really think of this bullshit post! Making a comment about how beautiful someone is in my office would be "poor form". On MR, it's just the way life is. If you're looking for political correctness, I'd suggest paying a visit to www.journeymusic.com . Have fun and tell all the moderators that I hope someone pisses in their eggnog
Naa...she's not whining.. I can see where your both coming from.Enigma869 wrote:Blueskies wrote:Hey you two..could you bypass the debate until day after tomorrow?![]()
It's already bypassed. She's officially on my ignore list as I don't have the energy to engage whiners
Blueskies wrote:Hey you two..could you bypass the debate until day after tomorrow?![]()
Sorry! you may resume this Friday!Arianddu wrote:Blueskies wrote:Hey you two..could you bypass the debate until day after tomorrow?![]()
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Ok, I'll lay off the big sook until Boxing Day. Just for you
Arianddu wrote:Enigma869 wrote:Arianddu wrote:And I didn't say you agreed with her, nor did I say you weren't being sarcastic. Let's refresh your memory:
That's not taking Carla's viewpoint seriously; it IS putting her looks before her opinions. If you were valuing her mind and opinions more than her looks, then you wouldn't have made such a patronising, condescending comment; you would have disagreed if you disagree.
Regardless of whether or not I found it condescending and border-line offensive, Carla obviously did, even though she did what so many of us do when we are faced with this patronising, sexist crap: she laughed it off with good grace. Doesn't change the fact that she was annoyed, and you didn't even have the courtesy to acknowlege that you had pissed her off, you just wrote it off as though her attitude was the problem.
Poor form, man, damn poor form.
Save me with the lecture bullshit. If I want a lecture, I'll call my mom. In the spirit of the holiday, I'll refrain from saying what I really think of this bullshit post! Making a comment about how beautiful someone is in my office would be "poor form". On MR, it's just the way life is. If you're looking for political correctness, I'd suggest paying a visit to www.journeymusic.com . Have fun and tell all the moderators that I hope someone pisses in their eggnog
Oh PC my arse! You were a twat, she objected, albeit in a lighthearted fashion, and you responded in a bullshit manner as though it were a tragedy if it is taken that to say someone is good looking is an insult, with a littleemoticon. I pulled your arse on it, pointing out she was right, you were being a condescending fuckwit. You take great pride in being a fucking rude arsehole who states his opinion with great force and shits over anyone who disagrees. Swallow hard, bend over and fucking take it for once, you great whiney pussy.
Sorry, was that not sufficiently sarcastic for you not to take offence?
Blueskies wrote:Sorry! you may resume this Friday!Arianddu wrote:Blueskies wrote:Hey you two..could you bypass the debate until day after tomorrow?![]()
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Ok, I'll lay off the big sook until Boxing Day. Just for youMerry Christmas Ari.
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Melissa wrote:I must be a weird woman, because I saw John's comment to Carla as a compliment. It's obvious how intelligent they both are, and I don't see where he meant any harm, but that's JMHO of course. When you're that beautiful and you put a cute pic of yourself on here, having someone tell you you look damn good is completely par for the course, esp. on herelol.
JMHO
Arianddu wrote:Oh PC my arse! You were a twat, she objected, albeit in a lighthearted fashion, and you responded in a bullshit manner as though it were a tragedy if it is taken that to say someone is good looking is an insult, with a littleemoticon. I pulled your arse on it, pointing out she was right, you were being a condescending fuckwit. You take great pride in being a fucking rude arsehole who states his opinion with great force and shits over anyone who disagrees. Swallow hard, bend over and fucking take it for once, you great whiney pussy.
Sorry, was that not sufficiently sarcastic for you not to take offence?
artist4perry wrote:I just love it when Ari gets her hackles up. She is pretty funny!![]()
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Enigma869 wrote:Arianddu wrote:Oh PC my arse! You were a twat, she objected, albeit in a lighthearted fashion, and you responded in a bullshit manner as though it were a tragedy if it is taken that to say someone is good looking is an insult, with a littleemoticon. I pulled your arse on it, pointing out she was right, you were being a condescending fuckwit. You take great pride in being a fucking rude arsehole who states his opinion with great force and shits over anyone who disagrees. Swallow hard, bend over and fucking take it for once, you great whiney pussy.
Sorry, was that not sufficiently sarcastic for you not to take offence?
Go fuck yourself, "arse" (whatever fuck language that is)!
Melissa wrote:I must be a weird woman, because I saw John's comment to Carla as a compliment. It's obvious how intelligent they both are, and I don't see where he meant any harm, but that's JMHO of course. When you're that beautiful and you put a cute pic of yourself on here, having someone tell you you look damn good is completely par for the course, esp. on herelol.
JMHO
Enigma869 wrote:Melissa wrote:I must be a weird woman, because I saw John's comment to Carla as a compliment. It's obvious how intelligent they both are, and I don't see where he meant any harm, but that's JMHO of course. When you're that beautiful and you put a cute pic of yourself on here, having someone tell you you look damn good is completely par for the course, esp. on herelol.
JMHO
Thank you Melissa. My comment wasn't remotely "condescending" and was meant as nothing more than a compliment. I happen to have three older sisters, whom I adore and a beautiful wife whom I love with all my heart. The comment was nothing more than a playful comment. I thought that's all it was until the kangaroo court had to weigh in with her mindless comments. It's nice to see that we still have some around here with two brain cells connected! Merry Christmas to you and your family, and fuck Australia (sorry Drew)![]()
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Blueskies wrote:1.) John was just giving a compliment and I don't think he meant any offense by it at all.
2. ) If Carla wants her opinions taken into consideration more then her looks it might help if she got rid of or at least changed her avatar..she is posed in a flirtative manner on a bed and shes very attractive so she is bound to get that reaction from men. If she didn't want the attention she wouldn't have a pic like that up. It's human nature for men to react that way towards her picture.
3.) Carla and Ari have a point that her opinion's are not heard by the men on this board and even though she is pretty she should be granted the same consideration in offering her opinion on something that anyone else would get...for it to be agreed with or disagreed with on the substance of what she says.
4.) It's a catch twenty two when you are both intelligent and attractive....and it increases if you want to get male attention at the same time you want your mind valued as well. Yes she should be able to put up any photo and still have her opinions heard but it is a hard thing to do if you've been very flirtative with your pic and many of your posts, in a place full of testosterone.Guys listen to their small head first ..after that subsides they listen with the one between their shoulders...sometimes anyway.
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Now y'all have some Peace and Goodwill to ALL men AND women today, dangit!![]()
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Blueskies wrote:1.) John was just giving a compliment and I don't think he meant any offense by it at all.
2. ) If Carla wants her opinions taken into consideration more then her looks it might help if she got rid of or at least changed her avatar..she is posed in a flirtative manner on a bed and shes very attractive so she is bound to get that reaction from men. If she didn't want the attention she wouldn't have a pic like that up. It's human nature for men to react that way towards her picture.
3.) Carla and Ari have a point that her opinion's are not heard by the men on this board and even though she is pretty she should be granted the same consideration in offering her opinion on something that anyone else would get...for it to be agreed with or disagreed with on the substance of what she says.
4.) It's a catch twenty two when you are both intelligent and attractive....and it increases if you want to get male attention at the same time you want your mind valued as well. Yes she should be able to put up any photo and still have her opinions heard but it is a hard thing to do if you've been very flirtative with your pic and many of your posts, in a place full of testosterone.Guys listen to their small head first ..after that subsides they listen with the one between their shoulders...sometimes anyway.
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Now y'all have some Peace and Goodwill to ALL men AND women today, dangit!![]()
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Carla777 wrote:Dear John from Boston first than all thank you very much for the accomplishment i really aprecciate it...i was actually talking about what Arianddu say in my small claim..but for being honest i was not mad about for real..actually i though it was funny..and i do understand how things work in here..and i ain't no crying baby
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