StevePerryHair wrote:Ehwmatt wrote:StevePerryHair wrote:Ehwmatt wrote:Behshad wrote:Ehwmatt wrote:Can you imagine dating a fuckin porn star? All I could think about before pounding her is how many dicks have made that perilous journey before mine.
Gee, what a shock she'd be addicted to a substance(s) of her choice.
It's a lot like buying a really used car - you might be getting a great value, but you know there are gonna be some serious problems under the hood!
Actually its more than just a used car. Its a used car bought from Hertz. Way too many miles put on it by way too many drivers and warranty! AS IS!
Good point.
On a related note, I was driving to work the other morning and they posted some survey that supposedly said the modern day young woman dates "40 to 61 men on average" before finding "Mr Right"
. Women, what do you think? WTF?! I simply don't believe that figure for men or women. If you have to date 40 to 61 people before you find someone, maybe that's on you or at least your judgment
. Moreover, that's definitely used goods. Ugh. That's sickening. Hot dog down a hallway anyone?
Let me ask you this. If a guy has dated 41 to 61 women, is HE used goods too? Im just asking because I always feel there is a double standard with this kind of thing. A guy can screw as many women as he wants because hes a "guy" but if a woman does she's nasty and "used goods".
I knew you'd ask that Lynn
. Yes, I think the guy is gross too. Admittedly, many others may not. Let's put aside the sexual stuff for a minute though.
Seriously, isn't a figure like that telling about our society/the state of family and marriage in this society if true? (I don't believe it is).
Could this just be about the fact it just might be really hard to find a good guy these days?
Well, I don't think it's men only. I just think the general disrespect of the family unit and the aversion to marriage (largely due to high divorce rates etc), combined with the feminists' encouraging women to "fuck like men" makes people afraid of being in solid relationships, so they fuck around a lot knowing full well the relationship isn't going anywhere past some decent sex. Thus, you get studies with ridiculous figures like that. I mean shit, assume a woman dated in the upper end of that supposed average - 61. Let's even be generous and say it got far enough for sex in just HALF of the relationships. I doubt many people here have slept with 30 different people in their lives.
It's more or less just the way people of both sexes are "told" (if subconsciously) to behave in my generation. Like I said, if that study is anywhere near accurate, it's just kinda sad.
It's good that women have a lot more equality nowadays and can work any career of their choosing and I hope to find a woman who will work hard on her own. But, the injection of the more extreme of the feminist values into mainstream society came at a pretty high price to the family and dating relationships/views towards dating. I think both men and women behaviors in that context have really taken a turn for the worst largely as a result of that extreme stuff.
