Sarah wrote:conversationpc wrote:Sarah wrote:Rhiannon wrote:Sarah wrote:Otherwise, I hope someone's ready to pay for me to carry it.
What do you mean by that? "Pay" for you to carry it? Like an adoption service?
I mean the medical bills.
Except for rape, expenses related to the pregnancy are ALWAYS avoidable. No one else should have to pay for anything related to it.
But once it happens, it's too late to say that, so what are you gonna do? You simply can't make everyone be abstinent, and birth control IS responsible but there's always the 1% chance of failure.
That's where they come in and tell you "if you're going to have sex, you better be ready to handle the consequences". The "sometimes shit happens" argument doesn't hold up with the other side of this argument.
But until they're the ones living it, they need to shush. Not everyone is a dopey teenager or a lazy welfare case, or whatever else. This kind of thing can happen to any woman, for any number of reasons. And it's scary, especially when you know you're on your own.
I think what Sarah was driving at was, if you're taking away my right to choose, taking away one of my options, then you're forcing me into something I can't afford. I'm not sure I'm saying that correctly, and sarah I don't mean to put words in your mouth, so i apologize if that isn't what you meant.