etcetera wrote:Arianddu wrote:Nick-name from a friend in high school who's family was also Welsh; means silver-black, a reference to tarnish (cause I was baaaaad girl who corrupted her and introduced her to boys, rock music and booze - all on the same Sunday!

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Learning...So it's Welsh for silver-black (BTW I think this hue is also commonly associated with elegance.)
Just curious. Which rock music that Sunday...Journey's included?

Ooo, now you're asking - it was 1986, we were 14, and I'd taken her with me to my cousin's 17th Birthday party on Saturday night. We stayed the night there, and sometime after midnight (when my aunt & uncle went to bed) she had her first drink, I think her first smoke, and got snogged by one of the guys there. Then the next day (well, technically later the same day) we just hung out at my place, and I played her a stack of music, which she
really dug. The verdict was that the snog was ok, but the music was better, and we both decided that any boy had to be cooler than the music to get a look in. Funnily enough, not a lot of 14 or 15 year olds matched up, so it was pretty quiet on the dating scene for the next two years
Music - well, not Journey, sorry. Didn't know about them then, they just didn't impact over here. Er, quickly reviewing what I was listening to then, definately a-ha, Cyndi Lauper, AC-DC, The Church, Bangles, Hoodoo Gurus, Simple Minds and Madness. I
think that was the day I introduced her to Metallica (if not then, within the next week) for which her uber-conservative-Christian parents branded me spawn of Satan. Probably Dead Kennedys, The Tubes, Sex Pistols, Black Flag, Devo and The Clash, 'cause I remember raiding my youngest uncle's record collection and the shit he gave me when I got busted. Don't know if it was that particular day, but certainly within the month I got her into Sting, U2, Megadeth. Pink Floyd, Van Halen, David Lee Roth, Hawkwind, Marillion, Eurythmics, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Go-Betweens, The Cure, Dire Straits, They Might Be Giants, Bronski Beat, XTC, and Talking Heads.
Eclectic little f*ck, wasn't I?

Why treat life as a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving in an attractive & well-preserved body? Get there by skidding in sideways, a glass of wine in one hand, chocolate in the other, body totally worn out, screaming WOOHOO! What a ride!