http://www.marinij.com/lifestyles/ci_2981067
Marin men's book on volunteering aimed at boomers
Paul Liberatore
GUY LAMPARD and Bob Rosenberg are Marin baby boomers who retired early and found themselves with an awful lot of time on their hands.
Lampard, 50, of Mill Valley, had done well enough in the field of financial marketing that he could afford to take a few years off. Rosenberg, 59, of Ross, was leaving his practice as an endontist (root canal specialist) after a long career.
It wasn't as if they weren't enjoying their leisure time, playing golf and fly fishing whenever they wanted. It's just that there was something missing in their lives.
They wanted to give something back, to help others. They were thinking that they could contribute through volunteer work. The problem was that they weren't at all sure how to go about it.
"I'm 59, but I'd never volunteered before," Rosenberg said.
"I didn't want to play golf all the time," Lampard added. "But what do I do?"
The two friends searched bookstore shelves for a guide to help them but came up empty. At the suggestion of a friend, Skip Henderson, executive director of the Angel Island Association, they decided to fill the void by writing a book of their own.
Two and a half years later, they have self-published "Giving from Your Heart: A Guide to Volunteering," with all proceeds going to Volunteer for Good, a nonprofit they established to help the volunteer effort.
First and foremost, "Giving from Your Heart" is aimed at their generation, the 77 million baby boomers approaching retirement age. The goal is to help them connect with a volunteer experience that's right for them.
"There's going to be this huge wave of people who are going to start retiring and will continue to do so for the next 15 years," Lampard said. "We coined the term 'active agers' to describe them. After retirement, there's so much more of life for people now. We're leading incredibly active lives."
"Giving from Your Heart" is full of practical information on getting started, evaluating your skills and interests and finding a volunteer position that's a good fit for you.
But, as the title suggests, this is more than merely a how-to book.
It contains inspiring personal stories from people like rock star Steve Perry, who has volunteered with the Make-A-Wish Foundation, and Charlie Garfield, founder of the Shanti Project, which serves people with life-threatening illnesses.
Perry, former lead singer of the rock band Journey, talks about visiting terminally ill children whose dying request was to meet him.
"It changes your whole life," he said of the experience. "I'm never the same person I was when I got there."
Garfield compared finding the right volunteer commitment to "falling in love" and cautioned Lampard and Rosenberg not to lose sight of the human element that outweighs all else in volunteering.
"He told us, 'It's about the people,'" Rosenberg recalled. "'It's about their stories.'"
The authors felt this emotional power firsthand as they traveled to cities like Portland, Ore., and Phoenix to do interviews and gather information for the book.
"As we saw people volunteering, we saw them being transformed," Rosenberg said. "They were transformed by the act of giving."
After a career doing root canals on terrified patients, Rosenberg also found the process of talking to eager volunteer organizers a pleasantly unfamiliar undertaking.
"I used to be in my office all day long and nobody wanted to see me," he said with a laugh. "But doing this book people said they were happy to see me. I said, 'Are you kidding?'"
Lampard became a success in business dealing with money and investments. In the volunteer world, he found that the currency is more emotional and spiritual than monetary.
"It's almost like a religious thing," he said. "It leaves you with such a great feeling."
In his volunteer work, Lampard serves on the boards of the California Historical Foundation and California Historical Society. He has tutored disadvantaged children and coached Little League.
Rosenberg co-founded the Ross Valley Girls Softball League and is the volunteer coordinator of the Great Chefs of Marin benefit for the Lifehouse Agency, which assists developmentally disabled adults.
Their book has been endorsed by former Presidents George H.W. Bush, a volunteer through his Points of Light Foundation, and Jimmy Carter, whose volunteer work with Habitat for Humanity is well-known.
Carter calls the book "a valuable resource for anyone considering enriching their life through service to others." And Bush said, "This book presents the prospective volunteer with a clear picture of how to make that service count. É"
IF YOU GO
Guy Lampard and Bob Rosenberg talk about their book "Giving from Your Heart: A Guide to Volunteering" at 7 p.m. tomorrow at Book Passage in Corte Madera, 51 Tamale Vista. Phone 927-0960.
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This could have been a specific reference to Kenny. That was 1982/1983.
And Kenny wanted to meet Journey, not just Perry.
BUT, I do not know that he is talking about Kenny. Perry certainly
could still be involved with the Make a Wish Foundation.
We DO know, however, that Journey is STILL actively involved with charities. The motorcycle they are raffling off this year is in support of the TJ Martle Foundation. Their first show of 2005 was in support of a Law Enfocement Teen program. The Denver Show was a benefit for Eric Mullins High School. Jon makes Charity Golf Tournement appearances including one recently. So that is just THIS year. Journey has continued their charitable activities with little fanfare.
I HOPE Perry is doing the same.