Hi Sngrchk04,
Don't let him get to you. Yak was very nasty to me about something I innocently said not too long ago. I refuse to explain myself EVER to him.
I read your post and did not think twice about it. Quite frankly, I never even put it in the context that yak did and had to scratch my head to try and figure out how he could even come up with it.
Peace to you and your loving husband,
Elizabeth