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Enigma869 wrote:I've tried to stay out of this whole "apology" thing, but can do so no longer! Who really gives a rat's ass about "uniting" BT and MR? I certainly don't and never will. People say "We're all Journey" fans. I say SO FUCKING WHAT! What the hell does that have to do with anything? I've been a Red Sox fan most of my life, and certainly don't feel compelled to be friends with every Red Sox fan on the planet! The reality is that we're all VERY different people from VERY different worlds, and that will never change. As Lula expressed earlier, we all have very different senses of humor as well!
The one thing I really have an issue with is this "holier than thou", sanctimonious attitude I see from Balktalkers about how awful MR is and how much they're bashed here. The reality is that the only reason I ever even heard about this site was because of the constant bashing I used to see on BT when I was a member on that site! Many people on that site have always been a bit annoyed that Andrew has Journey news before the "official" site gets the news, and have expressed as much. I say so what...If you know the news about your favorite band is here first, come and read it. Andrew was the one who took the high road and decided to wait until Journey had an "official" announcement about their lead singer, before publishing the interviews he had with the guys, weeks ago, and the guy still gets shit for that!
There is a very simple solution for all of us. If you don't like BT, don't post on the site! If you don't like MR, don't post on this site. I can tell you that as soon as I found out there was a Journey forum I could visit, and actually express my honest opinions about my favorite band, I never posted on BT again! I simply grew tired of the nonsense of not being able to express any opinions without 10 people whining about it or getting an email from a mod, telling me that I should probably change my opinion! The only reason I stayed on that site as long as I did was that I felt it was my only option to talk about Journey!
BT and MR cater to two VERY different groups of people, and that is how it should be. If you're someone who finds some vulgarity to be distasteful, you'll probably find BT to be a fine place to hang out. If you're someone who enjoys a good laugh, and prefer to discuss things, other than wiggles and red leather pants, you'll probably find MR to be a bit more palatable!
I think something worth mentioning is that people really take any of this shit FAR too seriously! This is an internet message board, folks! Nobody here is curing cancer, ending world hunger, or bringing our troops home from Iraq! These boards are meant to be light-hearted and an escape from the real world, and nothing more than that! If you're taking things more seriously, it may be time for a new hobby! I can't say that I'm all that surprised about the mods response to Dean's apology. I've been saying for years that most of that group thinks their place in this world is FAR more significant than it will ever be. Their response simply affirmed what I've always believed! I think instead of calling a "truce" next time, we should just have members of BT stay on their boards, and we'll stay on our boards! Honestly, after being on both boards, I don't know why members on this site would ever want to post on BT, with the way that site is currently operated. I also don't know why member of BT would ever want to post here. If we stay out of each other's way, Andrew can have some peace and quiet in his life and not be forced into referee mode! Okay...my rant is over (for now!)
John from Boston
MartyMoffatt wrote:And don't tell me that here is the only place you can discuss Journey. Have a look over the past few months and tell me what proportion of threads here have actually discussed Journey. The vast majority have focused on inter-board personality clashes and one-upmanship, or about subjects completely unrelated, or are just purile jokes. I quite like some of the jokes and the fun (I'm not nearly as anal as my tone might suggest, honest) but BT is no worse in that respect. Maybe the jokes are tamer and the bitching uses less colourful language...
Enigma869 wrote: I've been a Red Sox fan most of my life, and certainly don't feel compelled to be friends with every Red Sox fan on the planet!
John from Boston
jrnychick wrote:I agree with some of what you said, John. It's really not important to me to unite Journey fans. People are different, and that's what makes things interesting! However, I don't like the blatant name-calling and personal insult-hurling that often happens here when someone has an opposing/unpopular viewpoint. That goes way beyond the idea of honest discussion about Journey. I know you don't like the "wiggle" threads. What makes those threads any worse than the ones here that show women's breasts, etc? I just skip over the threads that annoy me, or stop reading when they start going south. You say that you don't like BT and you're glad to not be a member there anymore, but every post I read of yours here talks about BT. Maybe I'm just not reading enough of your posts.
You have made comments about how "high school" BT is. I agree with you. However, in my opinion the behavior of some people on this site has made it much more "high school" than BT has ever been. Calling people names, even though "it's only the Internet" is very immature. I'm sure that someone (probably not you John, because I don't see you calling people names) will jump in here and call me any name they can think of now. Or they'll tell me to get lost for not liking all of the BS that goes on here.
I obviously don't know what has gone on behind the scenes in PMs between different people on this board and BT, and I really don't want to know. The "drama" is really getting annoying.
Enigma869 wrote: I believe Journey's "official" website should be for all of its fans, and not just 5 women who monopolize the boards with thread after thread about a guy who isn't even in the band any longer! Because that is what BT has been reduced to, that is the reason I'm okay with not posting there any longer.
Enigma869 wrote: I believe Journey's "official" website should be for all of its fans, and not just 5 women who monopolize the boards with thread after thread about a guy who isn't even in the band any longer!
Enigma869 wrote:jrnychick wrote:I agree with some of what you said, John. It's really not important to me to unite Journey fans. People are different, and that's what makes things interesting! However, I don't like the blatant name-calling and personal insult-hurling that often happens here when someone has an opposing/unpopular viewpoint. That goes way beyond the idea of honest discussion about Journey. I know you don't like the "wiggle" threads. What makes those threads any worse than the ones here that show women's breasts, etc? I just skip over the threads that annoy me, or stop reading when they start going south. You say that you don't like BT and you're glad to not be a member there anymore, but every post I read of yours here talks about BT. Maybe I'm just not reading enough of your posts.
You have made comments about how "high school" BT is. I agree with you. However, in my opinion the behavior of some people on this site has made it much more "high school" than BT has ever been. Calling people names, even though "it's only the Internet" is very immature. I'm sure that someone (probably not you John, because I don't see you calling people names) will jump in here and call me any name they can think of now. Or they'll tell me to get lost for not liking all of the BS that goes on here.
I obviously don't know what has gone on behind the scenes in PMs between different people on this board and BT, and I really don't want to know. The "drama" is really getting annoying.
For the record, I haven't called anyone names, with the exception of calling Mr. H2H an "antagonistic jerk", and I stand by that comment! In terms of what makes threads here showing women's breasts over and over again any different than the wiggle bullshit. My answer to that would be I don't see the same 5 people on this board "bumping" the same posts over and over again, for the sake of doing it. That's all that ever happens on the other site. Also, for the record, I talk about FAR more topics than BT. This is the only topic I have ever started on this site that has addressed BT. The only other BT mentions by me on this site are when addressing someone else's point in a particular thread! In terms of my being "glad" not to be posting on BT any longer...Let me clarify my comment. I believe Journey's "official" website should be for all of its fans, and not just 5 women who monopolize the boards with thread after thread about a guy who isn't even in the band any longer! Because that is what BT has been reduced to, that is the reason I'm okay with not posting there any longer. As I've said before, I hope someday BT will be opened up to more discussion and not be a place that alienates so many fans of the music! ll By the way, the forums are just one very small part of what is wrong with that site! It goes MUCH deeper than that. Visit Jeff Scott Soto's site, and then visit Journey's site, and the glaring omissions on the Journey site will jump off of the page at you!
John from Boston
Transy wrote:
I see three sides that will forever be in conflict:
The fans who think Steve Perry IS Journey.Period.
Then the fans who think that Steve Augeri saved Journey and gave them another decade of music and concerts.
Now there’s a new division: the fans that think Jeff Scott Soto is the one who will put Journey up on the pedestal again.
So now the *war* is even more intense.
Enigma869 wrote:I've tried to stay out of this whole "apology" thing, but can do so no longer! Who really gives a rat's ass about "uniting" BT and MR? I certainly don't and never will. People say "We're all Journey" fans. I say SO FUCKING WHAT! What the hell does that have to do with anything? I've been a Red Sox fan most of my life, and certainly don't feel compelled to be friends with every Red Sox fan on the planet! The reality is that we're all VERY different people from VERY different worlds, and that will never change. As Lula expressed earlier, we all have very different senses of humor as well!
The one thing I really have an issue with is this "holier than thou", sanctimonious attitude I see from Balktalkers about how awful MR is and how much they're bashed here. The reality is that the only reason I ever even heard about this site was because of the constant bashing I used to see on BT when I was a member on that site! Many people on that site have always been a bit annoyed that Andrew has Journey news before the "official" site gets the news, and have expressed as much. I say so what...If you know the news about your favorite band is here first, come and read it. Andrew was the one who took the high road and decided to wait until Journey had an "official" announcement about their lead singer, before publishing the interviews he had with the guys, weeks ago, and the guy still gets shit for that!
There is a very simple solution for all of us. If you don't like BT, don't post on the site! If you don't like MR, don't post on this site. I can tell you that as soon as I found out there was a Journey forum I could visit, and actually express my honest opinions about my favorite band, I never posted on BT again! I simply grew tired of the nonsense of not being able to express any opinions without 10 people whining about it or getting an email from a mod, telling me that I should probably change my opinion! The only reason I stayed on that site as long as I did was that I felt it was my only option to talk about Journey!
BT and MR cater to two VERY different groups of people, and that is how it should be. If you're someone who finds some vulgarity to be distasteful, you'll probably find BT to be a fine place to hang out. If you're someone who enjoys a good laugh, and prefer to discuss things, other than wiggles and red leather pants, you'll probably find MR to be a bit more palatable!
I think something worth mentioning is that people really take any of this shit FAR too seriously! This is an internet message board, folks! Nobody here is curing cancer, ending world hunger, or bringing our troops home from Iraq! These boards are meant to be light-hearted and an escape from the real world, and nothing more than that! If you're taking things more seriously, it may be time for a new hobby! I can't say that I'm all that surprised about the mods response to Dean's apology. I've been saying for years that most of that group thinks their place in this world is FAR more significant than it will ever be. Their response simply affirmed what I've always believed! I think instead of calling a "truce" next time, we should just have members of BT stay on their boards, and we'll stay on our boards! Honestly, after being on both boards, I don't know why members on this site would ever want to post on BT, with the way that site is currently operated. I also don't know why member of BT would ever want to post here. If we stay out of each other's way, Andrew can have some peace and quiet in his life and not be forced into referee mode! Okay...my rant is over (for now!)
John from Boston
donnaplease wrote:I think you forgot the newest group: The fans who think that Steve Perry IS Journey, but think that JSS is finally the hope for a new re-energized Journey that is capable of being revelent in the music industry once again
EightyRock wrote:Journey wants the fan base united. It brings in more moneyIf Augeri fans are still pissed, they might not go to concerts. If Perry fans are still pissed, they might not go to concerts. It all comes down to that. There is never going to be a united fanbase.
EightyRock wrote:
If they send all the posts about Perry, the co-writer of all their hits, to the PT back room, then they better damn well send "Mr. Awesome"there, too.
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