steveforever wrote:strangegrey wrote:jrnyman28 wrote:SG, the only problem with your scenario is that Ben and Amy had quit the personal relationship before they even recorded Fallen....
Yeah, I'm aware of that...I still submit, however, that the 'ex' in their relationship was enough to destroy any hope for musical longetivity...It's an absolutely disastrous dynamic to be in a band with someone you are *or* were fucking...it only leads to one thing. There isn't a single example of a band that actually stayed intact with that dynamic. Fleetwood Mac, Heart, Ev, it doesn't matter....
ABBA, they all swapped and stayed together. I see your point though.
Except the relationship problems within ABBA did change the mood of the band (as is clear from the Winner Takes It All song and video in 1980) and eventually destroyed it....