ohsherrie wrote:Look Tree, I have nothing personal against you, but I'm getting a bit tired of having my friendship with Jeremey thrown in my face and I'm sure several of his other friends are too. I don't have to explain myself, my choices or my preferences in frontmen to you or anyone else. I like what I like and I don't like what I don't like, and I say so. That's it. You don't have to like it and I don't have to explain or apologize for it.
ohsherrie,
I always enjoy your posts and agree with you most of the time.

I think you may have missunderstood the point tree was trying to make and maybe you took it a bit too personal, which is normal if you saw it from a different view than I did.
Let me try to explain my view the way I saw tree explaining it and you tell me if it makes sense.
This isnt about throwing someone's friendship at your face or not. This is more about how biased we all can be. I am not gonna exclude myself from that either as I'm guilty as well,,, Its just natural,,,its called loyalty.
Let me simply ask you this:
If you were NOT friends with Jeremey and the band had decided to announce Jeremey as their new singer, what would your take be on this issue? Do you think you would support the bands decision!?
You dont have to explain yourself to anyone, cause at the end of the day its YOUR CHOICE if you want to listen to the new Journey or not.
But you have to agree that it does make it easier to say YES to someone, if youre already a friend/fan, at the same time that it does make it tougher for the new guy without any friends(well in Arnel's case his friends dont have access to internet/MR

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I hoped I explained it well enough for you. Keep in mind I am not trying to defend Arnel in anyway, as I disagree with the bands decision nor am I trying to put you down for being friends with Jeremey.