Not necessarily TVL... in my case, my reasons listed are called 'ah-ha' indicators.
Attractive -- This is the basis for initial interest. There isn't anything shallow about it, just the way humans are wired instinctively.
His own place -- Means he is supporting himself, or at least trying to. Speaks volumes for a 26 year old guy these days to be out on his own. Shows responsibility, self-confidence, and reliability. An individual and independent. Majorly hot!
Nice car -- Once again, responsible. Since it was clean it shows he takes pride in what he has and strives to take care of it. And no obvious signs of collisions or damage means he is probably a decent driver, too.
So. It isn't exactly being 'shallow'. Its just learning to read people and guage potential.
