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[Angiekay]

Ok, I'm torn. I found out last week that my boyfriend of 10months is now dating a pregnant 21 year old(he's 32). We've had a rocky summer ourselves and when I came back from vacation last week he asked me to go out to dinner. I couldn't make it that night because I was doing our football draft and after that I didn't hear from him for a couple days. I open up my facebook on Thursday to see a picture of him and this girl and the status of them being in a relationship. I'm about 90 percent sure the baby is not his, but throughout our relationship he has talked about wanting to get married and have a family. I've not been sure about how I felt about him and he knew that. Instead of discussing it with me or saying he wanted to date other people, this is how I find out.

I had a short discussion via text on Sunday(he's somewhat of a chickenshit) and he says he met her a couple days before the picture was posted and that it was only because he didn't think I was interested. I have found out since that he has talked to her at least once last fall and that he has asked other women out this summer. There are pictures of them looking more then just in the early stages of a relationship on both myspace and facebook.

Sunday he had to cut the conversation short to deal with some family stuff(his grandfather died over the weekend) and said we would finish it later. I've yet to hear from him again. Do I confront him to finish the conversation or do I just walk away?(the relationship is done, but I would like some answers to a few things).

Help!

[PowerChords]

Ok, I'm torn. I found out last week that my boyfriend of 10months is now dating a pregnant 21 year old(he's 32). We've had a rocky summer ourselves and when I came back from vacation last week he asked me to go out to dinner. I couldn't make it that night because I was doing our football draft and after that I didn't hear from him for a couple days. I open up my facebook on Thursday to see a picture of him and this girl and the status of them being in a relationship. I'm about 90 percent sure the baby is not his, but throughout our relationship he has talked about wanting to get married and have a family. I've not been sure about how I felt about him and he knew that. Instead of discussing it with me or saying he wanted to date other people, this is how I find out.

I had a short discussion via text on Sunday(he's somewhat of a chickenshit) and he says he met her a couple days before the picture was posted and that it was only because he didn't think I was interested. I have found out since that he has talked to her at least once last fall and that he has asked other women out this summer. There are pictures of them looking more then just in the early stages of a relationship on both myspace and facebook.

Sunday he had to cut the conversation short to deal with some family stuff(his grandfather died over the weekend) and said we would finish it later. I've yet to hear from him again. Do I confront him to finish the conversation or do I just walk away?(the relationship is done, but I would like some answers to a few things).

Help!

Forget what Hunsicker says. Walk away! The relationship is over. Move on. When he's ready to talk, then let him talk. Don't wait for him to do so though. Don't waste your time. Start dating again girl.

[Babyblue]

Find someone else that will be better for you.He is a jerk if he cared about you he would not have been mesing with the others.

P.S.

You are to good for him.

[Don]

No need to talk, just move on. If he wants to talk later, do it in a public place so he doesn't try to dickwhip you. If you forgive him, you'll be holding that shit over his head for ever anyway so your relationship would be fucked. Every second you give to him from now on is shared with her. Drop it and move on. You don't need answers. He's a dude. We think with our small brain more often than the large one. Nothing to discuss, Dismiss and move on.

[RedWingFan]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

[PowerChords]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

On second thought, find a great restaurant that you like and order away. Lobster, steak, crab cakes you name it. Then when he drops the bomb, say "Oh!" and then pretend you need to go to the restroom but instead go straight to your car and drive away. He will be left there to pay the bill and will fend for himself to get a ride home. For the meantime, stop by your neighborhood Blockbuster and rent a chick flick (Thelma and Louise, Steel Magnolias, whatever), and enjoy the rest of the night.

[Rick]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

On second thought, find a great restaurant that you like and order away. Lobster, steak, crab cakes you name it. Then when he drops the bomb, say "Oh!" and then pretend you need to go to the restroom but instead go straight to your car and drive away. He will be left there to pay the bill and will fend for himself to get a ride home. For the meantime, stop by your neighborhood Blockbuster and rent a chick flick (Thelma and Louise, Steel Magnolias, whatever), and enjoy the rest of the night.

I love this solution.

[Don]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

On second thought, find a great restaurant that you like and order away. Lobster, steak, crab cakes you name it. Then when he drops the bomb, say "Oh!" and then pretend you need to go to the restroom but instead go straight to your car and drive away. He will be left there to pay the bill and will fend for himself to get a ride home. For the meantime, stop by your neighborhood Blockbuster and rent a chick flick (Thelma and Louise, Steel Magnolias, whatever), and enjoy the rest of the night.

I love this solution.

Drive him to the restaurant with ALANIS MORISSETTE blasting out of you stereo, that'll get him warmed up.

[S2M]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

[DerriD]

Being safely outside your relationship, I would strongly urge you to walk away clean. Don't worry about trying to make sense out of his decisions, getting a sense of closure or possibly working through it.

Of course in the past, I've done exactly those very things. It is never going to make sense and the sooner you put some mileage between you and him the better.

[DrFU]

This sounds like a really painful situation; sorry you are having to go through it, Angie. Talking would probably only be worth it in terms of having an opportunity to say what you want to say; he is who he is, and it sounds like straightforward communication is not likely to happen on his part.

[PowerChords]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

[Babyblue]

He probably wanted to take you to dinner to tell you he's banging the other chick. If I'm correct then all you really missed out on was a free dinner. He's a dick! Consider yourself lucky your not tied to him.

On second thought, find a great restaurant that you like and order away. Lobster, steak, crab cakes you name it. Then when he drops the bomb, say "Oh!" and then pretend you need to go to the restroom but instead go straight to your car and drive away. He will be left there to pay the bill and will fend for himself to get a ride home. For the meantime, stop by your neighborhood Blockbuster and rent a chick flick (Thelma and Louise, Steel Magnolias, whatever), and enjoy the rest of the night.

I must say that is a good one.

[ScarabGator]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

[Babyblue]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

[ScarabGator]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

[S2M]

Scarab, do you just volunteer?

I think he just volunteered, everybody.....

[RedWingFan]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

[ScarabGator]

Scarab, do you just volunteer?

I think he just volunteered, everybody.....

volunteered???? More like drove my 4x4 right thru her door....

[Don]

Scarab, do you just volunteer?

I think he just volunteered, everybody.....

volunteered???? More like drove my 4x4 right thru her door....

Bareback or lambskin?

[S2M]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Would you dress up like one of those Skull-raider fans while you hit it?

I've always been impressed with BJG's post-style, and wit...

[ScarabGator]

Scarab, do you just volunteer?

I think he just volunteered, everybody.....

volunteered???? More like drove my 4x4 right thru her door....

Bareback or lambskin?

me or the truck???

[Don]

Who or what is BLG?

[Don]

Scarab, do you just volunteer?

I think he just volunteered, everybody.....

volunteered???? More like drove my 4x4 right thru her door....

Bareback or lambskin?

me or the truck???

[ScarabGator]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

[RedWingFan]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

Nice going. You freaks scared poor Angie off!

[S2M]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

Nice going. You freaks scared poor Angie off! [/quo


WE scared her off?!

I think it wa, YOU, Mr. Purple People Eater.....

[ScarabGator]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

Nice going. You freaks scared poor Angie off!

Nah, she just needs a little ScarabGator inspiration......

[Babyblue]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

Nice going. You freaks scared poor Angie off!

Or she is laughing her ass off at you guys.

[ScarabGator]

Here's what to do: Find a nice looking hunky guy(rent one if you must....lol), invite sir dickhead to dinner, but show up about 15 mins early with the rent-a-hunk, and when you see the Mr. Rectal Circumference coming - lock lips with Hunk-o-rama....problem solved, point will be taken.....then simply smile, and walk out of the restaurant....

Why rent? Can we find anyone from the MR family to help out? I hope they will do it for AngieKay for free. Anyone?

you are too much man!!!

Angie Kay knows she sets my heart on fire....

I've seen her pictures. Angie is pretty damn hot. If I wasn't married, I'd hit it so hard and often that I'd see to it her girlie region stayed a nice shade of Vikings purple!

Ya damn right!!! Ive seen her pics!!!! That dude must be cracked out.

Nice going. You freaks scared poor Angie off!

Or she is laughing her ass off at you guys.

I'll give her perspiration from my inspiration....