What happens next?

[Jeremey]

Hey everyone,

Just want to post real quick to say thanks to all of you for hanging out, being cool, and being interested in my music and sharing our love for Journey here over the past 7 years I've been a part of this forum.

Unfortunately for me, things seemed to change when my name got outed as JSS' replacement a couple of summers ago. At that point I became not a forum member but a topic of conversation, and for the most part here it wasn't real pleasant. I had hoped that people I considered friends would see me through and for the most part that was true - some I thought were friends didn't survive that time period, and I probably should have realized then I wouldn't be able to get back into the swing of things as just a forum member anymore. I tried to stick it out mostly out of pride - as in "they can't run me off" - but I probably should have backed out long ago.

Since then I've tried to lay low and just post updates about Frontiers shows or some writing demos etc, but then everytime I'd try to get back into "conversation mode" something else would come up about me and my Journey situation, making it real difficult to stay "normal." The funny thing is, no one here knows me personally - I've met a few people and made friends here, but certainly not in any context of my deep personal life. It's disturbing when people presume things about you or make judgements about you without knowing anything about you. It's been a real lesson that hasn't been fun, but certainly been necessary.

Anyway, I've never been a fan of "grand exits" here or anywhere else. But I thought it necessary anyways to let people know that I have really enjoyed being a part of this forum when it wasn't so contraversial. But two years later, it appears I still can't be a member of the "general public" so I wanted to share for those with any interest where they can continue to stay in touch w/me and the like.

My main website for my upcoming CD and other solo releases is the ReverbNation site which is linked in my sig. The Frontiers site and information is always at www.journeytributeband.com, and videos, songs, etc are usually released on our reverbnation.com/journeymusiclive site.

Lastly, let me one declaration that most of you probably know anyway - Real life is always MUCH more fun than any computer forum. As always, in the future I hope to meet many more of you on the road and hope everyone has great success in family, love, and fortune.

Thanks again,
Jeremey

[Behshad]

Hey everyone,

Just want to post real quick to say thanks to all of you for hanging out, being cool, and being interested in my music and sharing our love for Journey here over the past 7 years I've been a part of this forum.

Unfortunately for me, things seemed to change when my name got outed as JSS' replacement a couple of summers ago. At that point I became not a forum member but a topic of conversation, and for the most part here it wasn't real pleasant. I had hoped that people I considered friends would see me through and for the most part that was true - some I thought were friends didn't survive that time period, and I probably should have realized then I wouldn't be able to get back into the swing of things as just a forum member anymore. I tried to stick it out mostly out of pride - as in "they can't run me off" - but I probably should have backed out long ago.

Since then I've tried to lay low and just post updates about Frontiers shows or some writing demos etc, but then everytime I'd try to get back into "conversation mode" something else would come up about me and my Journey situation, making it real difficult to stay "normal." The funny thing is, no one here knows me personally - I've met a few people and made friends here, but certainly not in any context of my deep personal life. It's disturbing when people presume things about you or make judgements about you without knowing anything about you. It's been a real lesson that hasn't been fun, but certainly been necessary.

Anyway, I've never been a fan of "grand exits" here or anywhere else. But I thought it necessary anyways to let people know that I have really enjoyed being a part of this forum when it wasn't so contraversial. But two years later, it appears I still can't be a member of the "general public" so I wanted to share for those with any interest where they can continue to stay in touch w/me and the like.

My main website for my upcoming CD and other solo releases is the ReverbNation site which is linked in my sig. The Frontiers site and information is always at www.journeytributeband.com, and videos, songs, etc are usually released on our reverbnation.com/journeymusiclive site.

Lastly, let me one declaration that most of you probably know anyway - Real life is always MUCH more fun than any computer forum. As always, in the future I hope to meet many more of you on the road and hope everyone has great success in family, love, and fortune.

Thanks again,
Jeremey

Stick around dude,,, you should know by now that you will get brought up here and there because of your past relations with Journey....
You know you can not just get rid of your addiction to this place,,, and Stevew2 could tell you that youre wrong with your "Real life is always MUCH more fun than any computer forum" statement, if his Vonage was up and running ,,,

[journeyMusic]

I hate to see you go man but I completely understand your feelings. I'll assure you that you'll see me at shows,on MySpace and Facebook. Also,I've sent that committee a message about the Wythe..... festival in June.

Later bro.

[NealIsGod]

Keep in touch J.

[Don]

I hope your success in music will match the joy you have found in your own personal life with your family and friends, Jeremey.
Good Luck.

[bluejeangirl76]

Aw, Jeremey this sucks. However, I can't say I blame you.

Its really too bad that some people can't just be in on the fun and be treated like regular members and post normally if they have or have had some kind of connection to Journey. I'm not naming names because I don't wish to drag people into it, but I think we all get what I mean. I see it all the time around here, and I find it unnecessary. They almost become a third party and people post about you as if you're not here and can't see it all, or they want and expect you to pop in and answer their questions, confirm or deny the stories they're heard, etc.. I can only imagine what the PMs to you and a few others must look like. I'm no angel all the time around here, but I can honestly say I've never done that to any of our somewhat spotlit guests and I know a lot of us can say the same.

Would be nice if you hung around, Jeremey, but as I said, I can't blame you. See you Saturday.

[Arkansas]

... The funny thing is, no one here knows me personally - I've met a few people and made friends here, but certainly not in any context of my deep personal life. ...

Isn't this the truth about 99.9% of all online 'friends'. Never understood why people get so clingy & think they're close out here. That whole sense of 'family', while I don't deny it exists on some level, is really all vicarious garbage. Only those who have spent significant/extended real time together can claim true friendship. Most people always forget to use 'virtual' when dealing with this reality. Real life is not spent on a computer.


later~

[artist4perry]

Honestly I know nothing about your history. I have heard your name in blogs but had no idea who they were talking about, so I guess of all the folks here, I can truely say I would have treated you no differently. I am truely sorry you feel you cannot be a part of it all here. God bless you in your life and your future. I have always said the bands situation is not mine to pick appart, in my oppinion. Only the people involved have that right. I wish you well!

[larryfromnextdoor]

im a member of ReverbNation and love the new tunes.

[(Crazy)Dulce Lady]

fluff 'em all. stick around and engage your cloaking devices over the annoying ones. don't punish us by bailing cuz some can't behave.

just let them be invisible. there are certain peeps here I won't read and I won't respond. it's so much neater that way..

we'll be around for you, either way. u rock

how's the baby???

[madsplash]

I hate to hear this also, Jeremey. You're one of the few people who I really look forward to reading what you post.
I don't think I've ever done anything to offend you, but if I did, I apologize.
I've let it be know many times that I think that you were the best choice for Journey and I still feel that way.
I'll keep checking out your music, for sure.

Really hope you'll change your mind, but I understand. There are really cool people here and this is mostly a great place, but there are several people who just have to be negative about everything.

Anyway, please hang around, but if you decide you can't, I wish you nothing but continued success in your life and music. With your talent, you deserve to be a huge success.

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

[Marabelle]

hey jeremey, i don't know you at all; just read some of your post and know you are doing the journey gigs around the country. this is cool that you're taking a header and leaving the forum cause of a couple of reasons. you know someone told me this awhile ago and it's true if you're going to leave then just leave no need to appear as 'you guys done me wrong and so i'm leaving'. just leave. take care and good luck. i'm sure you'll showup time and again. that's cool too. hey just be yourself and this other stuff; makes no matter. i enjoy your visits.
i enjoy the post i have read. be yourself. don't let anybody else dictate your life, where you live, where you go or who your friends are.

peace be with you.

[NealIsGod]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

True dat.

[fightingilliniJRNY]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

[StoneCold]

later jer, keep rockin'

[finalfight]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

Hey leave Splashtradamus alone! He obviously has insider info about Arnel being given the boot! It's all about timing...

YOU'LL SEE!

Sorry, back on track. Good on ya Jeremey, enjoy your sanity! Seriously though, I hope all goes well for you and yours and I hope to see you round these parts again one day - unless you make it big, in which case avoid, avoid, AVOID! Front page interviews only!

[madsplash]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

I don't know if I will or not. We'll see about that.

And no conspiracy theories. Just me thinking AP's voice will never take the strain at his age.

Conspiracy, friend's sister's blah, blah, blah. Don't get your panties in wad. It's just an opinion.

[madsplash]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

Hey leave Splashtradamus alone! He obviously has insider info about Arnel being given the boot! It's all about timing...

YOU'LL SEE!
Sorry, back on track. Good on ya Jeremey, enjoy your sanity! Seriously though, I hope all goes well for you and yours and I hope to see you round these parts again one day - unless you make it big, in which case avoid, avoid, AVOID! Front page interviews only!

Hey FF, take your BatGirl picture there and go outside in the street and play hide-and-go f_ _ k yourself.

[finalfight]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

Hey leave Splashtradamus alone! He obviously has insider info about Arnel being given the boot! It's all about timing...

YOU'LL SEE!
Sorry, back on track. Good on ya Jeremey, enjoy your sanity! Seriously though, I hope all goes well for you and yours and I hope to see you round these parts again one day - unless you make it big, in which case avoid, avoid, AVOID! Front page interviews only!

Hey FF, take your BatGirl picture there and go outside in the street and play hide-and-go f_ _ k yourself.

Ouch. Big man! Sorry to have upset you Ro...I mean Steve! Run on back to your loon harem now before the buffaloes stampede!

Now lets agree to leave this out of Jeremey's thread shall we.

[madsplash]

P.S. I'm betting the Journey gig opens again VERY soon, but If I were you, I'd audition, get the gig, and then tell Neal to shove it up his A _ S! He made the wrong choice the first time.

It's always something with you conspiracy theorists, isn't it? Is this another one of your hints that comes from a friend of your sister's boyfriend's nephew? Are you going to follow my post with "WE'LL SEE"?

Hey leave Splashtradamus alone! He obviously has insider info about Arnel being given the boot! It's all about timing...

YOU'LL SEE!
Sorry, back on track. Good on ya Jeremey, enjoy your sanity! Seriously though, I hope all goes well for you and yours and I hope to see you round these parts again one day - unless you make it big, in which case avoid, avoid, AVOID! Front page interviews only!

Hey FF, take your BatGirl picture there and go outside in the street and play hide-and-go f_ _ k yourself.

Ouch. Big man! Sorry to have upset you Ro...I mean Steve! Run on back to your loon harem now before the buffaloes stampede!

Now lets agree to leave this out of Jeremey's thread shall we.

Agreed. Sorry about that part. Forgot what thread we were in. I'm proud to be a nonsexual moon.

[KDOUBLEU]

Im brand new around here Im just getting to know everyone I found what you had to say very interesting. Dont leave now stick around. I enjoy listening to your music as well as your comments.

[jrnyman28]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

[finalfight]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

This might be the last time I get to do this but...it's Jeremey. Jeremey!

I will actually miss doing that.

[artist4perry]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

There ya go! Change identity on here. No one will be the wiser..........I hear Perry is really Madsplash...........really......

[finalfight]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

There ya go! Change identity on here. No one will be the wiser..........I hear Perry is really Madsplash...........really......

SHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhh! Don't let the abused cat out of the bag!

[nolippin]

Stay or go. It won't change the board one way or the other, but dramatic goodbyes are self serving.

[artist4perry]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

There ya go! Change identity on here. No one will be the wiser..........I hear Perry is really Madsplash...........really......

SHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhh! Don't let the abused cat out of the bag!

(right......you beatin the cats again?)

[S2M]

Stay or go. It won't change the board one way or the other, but dramatic goodbyes are self serving.

Agreed.....self-serving, and puke inducing at the same time. Is that a paradox?

[jrnyman28]

Jeremy, change your screen name and be a newbie. Post what you want. Tell no one.

Keep Jeremy around for when you have Frontiers info.

Begging your pardon, sir. I know several Jeremys and Jeremeys so it is difficult to keep it straight......

[jrnyman28]

Stay or go. It won't change the board one way or the other, but dramatic goodbyes are self serving.

Agreed.....self-serving, and puke inducing at the same time. Is that a paradox?

And Jeremey even acknowledges this:

Anyway, I've never been a fan of "grand exits" here or anywhere else. But I thought it necessary anyways to let people know that I have really enjoyed being a part of this forum