I am all for Valentines Day, it is just a fun excuse to spend time with my husband! We don't go to great expense, and we have more fun just being together all day. The nights rock as well.........
I do think the comercials are over hyped. One of the stupidest ones is for the Vermont teddy bears. Sounds like the intro to a porno film.

"Oh its ssssosoooooooooooooo BIG!".. "I just want to KISS IT over and OVER!" Three bimbos in an office orgasming over a stuffed bear. Right. The men are getting aroused by their discussion, and order too so they can get "lucky". Blech!
The other stupid comercial. The one over the granny pajamas. "Want a way to get them to take their clothes off?" Buy them these boring looking PJ's. She will think you spent weeks planning it. So, she never looks at TV and can never guess that you ordered it through this company? Also another appeal to "get lucky".
I have a better suggestion. Treat her real nice. Be sweet, open the door once in a while. Say kind things to her. Help her out sometimes. Much more errotic than all the junk in the world. Does it for me!