Gin and Tonic Sky wrote:Welcome back Wombat , I kind of know what you mean with the escape / revelation thing . The way I see it :
1)Escape= a walk through Central Park with yourhot supermodel look a like girlfriend/wife, filet mignon and lobster dinner by candelight, and making love in the luxury suite of the Waldorf Astoria, a couple of brandies or whiskies then a good night sleep
2) Revelation= Driving out to an abandoned parking lot on the edge of a small town with a sack of greasy 69cent cheeseburgers from Nicks hambuger stand (the kind where the grease makes the paper bag they come in break to pieces), a six pack of Miller High Life, a girl with a knockout body but with a butt ugly face who knows every single dirty move ever thought of by mankind and whose been around town a bit, and then just going for it animal like,...
Now 99 percent of the time. you gotta go for option one , but sometimes option two just hits the spot and is more desirable
trial by fire--would be like butt fucking the ex-wife you divorced ten years ago.its not the most desirable way of doing things but its just pretty damn good if the right mood hits.then afterwards she lights up an ultra light and he drinks a non alcoholic beer.[/b]