How long have you been married???

[SherriBerry]

never mind. i hope nobody saw that.


Never been married. the last guy i sort of dated is lucky i didn't hock his hotrod and burn his house to the ground.

It looks like we may have a lineup to post in a 'Dating Horror Stories' thread!

[Babyblue]

I've never been married and at 37, I still don't feel like I need to be. If I found a wonderful guy, it would be nice to get married, but I'm fine on my own too if the right guy never comes along and I like my independence. I would rather be single than married to the wrong person!

DING DING DING DING DING!!! Thank you for summing up my life! Thought I'd found the right man, but after living with him for 5 years, came to realise that loving someone isn't enough, you have to be able to live with them, respect them, and make compromises for them, and just as importantly they have to be prepared to make compromises in return. I still adore him, and I still think of his parents as mine, but we're happier as friends than we ever were as a couple. And I'm so thankful that we made the decision to break up before we actually went through with the ceremony and before I got pregnant, because both of those things are 'forever after, like it or not' for me . As far as I am concerned, you better make sure you are damn ready to dance before you ask the devil to start the music.

Exactly - someone can be an amazing individual and great friend, but not be compatible as a partner or husband.

Actually, this is one of the reasons I'm moving out of my hometown - I never planned on being here anyway, but very few men in my age range move to town who are not already married or living with someone who followed them here. It makes for slim pickens! Getting out in the world should give me a much better chance of meeting someone who is compatible. It isn't my goal, but it would be a nice bonus. Since I never dated much to begin with and I'm well out of practice after living here so long, I may have some dating horror stories in the coming year. If they aren't too bad, I'll be sure to share them!

You will find someone just wait and see hon.I am so out of pratice it has been so long since i have dated myself.But i am willing to try it again.But where do you meet the men???I don't go to bars anymore not my cup of tea.

I don't go to bars either and that's all there is in this town! My best friends met their husbands while they were in the same programs at university. I'm finishing a degree through the distance ed program, but I almost wonder if I shouldn't go back to campus. At my age though, I would either have to meet guys in graduate programs or find single professors!

Edit: When I lived in a bigger city, I followed my interests and joined a couple of clubs (one was a Jiu-Jitsu dojo) for no other reason than I wanted to be there - the bonus was that I did meet some great guys who shared the same interests, so joining a club is a good place to start!

Good for you hon go for it. Maybe joining some clue maybe the way to go.I guess i need to check it out myself.Good Luck with everything

[bluejeangirl76]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

[Ehwmatt]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

I'm my favorite companion

[StevePerryHair]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

I'm my favorite companion

Yes, we know, the "love of your life"

[KenTheDude]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

I'm my favorite companion

Yes, we know, the "love of your life"

A legend in his own mind.

[Behshad]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

I could totally see you breaking up with yourself

[belar]

I've been married for 11 years and I'm happy as pie.

[SherriBerry]

I've never been married and at 37, I still don't feel like I need to be. If I found a wonderful guy, it would be nice to get married, but I'm fine on my own too if the right guy never comes along and I like my independence. I would rather be single than married to the wrong person!

DING DING DING DING DING!!! Thank you for summing up my life! Thought I'd found the right man, but after living with him for 5 years, came to realise that loving someone isn't enough, you have to be able to live with them, respect them, and make compromises for them, and just as importantly they have to be prepared to make compromises in return. I still adore him, and I still think of his parents as mine, but we're happier as friends than we ever were as a couple. And I'm so thankful that we made the decision to break up before we actually went through with the ceremony and before I got pregnant, because both of those things are 'forever after, like it or not' for me . As far as I am concerned, you better make sure you are damn ready to dance before you ask the devil to start the music.

Exactly - someone can be an amazing individual and great friend, but not be compatible as a partner or husband.

Actually, this is one of the reasons I'm moving out of my hometown - I never planned on being here anyway, but very few men in my age range move to town who are not already married or living with someone who followed them here. It makes for slim pickens! Getting out in the world should give me a much better chance of meeting someone who is compatible. It isn't my goal, but it would be a nice bonus. Since I never dated much to begin with and I'm well out of practice after living here so long, I may have some dating horror stories in the coming year. If they aren't too bad, I'll be sure to share them!

You will find someone just wait and see hon.I am so out of pratice it has been so long since i have dated myself.But i am willing to try it again.But where do you meet the men???I don't go to bars anymore not my cup of tea.

I don't go to bars either and that's all there is in this town! My best friends met their husbands while they were in the same programs at university. I'm finishing a degree through the distance ed program, but I almost wonder if I shouldn't go back to campus. At my age though, I would either have to meet guys in graduate programs or find single professors!

Edit: When I lived in a bigger city, I followed my interests and joined a couple of clubs (one was a Jiu-Jitsu dojo) for no other reason than I wanted to be there - the bonus was that I did meet some great guys who shared the same interests, so joining a club is a good place to start!

Good for you hon go for it. Maybe joining some clue maybe the way to go.I guess i need to check it out myself.Good Luck with everything

Good luck to you too! It's going to be very scary for me to get out there again, but I'm willing to give it a shot.

[Babyblue]

You will find someone just wait and see hon. I am so out of practice it has been so long since i have dated myself.

I dated myself once. The sex was decent, but I just didn't get along with myself that well. I never called and I was a little too insensitive sometimes. But I was able to remain friends, so that's good.

Leave it to you to find this.

[Babyblue]

I've never been married and at 37, I still don't feel like I need to be. If I found a wonderful guy, it would be nice to get married, but I'm fine on my own too if the right guy never comes along and I like my independence. I would rather be single than married to the wrong person!

DING DING DING DING DING!!! Thank you for summing up my life! Thought I'd found the right man, but after living with him for 5 years, came to realise that loving someone isn't enough, you have to be able to live with them, respect them, and make compromises for them, and just as importantly they have to be prepared to make compromises in return. I still adore him, and I still think of his parents as mine, but we're happier as friends than we ever were as a couple. And I'm so thankful that we made the decision to break up before we actually went through with the ceremony and before I got pregnant, because both of those things are 'forever after, like it or not' for me . As far as I am concerned, you better make sure you are damn ready to dance before you ask the devil to start the music.

Exactly - someone can be an amazing individual and great friend, but not be compatible as a partner or husband.

Actually, this is one of the reasons I'm moving out of my hometown - I never planned on being here anyway, but very few men in my age range move to town who are not already married or living with someone who followed them here. It makes for slim pickens! Getting out in the world should give me a much better chance of meeting someone who is compatible. It isn't my goal, but it would be a nice bonus. Since I never dated much to begin with and I'm well out of practice after living here so long, I may have some dating horror stories in the coming year. If they aren't too bad, I'll be sure to share them!

You will find someone just wait and see hon.I am so out of pratice it has been so long since i have dated myself.But i am willing to try it again.But where do you meet the men???I don't go to bars anymore not my cup of tea.

I don't go to bars either and that's all there is in this town! My best friends met their husbands while they were in the same programs at university. I'm finishing a degree through the distance ed program, but I almost wonder if I shouldn't go back to campus. At my age though, I would either have to meet guys in graduate programs or find single professors!

Edit: When I lived in a bigger city, I followed my interests and joined a couple of clubs (one was a Jiu-Jitsu dojo) for no other reason than I wanted to be there - the bonus was that I did meet some great guys who shared the same interests, so joining a club is a good place to start!

Good for you hon go for it. Maybe joining some clue maybe the way to go.I guess i need to check it out myself.Good Luck with everything

Good luck to you too! It's going to be very scary for me to get out there again, but I'm willing to give it a shot.

Thanks!Boy will it ever be but you will not find anything by staying home.I agree and good luck.

[artist4perry]

Arianddu, you would be a fine catch for any guy....................be picky. You have it going on and they need to be appreciative of what a sweetie you are. Your a tremendous friend, that makes you prime choice to have. You always have time. It was not till I was 39 that I truely married the right one. I settled when I was young............wrong! Many heartaches later I found Dan. He took all the sadness and loneliness away. That is when it is right. You feel as one.

[7 Wishes]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

[parfait]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

Damn, that's one fine milf, man.

She's even better than MG!

[SherriBerry]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

Um, you posted a thread last year, so it may be a few more people know part of your story. I'm really glad to see everything has worked out for you!

[JasonD]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

I gotta agree with SherriBerry. ^^^^^^^ Every time I see your username or avatar I can't help but think of that heartwrenching story you posted half-a-year ago. I always wondered what became of that......., but since I don't really know anything else about you, I never felt it was my business to ask. It's good to hear things are working out.

[Behshad]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

Whats her email address !? Just messing with ya , kiddo. Good on you for workin things out with her

[MrsPerry]

never mind. i hope nobody saw that.


Never been married. the last guy i sort of dated is lucky i didn't hock his hotrod and burn his house to the ground.

It looks like we may have a lineup to post in a 'Dating Horror Stories' thread!

i also forgot to say sow the ground with salt after the house was gone. but i am not bitter.

[Behshad]

never mind. i hope nobody saw that.


Never been married. the last guy i sort of dated is lucky i didn't hock his hotrod and burn his house to the ground.

It looks like we may have a lineup to post in a 'Dating Horror Stories' thread!

i also forgot to say sow the ground with salt after the house was gone. but i am not bitter.

You also forgot to upgrade to Photobucket Pro today !

[MrsPerry]

i know it. waiting for my bandwidth to start over again. i am too cheap otherwise

[Babyblue]

Ten years. Somehow we have kept it together. Even I am amazed at this point...Jim and Dan (only) know what I'm talking about.

You have a beautiful family.What ever the problem was i am glad it was worked out.

[BobbyinTN]

Been with my partner for 17 years. Since we can't legally marry, we just do the best we can.

[7 Wishes]

Um, you posted a thread last year, so it may be a few more people know part of your story. I'm really glad to see everything has worked out for you!

I'd forgotten about that.

Anyway, only a couple of people here know about what happened last fall (it makes everything else pale in comparison)...they are probably incredulous (some of my friends are mad at me for staying with her), but she has done a 180 and I love her desperately. Most of all, our son is thriving.

[Concert Queen]

17 1/2 years and 19 together. Some days too damn long but can't imagine life without him.

[G.I.Jim]

Um, you posted a thread last year, so it may be a few more people know part of your story. I'm really glad to see everything has worked out for you!

I'd forgotten about that.

Anyway, only a couple of people here know about what happened last fall (it makes everything else pale in comparison)...they are probably incredulous (some of my friends are mad at me for staying with her), but she has done a 180 and I love her desperately. Most of all, our son is thriving.

Hey Dan,

Sorry I didn't respond sooner... I'm blonde and I got distracted after I read your original post! I do know your situation, and I'm glad it's working out for the two of you. I just hope you don't get burned. People can change though, so I really hope she has changed and that you and your son have a good wife/mother. I wish you the best buddy, and I can't wait to rock out in Charlotte again with you sometime!