JasonD wrote:steveo777 wrote:Saint John wrote:steveo777 wrote:Mind enlightening us as to why Jason is suddenly on your radar?
This phony fuck has been on my radar since day 1.
steveo777 wrote: I don't give a shit if he's gay or not.
Neither do I. If "he" shows up at MR Fest II I'll gladly apologize and buy him a beer.
So this whole thing is 'cause he's not going to MR Fest II? That's prettty fucking shallow dude. LOL
A couple of months ago I PM’d one of Dan’s allies & I let her know that I had some apprehension about going to MRFII b/c I had heard that he had plans for me once I’m there. Since Dan & I aren’t friends & since I would have no reason to believe it was just good hearted humor that he had planned to steal my hotel keys, slip something into my drink, pull my pants down in front of the MR ladies, mess with my car & punch me----, I was thinking it wasn’t worth it to take a chance at hoping that’s all a joke. I confided to Dan’s ally that I was concerned.
The cost to attend this event is well within my budget; however, once I considered the cost of the room, transportation, food, drinks, souvenirs & other essentials, I got to thinking that's an awful lot of money just to have a lump in my throat the entire weekend wondering when Dan’s gonna do what he’s gonna do. Like everyone else who’s going, I wanted to be able to relax & enjoy the music. There are 2 people from this site who I know are attending that I would really like to meet. And so, with me still wanting to attend at this point, I took a chance & PM’d one of Dan’s more level-headed & mature allies hoping she could say a few words to kind of put my mind at ease. This is what she told me: “Dan’s an asshole to everyone. Don’t let him bother you. Once you go & prove yourself to him, everything should be fine.”
As much as I may not agree with all the Blueskies bashing that takes place on this board, a part of me can understand somewhat why Dan & others do what they do to her. It’s b/c she is a very vocal & opinionated person & she comes on here & challenges some of these people. When they respond, she tends to turn up the heat & takes her rebuttal to a higher, more personal level which leaves them twisting in their seats. They feel they have to set her straight. That said, what I don’t understand is why Dan is so compelled to be venomous towards ME b/c I never mess with him. I’ve been told a lot of things. I’ve been told he’s jealous b/c people on here like me & that takes attention away from him. I’ve been told that it’s the typical “big guy versus little guy” routine where the big guy picks on the little guy for entertainment b/c the odds of winning are greater & b/c he’s no match for someone like, say, Deano. I’ve been told it has to do with a story relating back to his childhood which, if it’s true, sure would explain a lot of things.
In any event, when I PM’d Dan’s ally & she responded, I’m sure she thought that what she was saying would ease my mind, but to ME her words were wrong on so many levels. First, why is it acceptable for Dan to bully someone who does nothing to provoke him? Second, why should I hafta prove myself to Dan or anyone, for that matter? And third, her words “.... everything SHOULD BE fine” were not encouraging words to me.
Yesterday, Dan came right out & asked if I was going to MRFII. I gave him the answer he’s been expecting, & so now the ball is in his court. He can go on & do whatever he’s going to do.
(I left the name of the ally out b/c I don’t know if she would want me to mention her. If she wants to “out” herself, I have no problem with that. I wasn’t trying to be secretive, just respectful.)
I don't know about all of this, but I'm sure you look at things from a gay perspective and how you've been treated. But I have no dout that whatever you say you've heard he says jokingly that he would never do one thing to you in person, well, nothing more than the prankster stuff they all do. Of course, I am naive.
you get the point though 
