RVR, a.k.a. Stu, just sent me this PM...

[DrFU]

Whose leg do you have to hump around here to get a dry martini?

[slucero]

from T-Bone

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[Glenn]

posting PM's is so NOT cool....

+1,000,000


The only 2 people that should read a PM is Andrew and T-Bone.

Starting a thread by posting a PM...How old are you ?

[7 Wishes]

Really, now.

I've had it up to here with these PM's from people whose opinions are not congruent with mine. For each one I posted there are another 250. I've never sent anyone a message like that - nor would I. If I had a nickel for every time I've been threatened (by a select group of people) I could go on vacation for a week.

Amazing - because he's a Republican, there's not a mention of the perpetrator of this fiasco and his culpability. This forum functions in much the same way the government does.

[slucero]

Really, now.

I've had it up to here with these PM's from people whose opinions are not congruent with mine. For each one I posted there are another 250. I've never sent anyone a message like that - nor would I. If I had a nickel for every time I've been threatened (by a select group of people) I could go on vacation for a week.

Amazing - because he's a Republican, there's not a mention of the perpetrator of this fiasco and his culpability. This forum functions in much the same way the government does.

RVR physically threatening you in a thread is EQUALLY as wrong as you posting a PM...

NEITHER are the way to deal with anything...

Personal attacks of ANY nature are not cool..

It's Drews choice to have "no rules" ... or rule ambiguity on his boards... after all they are his... but this is what happens when there "are no rules"...

As such you and every other poster on these boards should understand that "no rules" will mean "mob rule"... which usually does not end well..

[7 Wishes]

Dude I will fuck you up...I don't care if Mr. Miyagi himself trained you to wax on and wax off.

I won't stop until one of us need hospitalized...and it WILL be you.

Well, Stuie didn't stop at the PM's. He let this shit fling in the open forum.

But, again - he's a Republican, so...he didn't cross any lines. Whatever.

[slucero]

What part of "Maybe you should report this to Andrew" don't you get?

2. This is a public forum and you are expected to conduct yourself in an appropriate manner. If you can't behave, then you don't need to be here. This includes harassment of other members, name-calling and general abusive language up to and including threats towards other members.

[7 Wishes]

So, I'm sorry. I was pissed and was really tired of reading this kind of crap in my inbox.

As far as I'm concerned, it's over.

[slucero]

Actually its NOT over..

If NO ONE (including you) is willing to report posts or actions that violate even the current ambiguous rules... then this will happen again and again and again..

Grow a set and DEFEND yourself... you and I may not see eye to eye politically .. but I will defend your RIGHT to have an opinion. You should be willing to do that for yourself as well (and for me).

[Rockindeano]

Stu and I have a bit of an awkward relationship....strained yet close. I do have to say, Stu is in the wrong here, 100%. Physical threats are not cool. Just because a political disagreement arises and blood boils does not give the ok to go and sound off about destroying someone. For those of you who think a publicly posted PM is not cool, I agree, but a physically threatening PM is far worse.

And please, stop with T Bone's posted rules. That is a bunch of horseshit. Like we ever abide by their stupid fuckin rules This board is what it is because we police ourselves, and don't adhere to any stupid constraints/rules. Want rules, go over to Journeymusic.

As soon as Stu calms down, he will do the right thing and apologize. I know him, he'll get there, just give him the chance. Then this thread will likely be removed anyway.

[slucero]

Stu and I have a bit of an awkward relationship....strained yet close. I do have to say, Stu is in the wrong here, 100%. Physical threats are not cool. Just because a political disagreement arises and blood boils does not give the ok to go and sound off about destroying someone. For those of you who think a publicly posted PM is not cool, I agree, but a physically threatening PM is far worse.

And please, stop with T Bone's posted rules. That is a bunch of horseshit. Like we ever abide by their stupid fuckin rules This board is what it is because we police ourselves, and don't adhere to any stupid constraints/rules. Want rules, go over to Journeymusic.

As soon as Stu calms down, he will do the right thing and apologize. I know him, he'll get there, just give him the chance. Then this thread will likely be removed anyway.

Actually Deano.. its become what its become because there is this illusion that we police ourselves... and just because you don't like rules doesn't mean they aren't necessary to have, or be enforced... if there were no "rules" then you'd have never been asked to take a "vacation" right?

(and I don't mean that to attack you BTW)

[YoungJRNY]

This would make a GREAT wrestling promo.

[Everett]

This would make a GREAT wrestling promo.

As long as vince russo doesn't get a hold of it

[YoungJRNY]

This would make a GREAT wrestling promo.

As long as vince russo doesn't get a hold of it

Actually, Russo was the master of "shoot" interviews so this would be right up his alley.

[RossValoryRocks]

Dude I will fuck you up...I don't care if Mr. Miyagi himself trained you to wax on and wax off.

I won't stop until one of us need hospitalized...and it WILL be you.

Well, Stuie didn't stop at the PM's. He let this shit fling in the open forum.

But, again - he's a Republican, so...he didn't cross any lines. Whatever.

My first PM was a challenge to a fight of some type; boxing, MMA, wrestling, judo whatever...that is not a threat dill rod..if you as capable as you say you are...but since you are a chicken shit, and would never face me in person I guess maybe it qualifies as a threat.

THEN you continued to call me STEWIE...antagonizing me further...and then told me how much of a tough guy you are with you Muy Tai or whatever martial art of the week you learned about watching IFC or MMA while you yanked off to it...How did you EXPECT me to react as you further and further antagonized me.

You can call me a grub eating, cock swallowing racist cow fucker and I wouldn't care, but I have ONE button and that is being called Stuie.

Also dick for brains I am NOT a republican...I am a conservative independent or independent conservative, which ever floats a persons boat.

But you certainly are playing the typical liberal victim aren't you? You antagonize me over and over, and continue to do it today, and you wonder why I would want to rip off your head and shit down your neck?

[7 Wishes]

My first PM was a challenge to a fight of some type; boxing, MMA, wrestling, judo whatever...that is not a threat dill rod..if you as capable as you say you are...but since you are a chicken shit, and would never face me in person I guess maybe it qualifies as a threat.

THEN you continued to call me STEWIE...antagonizing me further...and then told me how much of a tough guy you are with you Muy Tai or whatever martial art of the week you learned about watching IFC or MMA while you yanked off to it...How did you EXPECT me to react as you further and further antagonized me.

You really are psychotic.

I've PM'd my phone number and address to Deano. If you want it you can get it from him. He has my express written permission. You're more than welcome to come to Charlotte and pay me a visit sometime...to honor me with your presence.

I am less afraid of you than I am of stubbing my toe. However, it's plainly clear you're psychotic enough to shoot someone without provocation. You're a walking advertisement for getting rid of prisoner parole.

Seriously, dude. This is laughable. You're an infant. If I had tried to pick a fight with everyone here who had called me names, disparaged me, or said something I didn't like...well, one the two of us would be defending the title tonight instead of Lesnar. Except I don't know if there's a fat fuck high school dropout potbellied douchebag class in MMA. And BTW...I don't watch gladiator sports on TV. I began studying Muay Thai the first time some asshole sucker-punched me for no reason when I was 14. So that's another one of your theories out the window.

Feel free to contact me, you loony.

[artist4perry]

You both are acting like imature children. And I like you both. Stu.........and 7 Wishes, it is just a difference of oppinion. Why let it be so heated that you loose your cool in this manner? First off 7 both parties are flawed, and you should have dealt with this with Stu. Stu, relax sweet heart. You both are big strong men, neither need prove anything. It is not a contest of testosterone. I would love to meet both of you at a concert someday and introduce my husband to both of you. There are great things about both of you. Just a difference in thoughts that is all. Exchanging thoughts and ideals is what makes this site great. Exchange, disagree, and discuss.............very manly indeed!

[Rockindeano]

You both are acting like imature children. And I like you both. Stu.........and 7 Wishes, it is just a difference of oppinion. Why let it be so heated that you loose your cool in this manner? First off 7 both parties are flawed, and you should have dealt with this with Stu. Stu, relax sweet heart. You both are big strong men, neither need prove anything. It is not a contest of testosterone. I would love to meet both of you at a concert someday and introduce my husband to both of you. There are great things about both of you. Just a difference in thoughts that is all. Exchanging thoughts and ideals is what makes this site great. Exchange, disagree, and discuss.............very manly indeed!

Ginjer, bee gladd I amm not yor englis teecher. Yor speling is fuking terible.

And to your point about BOTH parties being shit- please let that card die already. You missed the entire point here. It doesn't matter which party sucks more, the point is a difference of opinion is not being allowed. Stu isn't allowing 7 Wishes to voice an opinion which dissents from his own. I thought Stu would apologize by now, but he keeps disappointing me. Stu, you sure aren't doing yourself any favours here by acting like this. Still threatening bodily harm? You know how stupid this makes you look? Enough already.

[Jeremey]

I think the both of you are taking the piss.

[Saint John]

7 posting Stu's PM was 100% ok. When you feel someone is acting like a douche you post it for everyone to see. To violate "unwritten rules" of PM I think you'd first have to agree to keep something a secret before you could be violating any sort of "rule." This was clearly not the case. You guys actually think Dan should have adhered to some unwritten rule for a guy that is proposing a fight to kick his ass?!

Stu, saying silly shit like "No one calls me Stewie, Stuie ... " or any other name is just plain gay. Your family wasn't threatened, your livelihood wasn't and your safety wasn't. That said, Stu's challenge has a lot of merit to it. The dude felt like he was being called out and upped the ante. Seems fair to me. But I like both of you dickheads. Settle this the old fashioned ... over beers in a strip club.

[Ehwmatt]

This could be an EXCELLENT fund raiser for MR.com.

A steel cage, Dan, Stu, nice locale for us traveling (Dan's native Charlotte would be fine), and plenty of booze. Fight to the death. I'd go.

What say you Andrew?

[Saint John]

This could be an EXCELLENT fund raiser for MR.com.

A steel cage, Dan, Stu, nice locale for us traveling (Dan's native Charlotte would be fine), and plenty of booze. Fight to the death. I'd go.

What say you Andrew?

lol ... settle down, Van Damm. How 'bout a tap out/knockout match, instead? "Fight to the death" ... good luck getting that sanctioned, Andrew. Matt ... love the passion, bro.

[portland]

posting PM's is so NOT cool....

+1,000,000


The only 2 people that should read a PM is Andrew and T-Bone.

Starting a thread by posting a PM...How old are you ?

and the sender and recipient.......

[Everett]

Settle this the old fashioned ... over beers in a strip club.

Damn straight, line up the beers, start knocking em back, and the last man standing wins.

were excluding deano right?

[portland]

Settle this the old fashioned ... over beers in a strip club.

Damn straight, line up the beers, start knocking em back, and the last man standing wins.

were excluding deano right?

Why? You don't think you could handle it?

[7 Wishes]

Whichever one of us gets pinned has to drink an alcohol-free Zima.

[Everett]

Settle this the old fashioned ... over beers in a strip club.

Damn straight, line up the beers, start knocking em back, and the last man standing wins.

were excluding deano right?

Why? You don't think you could handle it?

It wouldn't be fair that's all

[conversationpc]

Both of you are being idiots. Reminds me of being back in high school and all the juvenile crap that went on there. Grow up already.

[Michigan Girl]

I am not a fan of personal convo's posted publicly, promise or no!!
But I'm not throwing stones ...I do think Stu's career is NOT over!!
He makes another movie ...I'm there!!!

[parfait]

Both of you are being idiots. Reminds me of being back in high school and all the juvenile crap that went on there. Grow up already.

We get it. You're mature.

This shit is funny though. People choosing sides