Gideon wrote:Greg wrote:Michigan Girl wrote:Why couldn't they be married?!?!

I was kind of thinking the same thing. The song itself doesn't actually state that you should go out and have sex with someone you're not married to.
"Lay It Down" promotes a life filled with "whiskey, wine, and women" with gratuitous references to double shots and vertical persuasion. (Though I suppose one can see the merit in some of that.

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People who accept utter lyrical shit like "Homemade Love" but are repulsed by the band's attempts to add some further dimension to their songs both confuse and amuse me, but preference is preference.
Lay It Down is a rockin' song, but I agree, I don't really like the lyrics. I guess that's why I usually skip that song.
I'm not a big fan of Homemade Love either. I really got into Journey because of the hits from Escape and Frontiers, not so much the 70's version of the band.
What I have found, personally, from any band I have listened to that the songs I wind up migrating to are the songs that I feel I can listen to anywhere without having to explain myself. Love songs or songs about the human spirit (not in the religious sense) are songs pretty much everybody relates to. For example, if I'm listening to KISS, the songs I seem to listen to more than anything else is "Forever", "Reason to Live", "Beth", etc....but I really don't listen to KISS that much. I like listening to Metallica, but if there is a song from them that really bothers me "spiritually" I won't listen to it anymore. "The God That Failed" is a prime example of a Metallica song I will skip each and every time. I just don't feel right listening to such a song.
So, overall, even though a lot of rock music is about sex, drugs, and rock in roll, there are aspects of it that I choose to listen to that are positive, even encouraging, and stuff I relate to. If I don't relate to it, I usually wind up not liking it. Which is the case with Eclipse for me.