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by **Lula** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 10:53 am

hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

by **scarygirl** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:12 am

Lula wrote:hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

I am so glad to see you here. Please take care of yourself and that precious treasure of a boy Wyatt. I have no doubt that Dean is smiling down on you now.

by **JH'sTXfan** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:53 am

I pray for comfort for you and Wyatt, Lula. It's nice to see you post and hope you keep posting because you're among friends even if a lot of us haven't met you in person.

by **TRAGChick** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 12:36 pm

Lula wrote:hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

Thank you, Lula....I really don't know what else to say...I'm so sorry for your loss.... :cry:

by **Moon Beam** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 12:40 pm

Thank you for your love and appreciation.
Lady Lula, so nice to read from you.
I'll keep you and all of Dean's loved ones in my prayers.

by AR » Sat Mar 17, 2012 1:13 pm

Haven't seen you in a long time Lula. My wife and I wish you all the best and we are all sorry for your loss.

Ed

by **Memorex** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 1:44 pm

All our love and prayers Lula.

Website · by **steveo777** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 2:15 pm

Lula wrote:hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

Thanks Lula. It's great to see you post. I feel for your loss and wish you and Wyatt the best. Thanks for being there for Dean and also for us. We are here for you too!

by **DrFU** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 2:55 pm

Hugs to you and Wyatt, Lula.

by **SunshineTwilight** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 3:49 pm

Lula,

We are here for you when you are ready! Give yourself the time you need to heal. You & Wyatt are in my thoughts and prayers! Hugz!!!

by **bluejeangirl76** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:12 pm

DrFU wrote:Hugs to you and Wyatt, Lula.

I second, third and fourth that.

by **StevePerryHair** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:54 pm

Aw Lula, you've been on my mind everyday. You are still and will continue to be in my prayers for peace, comfort and strength to surround you in those difficult moments. He is missed!

by **Melissa** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 10:48 pm

Hugs to you Lula and sweet Wyatt. May you both always be surrounded by love, comfort, and peace.

by **mikemarrs** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 11:37 pm

Lula wrote:hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

I went through a lot of the same struggles Dean went through and we used to PM each other quite often about it because we were going through the same issues.I definitely knew how hard it was.I left here back in December to get help for my problem that i had because after many years i got to the point where i was too exhausted trying to fight it and i was on the verge of losing my family due to this addiction.After being gone all those months i was coming back a new person because many people knew i was fighting this battle.I was definitely looking forward to letting Deano know i had conquered this problem and he could too so i was definitely going to seek him out to let him know it could be done.I was very stunned and saddened when i looked up at the topics and noticed what had happened and Dean was gone.I was worried at first it may have been him taking his life or something but i felt better when i was told that he was on the mend like you said and he was actually fighting his problems and was doing very well and i am proud of him because he was on the road to doing better.He was definitely trying and doing very well.I am truly sorry bout Dean

Take care of yourself and lil Wyatt.Dean is smiling down on you and lil Wyatt most definitely.

by **YoungJRNY** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 1:01 am

May the road and path of healing be kind to you and Wyatt, Lula. Sympathies to you and your family. Still sad about the Big Man's passing. He will be missed and have a special place in all our memories and hearts.

by **SusieP** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 2:46 am

Know that you are not alone.

And we are here to help if you need it and to listen if you are ready to talk.

xxxx

by **Andrew** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:23 pm

Hang in there....both of you.

by **artist4perry** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 10:17 am

Lula wrote:hello everyone. i wanted to let you all know that wyatt and i are surviving. we miss dean very much and some days are harder than others. please know that dean was on the mend. he did not take his life, he wanted to live and was making positive changes. he was a great father and gave everything to wyatt. i have much to say, but am not ready yet. the love and support here will be comforting to me as i begin to move forward. thank you for honoring dean and his memory, i truly appreciate it. i'll be back in a few days.
love,
lula

We love ya here Lula. If you need something let us know.

by **Deb** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:51 pm

We're here when you're ready Lula, my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Much love and hugz to you and the little Wy-man.

by **Rip Rokken** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 1:27 am

All our hearts are with you and Wyatt, Lula. We're here for you when you're ready.

by **Michigan Girl** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 1:49 am

Thoughts and prayers. Lula!

by **Peartree12249** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 12:10 pm

Lula, I'm so sorry you had to go through this and know that you have many friends here who've been sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.

by **Ratgirl** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:51 pm

Keeping you and Wyatt in my thoughts and prayers.

Sending big hugs.

by **CatEyes** » Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:33 am

Lova ya, Lu - I pray that peace and hope find their way to you.

cat

by **Lula** » Sun Mar 25, 2012 2:50 pm

still here. finding the days are not as dark. this past week i actually felt human again. loss can be so different i've learned. i have so much swimming around in my head, just can't seem to sort it all. wyatt is doing ok. thankfully he has some wonderful adults in school and in is after school program, which i received a grant for to cover cost.

that was the most stressful as dean always took care of wyatt while i worked. wyatt is a busy curious boy and requires more supervision than the average boy...so, a home daycare was not something i felt comfortable with. as an education specialist i'm not easy to please when it comes to care for my son. i was referred to a private place just around the corner from our apt and took wyatt to check it out. it was perfect, but super expensive. the board usually gives a 25% grant towards admission, but i asked for 100% at least till i figure out what i can actually afford to pay. in exchange i'll train some of the staff and run a short program over summer. that has been a gift and allowed me to work and figure out, what next...

so i'm here and grateful to have this community. at some point i'm going to ask those of you with pics of dean to send me copies or email jpegs for wyatt's memory box. one of my summer projects, with cheyanna's help will be to go through dean's belongings in the garage. i want to put enough together so wyatt will know his daddy. i gotta say, dean was an amazing father to wyatt. he truly devoted himself to raising wyatt and his absence is so obvious in that little boy's life. i'm trying, but a boy needs his father.

wow, i wrote a lot, lol!

Website · by **steveo777** » Sun Mar 25, 2012 2:58 pm

Lula wrote:still here. finding the days are not as dark. this past week i actually felt human again. loss can be so different i've learned. i have so much swimming around in my head, just can't seem to sort it all. wyatt is doing ok. thankfully he has some wonderful adults in school and in is after school program, which i received a grant for to cover cost.

that was the most stressful as dean always took care of wyatt while i worked. wyatt is a busy curious boy and requires more supervision than the average boy...so, a home daycare was not something i felt comfortable with. as an education specialist i'm not easy to please when it comes to care for my son. i was referred to a private place just around the corner from our apt and took wyatt to check it out. it was perfect, but super expensive. the board usually gives a 25% grant towards admission, but i asked for 100% at least till i figure out what i can actually afford to pay. in exchange i'll train some of the staff and run a short program over summer. that has been a gift and allowed me to work and figure out, what next...

so i'm here and grateful to have this community. at some point i'm going to ask those of you with pics of dean to send me copies or email jpegs for wyatt's memory box. one of my summer projects, with cheyanna's help will be to go through dean's belongings in the garage. i want to put enough together so wyatt will know his daddy. i gotta say, dean was an amazing father to wyatt. he truly devoted himself to raising wyatt and his absence is so obvious in that little boy's life. i'm trying, but a boy needs his father.

wow, i wrote a lot, lol!

You did good! I was glad to read it. Nobody will ever replace Wyatt's father or your Dean. My sister is doing a great job of being the parent and you can do it too.
I hope greater peace and love find you.

Thanks for your post Lula!

by **Maui Tom** » Sun Mar 25, 2012 4:20 pm

One day, you'll look
To see I've gone
But tomorrow may rain, so
I'll follow the sun

by **tater1977** » Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:29 pm

Lula...
Prayers for daily strength for you and Wyatt...
When I joined a couple years ago..I got the Deano welcome..
lol clobber ya then PM a message of LOL .."his" warm welcome....
He had an uncanny way of describing stuff..
But he also had the knack of ...whatever I was drinking at the time...shoot thru my nose ..all over my laptop..while reading his posts.... :oops:

For some reason..I thought of this today..change the "u" to an "A"...

Lulu - To Sir, With Love (Original Stereo)

http://youtu.be/xeFmO9ZQFLE

by **Granny** » Mon Mar 26, 2012 3:52 am

Lula, I have lots of pics of Dean...Just don't know how to get them off my old laptop, bur will figure it out.

You and Wyatt have always been in my thoughts.

by **Enigma869** » Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:22 am

Lula wrote: i want to put enough together so wyatt will know his daddy. i gotta say, dean was an amazing father to wyatt. he truly devoted himself to raising wyatt and his absence is so obvious in that little boy's life. i'm trying, but a boy needs his father.

Lula...

This sentiment simply wrenches my heart. I know from my interactions with Dean that he adored that little boy. I have zero doubt that you are going to do an amazing job raising that little boy and ensuring that he always knows how much his Daddy loved him. My boy will be 6 in October, and I never allow a day to pass without my son knowing that I love him more than anything, and how important it is to me that he ALWAYS knows this. It's moments like these that remind me why I make it such a priority to express the love I have for my children. I have no doubt that Wyatt knows his Daddy loved him, and my heart breaks for that little man. I know that you're in a very difficult situation (even having to try to explain to such a young child what happened to his Dad), but I know you'll get through this. We're all here if you need an ear to bend or just some friendly advice.

MR

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