I was there but I didn't meet anyone but Jeff. He and Rebecca were very sweet, friendly and gracious.
This was my first ever Journey concert, so I can't compare what was happening on stage to any other experience. I can tell you that Jeff was superb. He was electrifying. My daughter, who was never as big a Journey fan as I am but like them with Perry, left the show saying that Jeff was a better frontman than they were a band.
One thing that I've thought of since you started this thread may be of some significance, but maybe not.
Neal started playing the National Anthem earlier than the program said he would. DonnaPlease and I were among the first people to make our way down to the foot of the stage when he started. As we were walking up Jeff and Rebecca were standing to the side of the stage looking our of the tent and waving at us. We waved back and gave them more of our attention that we did Neal at first. Maybe those kinds of little things were beginning to show up more often than Neal and/or Jon liked.
I thought Neal had somewhat of an attitude on stage, but this being my first time seeing him live, and having long ago formed the opinion that he's a spoiled, socially dysfunctional, egotistical prick, I didn't really think anything of it. He did look down at the handful of us who had come down to the foot of the stage and interact a little. I thought at one point he even may have looked a little relieved that there was someone down there. He wasn't what I would have called friendly or engaging though.
He was billed to be playing both the American and British National Anthems, but he only played the American then rather abruptly left the stage.
Make of that what you will.