by whocares » Mon Jun 25, 2007 2:46 am
Much like you Matthew, I try to not have any expectations of people. Maybe especially people I've known for years. People will let you down, whether you know them or not. It's much the same reason I dont' accept when someone "promises" me anything, nor do I ever make promises. My word is good enough, i dont' need to promise anyone anything, they know if I say it, I'll do my best to do what I've said. No expectations involved. Or should be involved. I've never actively stuck up for any individual in Journey with exception of Perry, when ridiculed for being a fan of their's. Simply stating that it's the music I like as an individual. That said, NOW, I'm sticking up for what has been done to Jeff, NO MATTER HOW LONG HE WAS IN THE BAND. He saved their asses and it's been documented in Andy's interviews with the BOYS, last year. And this was the thanks he got from them.
I personally don't give a rat's ass about Jon or Neal, no matter how good people think they are, personally or talent wise. I've got NO respect for either of them, and that's been for a while, even before Jeff was in the band, or out of the band for that matter. Hell, I don't have respect for many celebrities, so they aren't special enough to be the only one's I don't respect. Jeff however has gained my respect, and that's hard to do. he also got fucked over by people who claimed were his friends, but who didn't go to bat for him, or else didn't care to move forward as the band's name implies.
Without ego, we have no pride in what we are saying.