scarygirl wrote:bluejeangirl76 wrote:That's why no one should have children sherrie.
They might get sick or become too expensive, thus making us all irresponsible people.

You shouldn't have children you can't afford. That's not heartless that's smart. It is irresponsible to have kids, particularly when people are on minimum wage which invariably those are the ones who end up applying for aid.
Of course they shouldn't scary. I've never said they should. Based on the things you've said I agree that it was probably a very wise decision for you not to have children.
However, the point I was trying to make to you the other day when it got lost in all of the outrageous hyperbole is that many thousands of families who had no reason to think they wouldn't be able to afford their children no longer can through no fault of their own.
Couples who got married in the late 80s and early 90s and were doing well in jobs and careers that they thought they could count on had children and planned on a good future for them.
Then our government took these working families' tax money and paid the companies they worked for to take their jobs overseas. Now these families' incomes have been suddenly cut in half because contrary to what some uninformed people have said on here, there are no jobs that these people can step into and resume, or even ever hope to attain, the same level of income.
They can no longer afford their mortgages, they've lost their health care benefits and are very unlikely to find jobs that provide group plans. They can't afford the rest of the care for their daughter's braces. They can't afford for their son to continue his physical rehab on the leg he broke playing football last year. They can't afford to keep their oldest on college. If one of them has an illness that requires hospitalization they're just up shit creek, but hey, it's their own fault right? They should have known better than to believe they had a chance at a future on those middle class earnings.
Yes both parents might be able to go out and get multiple minimum wage jobs to be able to provide basic shelter, food, and clothing for the family. I don't know when they would have time to be parents of course. But hey none of that is the government's responsibility, right? Even though they literally paid those companies to take these people's futures away from them, it's up to these people to root little pig or die, right? That's the American way, right? The government can take our tax money and use it to destroy our economic stability, but we're supposed to be happy that all of those CEOs and CFOs are making all those billions and keeping the stock market rolling so the rich can get richer while the middle class disintegrates into poverty, right?
By the way did you know that's how Romney got so rich? He bought companies and shut them down putting people out of work. But hey, that's the American way, right?