bluejeangirl76 wrote:ohsherrie wrote:I'm hearing a lot of the "Let them eat cake" attitude from people on here. Don't forget what happened to the bitch who made that line famous along with all her friends when enough people got fed up enough with the conspicuous excesses of the rich, ruling class and their cavalier attitude towards the deprivation of the lower class. Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
No doubt. Its very very easy for people to generalize and throw everyone into the class of "they aren't living the way I live and therefore are not as good as I am" and toot their own horn about how rightous and upstanding they are. It's quite another to find yourself in such a position. We've all had ups and downs and living through it doesn't make a person a hero or give them the right to use to elevate themselves or put other people down for it.
My best friend in the world has been through some of the worst things I could imagine and never ever uses it to gain a damn thing... not sympathy, not help, not anything. She takes it as "such is life, these things happen and all we can do is handle it and do our best to move on". I know that privately she has bad moments over things, but outwardly you would never know it.
It's just an example of the fact that there are good and decent people who, through no fault of their own, run across really bad times and terrible situations. They had their bills paid, good jobs, awesome insurance for their family, the kids were taken care of and they were able to provide for their family nicely. IN ONE MOVE it all went to shit due to the combination of a medical emergency and a few months later, a job loss. So that makes them irresponsible? They should be out of the street because they had children and suddenly found themselves in a bad spot? Well, let me say thank god they had family to help then, becasue by the mentality here, they should have been told "tough shit, you shouldn't have had those kids." How very Christian, as sherrie pointed out.
It's easy to say all that. But when that condom breaks or the diaphragm fails, let's see if the tune changes.
Now you are generalizing about all the conservatives. I have no problem helping people who through no fault of their own find themselves in dire straights...what I oppose is using my tax dollars to pay for the mother or father who has 7 illegitimate children with and 8th on the way who gets all the government assistance for free housing and free food for those kids but the kids see none of it. The mom is running around with bling all over, a french manacure and the kids have dirty cloths, ripped shirts, shoes with holes in them, a the bare minimum of food in the frig. I have seen it over and over with my own 2 eyes.
I also oppose using my tax money to help any illegal alien. They are criminals and should be thrown out of this country as fast as we can get them out (cue Fyre-whines rant).