texafana wrote:strangegrey wrote:Ugh, this sorta thing pisses me off. First time I met Neal, I asked to take a picture with the guy, his response "Fuck off Kid. Cant a guy have a drink in peace? Go away!"
Sorta makes me wish that Jimmy went backstage, and said to neal "fuck off, where's the bar!"

LOL!!! yah right.....I've seen this "story" a zillion times. Replace the word "Neal" with your favorite musician or movie star. lol...
Lol, so true. I'd only believe these stories about Neal seeing it myself or if there were a critical mass of people here confirming, as well as no good experiences. He seems like a decent enough guy in his interviews/spots. I'm sure he hasn't been great to every fan who has ever approached him, but only Biblical characters can be that flawless. I've had good experiences with the few musicians I've had the chance to meet
I know Jimmy Fox, the drummer from the James Gang (Joe Walsh's vehicle to stardom) personally and he's a great and very eloquent guy who knows tons about the music industry. I love talking to him. Gerry Beckley and Dewey Bunnell from America do meet & greets for ALL their fans after every show (no bullshit platinum package where you have to pay 400$ just so you can get a nod and a handshake) and are so gracious about signing things for fans and actually looking you in the eye. I saw them a couple of years ago and I had bought their newly released concert DVD with me to get signed for my dad, who was supposed to come with me but had ended up having triple bypass surgery a few days before. I told them his story, that he'd seen them 12 times before, and that tonight woulda been his 13th, and both of them talked to me for at least 5 minutes (with tons of fans waiting behind) and they both took the time to write my dad a personal note on the autograph on the DVD cover urging him to get well. THEN, they signed the shirt I had bought for him, the shirt I bought for myself, and one of my CDs. This was after a concert on an August night where it had to be at least 100 degrees out during that heatwave we had in 2006. Class fuckin guys.
I really hope Neal would be cool to me if I ever met him. He's one of my biggest influences on guitar. I'd just say hi, tell him I really enjoy his playing, maybe get an autograph or ask him a gear/guitar question if he wasn't being mobbed and move on. I think these guys get turned off the most by two things:
(1) People that EXPECT them to sign a million things or do other favors and to fawn over each fan for enjoying the artist's music
and
(2) The crazed fans. You know, in the case of men, the puny little guys who don't know how to use their dicks, or in the case of women, the mostly obese who have irrational sexual fixations on the band member in question. The only coherent sentences they can make themselves form around said band member are those of the extreme brown-nosing variety and that's probably just obnoxious after the first couple of times, when its flattering.
If they're dicks, they're dicks. Oh well. It happens. It's just like athletes. In order to succeed, these guys have to have huge egos. Even the "nice guys" have huge egos. They're just a little classier about tempering their displays of ego. Sometimes its best to avoid meeting your heroes. You just might find out they aren't what you idealized in your head.