You don't seem to understand how a discussion board works. If someone posts here, they are making their thoughts, opinions, feelings public. Then, everyone else has an equal right to chime in whether their thoughts are complimentary or agreeable or not. If that exchange is not wanted, then they should confine their thoughts to IM.
You think people who exercise their right to comment here are shit stirrers. That's your right and your right to express...which you've done.
I think the forum already has a moderator and doesn't need forum police. That's my right to express...which I've done.
Blueskies wrote:Why couldn't you shit stirrers stay out of this? This is between Jim and Jeremey and no one else. I know what you're gonna say..if things are said publicly then we have the right to jump in...you may have it but it doesn't make it right to. This is how it is.. Both are good men. Both are forthright. Neither meant to hurt the other...something was said by one and the other remembers it differently....it happens. Neither set out to get the other. Both got defensive when accusations started getting thrown and felt the need to defend their integrity. Should it have been kept private, maybe but one didn't see the harm in speaking to what he knew and may not feel there is anything that was said that is a secret and should be hidden. Maybe he is a forthright, open and honest person who doesn't like to hide things and is used to speaking freely and openly with his friends and family. Maybe both are but just, as I said, recall the exact wording said differently. Defensiveness to their own recollections progressed this from minor to major....but that was done even more so by outsiders.
NONE of you can speak on the experience between these two. Only they know what their experience is from their own perspectives and interactions with the other and it no one else's place to rush to judgement and take sides and start placing blame. If you see one side more then the other or choose to believe one over the other because of personal bias for who you may be friends with or like more then you should keep your dang traps shut about it and not inflame something said between two people who really do have respect for the other and did not wish for this to get out of hand.
NO ONE CAN SAY WHAT THESE TWO PEOPLES EXPERIENCE IS OTHER THEN THEM SO EVERYONE ELSE NEEDS TO SHUT THE HELL UP AND STAY OUT OF IT AND QUITE TRYING TO ESCALATE THIS FURTHER. THIS IS NOT A WAR TO CHOOSE UP SIDES AND START GOING AFTER ONE OR THE OTHER OF THESE MEN SO EVERYONE NEEDS TO CUT THE CRAP AND LET IT GO. I am not about to stand by and see either one of these people..both who I like and I think are good people..start being accussed, ridiculed, lynched, and ostrasized out of this community. NONE of you are free from making mistakes and having misunderstandings..not a single one of you is perfect ..far from it. Both of these men love music and make it...both are good people and are very talented so I hope both stay because they contribute much to this board..more so then many....and I'm not about to sit by and watch either one get ridden out of town on a rail due to what some meddling busybodies have to say! MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND DONT MEDDLE IN OTHERS. JUST ENJOY THE MUSIC AND THE PERSONALITIES THAT THEY BOTH BRING HERE! End of rant...let this go and have a good day.