cyndy! wrote:Deb wrote:portland wrote:To merrypeary: Please understand that I'm not anti-Steve and I don't believe my previous post comes across that way. I love him dearly. We've been through growth and change together. If it sounds as if I'm mostly defending Neal, that's true. But that is only because Steve doesn't need my protection here. If this were a discussion wherein posters were making fun of Steve's nose, hip, nationality---whatever---then I would go to bat for him. It's circumstantial. When I first considered posting to this forum, I was advised against doing so. I was told I would be a minnow in a piranha tank, and yet I couldn't let it go. I couldn't sit by watching poster after poster beat up Neal. He's a beautiful man. OF COURSE I love Steve too, but Neal's the one the pubic seems to have the problem with, and so I feel I must defend him. For reasons I can't go into, there are certain topics I am forbidden to discuss, but if I could, you'd understand the gravity of the situation. Outside of that, I will say this: It's easy to have an entourage of admirers during the times when things are good, during the hard rocking, bright lights and boozing we all equate with rise to fame. It's the bad times that test the true measure of a friendship. I was there for Neal during both. And I will continue to be. Speaking of "boozing," that brings me to my next point. I think it's awful how some of the people on this site have attacked Neal over the issue of drinking. It's not like he WANTS to be an alcoholic. He's been sober quite a while now and he only mentioned the thing about drinking because he's proud of how far he's come. And so am I. What else can I say? I love him. It's my nurturing instinct. There's just something about holding a cold towel to someone's forehead while they vomit that locks a bond between the two of. Edgy enough for you? If you were there, you'd understand. How can I walk away from someone who's lying on a bathroom floor with tears in his eyes, begging "Please don't leave me here?"
To pinemom: I originally signed on today to address your question regarding Jon. That other post got in the way. I'm upset at the moment, but I do plan on getting back with you. I'm happy that you asked about Jon. He is worthy of his own discussion. He's an unsung hero who often finds himself as a footnote to whatever Neal and Steve topic is going on. I'd like to give him his own post and give him the credit where credit is due. But not today. I have to walk away from this.
January143
Feb 10, 2009 5:55:28 PM
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Poor Neal, time to start wearing underwear.
omg! i love that THAT'S what you noticed in such a long-ass post!i'm too ADD to read the whole thing. can someone summarize in bullet points for me?
Yeah, never rule out a reunification between Steve and Journey, although if it happens, it will be a one off. Steve and Neal have different thoughts on how the music should be used in commercials and such. Neal's all about letting it fly and Steve wants to protect the integrity of the song, as they're like children to him.