Gideon wrote:
Here's a newsflash for anyone else who has a problem with me: I don't conform to opinions simply because they come from a "revered" or "older" poster around here. When people espouse Perry apologia or Arnel apologia or whatever, I demand to know why I should believe them. Is Perry some sort of god who hasn't committed indiscretion against the band or humankind? Maybe. It's the burden of the people to prove it. I am swayed by evidence and the more apologists (and this goes for anyone) rant and rave, the harder I shove back.
I have nothing against Steve Perry or the shit he pulled through during TBF. It's my favorite album and I'm in it for the music. But the logician in me sees glaring problems with some opinions of other posters, and so I discuss it or debate it or refute it (attempt to, anyway).
Not everyone wants to 'debate' the merits of their opinions, or to try to convince you that their way of thinking is fact. Many people just want to share their opinions, love for, disdain for, whatever... of the topic at hand. It becomes ugly when someone shouts down another for giving their view of the topic. Demanding to know why you should believe someone isn't necessarily your place here, unless someone is trying to convince you of factual information. Most of the BS around here is just that... BS. There are less than a handful of participants here that can honestly be looked to for factual information, and they rarely jump in because they're often attacked by one side or the other when they do. It's supposed to be fun.
You once called me a troll. That's hilarious, considered I've been here longer than you, have participated in MR functions, and have met and had a wonderful time with many of the current and former posters of this site. I've had my share of knock-down, drag-outs, and don't claim to be anything other than a fan of the music that gave me many great memories, and lots of new friends. By trying to control others' opinions and ridiculing them for their POV, I believe the troll may be you. Discuss it all you want, debate it if it's truly a debate, but don't refute someone's opinion. Respect it and share yours. Peace.