How long have you been married???

by **portland** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:00 pm

Michigan Girl wrote:I'm done...nighty~night all...I might be making a trip to the airport tomorrow!!

Oh good god!!! Just pack and overnight bag!!! :wink:

by **G.I.Jim** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:02 pm

portland wrote:
Michigan Girl wrote:I'm done...nighty~night all...I might be making a trip to the airport tomorrow!!

Oh good god!!! Just pack and overnight bag and your favorite toy!!!

Fixed it for you! :wink:

by **artist4perry** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:05 pm

G.I.Jim wrote:
portland wrote:
Michigan Girl wrote:I'm done...nighty~night all...I might be making a trip to the airport tomorrow!!

Oh good god!!! Just pack and overnight bag and your favorite toy!!!

Fixed it for you!

Is that with or without batteries. :shock:

by **SherriBerry** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 8:06 pm

I've never been married and at 37, I still don't feel like I need to be. If I found a wonderful guy, it would be nice to get married, but I'm fine on my own too if the right guy never comes along and I like my independence. I would rather be single than married to the wrong person!

by **annpea** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 9:01 pm

22 years, we got married 4 months after we met.. he's just that good!! :lol:

by **KDOUBLEU** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 10:37 pm

27 years this March. She is still a babe.

by **Babyblue** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 11:04 pm

Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.

I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.

I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? j/k

Yep i was married but i was just to young.So i am single now.

by **Babyblue** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 11:08 pm

KDOUBLEU wrote:27 years this March. She is still a babe.

That is just to cool. :wink:

by **Babyblue** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 11:09 pm

G.I.Jim wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.

I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.

I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? j/k

Maybe you two could have "Blue Bulls"?

by **artist4perry** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 12:00 am

SherriBerry wrote:I've never been married and at 37, I still don't feel like I need to be. If I found a wonderful guy, it would be nice to get married, but I'm fine on my own too if the right guy never comes along and I like my independence. I would rather be single than married to the wrong person!

Smart girl..........be picky. :wink:

by **WalkInMyShoes** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 1:29 am

Congrats on all the long lived marriages around here - it gives a cynical person like me some hope in people.

by **Everett** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 3:47 am

Babyblue wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:
Peartree12249 wrote:
Thenightbull wrote:Love/marriage are overrated. My ex cheated on me after 2yrs and got knocked up and tried to put the kid on me Never gonna go through that kinda crap again.

I can see why you would be bitter and not trusting after going though a terrible experience like that, but there are lots of good honest women out there. Don't give up just because you got burned. Hopefully in time you'll be ready for a relationship again.

I know i know it just took me a while to get over that. As the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. I wonder if babyblue could be interested? j/k

Yep i was married but i was just to young.So i am single now.

woohoo

How much does a round trip from wisconsin to flordia cost now? :wink:

by **hoagiepete** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:18 am

23 years here. Dated for over five years so 29 total. Holy crap! Don't think I've done the math recently. Can't believe it.

Much to be thankful for. She got me through college, gave me three great daughters, and puts up with the kid in me that never wants to grow up.

Example...even though she doesn't like concerts, she'll go on occasion but is fine with me going with others...even giving me three Advils when I get home cause she knows I'll need them.

by **G.I.Jim** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:25 am

hoagiepete wrote:23 years here. Dated for over five years so 29 total. Holy crap! Don't think I've done the math recently. Can't believe it.

Much to be thankful for. She got me through college, gave me three great daughters, and puts up with the kid in me that never wants to grow up.

Example...even though she doesn't like concerts, she'll go on occasion but is fine with me going with others...even giving me three Advils when I get home cause she knows I'll need them.

That's cool! Congratulations. :wink:

by **Ratgirl** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:36 am

Almost 16 years here (I was 18 when we got married). Dated about 2 months before moving in with him and married 3 months after that.

He is my best friend and cant imagine life without him.

by **Ehwmatt** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:37 am

Ratgirl wrote:Almost 16 years here (I was 18 when we got married). Dated about 2 months before moving in with him and married 3 months after that.

He is my best friend and cant imagine life without him.

That's crazy it's all worked out for you guys, congrats! I can't imagine marrying someone without dating them for at least a year... but I know there are plenty of happy couples in your guys' situation.

by **JasonD** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:43 am

WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

by **KDOUBLEU** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:59 am

JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

When I got married we said all that for better or worse stuff and we actually meant it. That and as you get older together everything starts sagging and you really dont want to get naked in front of anybody else. Marriage takes alot of work and it is not easy but there isnt anybody else I would ever want to spend my life with. PLUS she gave me three fantastic kids!

by **artist4perry** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:00 am

JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

Jason, a great deal of that will subside as you age. It is normal for a young man to have a stronger drive. Women for the most part have a stronger drive in their mid life. Wich seems to be weird. LOL! Sex is not all there is in a marriage. Trust, love, fidelity, friendship, compatability, respect all play key factors. Because my husband bears all these qualities I am more attracted to him every day. Some days neither of us feel like having sex. But when we do, it is mutual, and sweet. Sorry, no RD pimply vajayjay story here. Usually if your partner loves you...........they will want to please you always. :wink:

by **Michigan Girl** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:04 am

JasonD wrote:So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

I was told..."You're lucky you have me because NOONE else would ever put up w/you!!!"
It pretty much keeps me going strong!!

(read very funny) :evil:

I am LMAO @ KW.... :wink:

by **artist4perry** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:16 am

KDOUBLEU wrote:
JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?
When I got married we said all that for better or worse stuff and we actually meant it. That and as you get older together everything starts sagging and you really dont want to get naked in front of anybody else. Marriage takes alot of work and it is not easy but there isnt anybody else I would ever want to spend my life with. PLUS she gave me three fantastic kids!

Smart man. :wink:

by **JasonD** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:25 am

Michigan Girl wrote:
JasonD wrote:So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

I was told..."You're lucky you have me because NOONE else would ever have you!!!"[/b]
It pretty much keeps me going strong!! (read very funny)

I am LMAO @ KW....

MG: WOW! I think I dated him.... only when he was with me he was a her. :roll:

Seven years I put up with that "No one else will have you" crap.

KW: When things start to sag on me it's gonna be, "Lights out & full steam ahead." :wink:

A4P: What if I don't want "sweet"? What if I want....

Seriously, though, to me trust, friendship, capatability, respect & so forth should all go without saying b/c that should all be a part of the make-up of who you are & of what brought you together in the first place. It's the sex thing that's the big hang-up IMO. A4P, you said that will subside with age. ..... I'm 31 so when? I hear men are supposed to hit their peek at 18 so what's wrong with my internal clock?

Lastly, I have no idea what an RD, pimply vajayjay story is. Do I wanna go there?

Website · by **steveo777** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:25 am

Michigan Girl wrote:
steveo777 wrote:31 Years this last Nov.

That's a friggin' miracle...she's a SAINT!!

Maybe, just consider that I am a different person in real life than I am here...or I married her when she was 12 so I could train her. :wink:

by **artist4perry** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:27 am

JasonD wrote:
Michigan Girl wrote:
JasonD wrote:So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

I was told..."You're lucky you have me because NOONE else would ever have you!!!"[/b]
It pretty much keeps me going strong!! (read very funny)

I am LMAO @ KW....

MG: WOW! I think I dated him.... only when he was with me he was a her. Seven years I put up with that "No one else will have you" crap.

KW: When things start to sag on me it's gonna be, "Lights out & full steam ahead."

A4P: What if I don't want "sweet"? What if I want....

Seriously, though, to me trust, friendship, capatability, respect & so forth should all go without saying b/c that should all be a part of the make-up of who you are & of what brought you together in the first place. It's the sex thing that's the big hang-up IMO. A4P, you said that will subside with age. ..... I'm 31 so when? I hear men are supposed to hit their peek at 18 so what's wrong with my internal clock?

Lastly, I have no idea what an RD, pimply vajayjay story is. Do I wanna go there?

Ask Deano...........it is his story. And as for the other, find another partner with the same drive. Oh when I say sweet, I mean we both are quite satisfied! :wink:

by **JasonD** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:40 am

artist4perry wrote:Ask Deano...........it is his story. And as for the other, find another partner with the same drive. Oh when I say sweet, I mean we both are quite satisfied! :wink:

Well, in that case, I have sweet until I'm seconds away from an aneurysm & my legs begin to cramp. :oops:

by **Ehwmatt** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:44 am

JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

Sounds like you need to go to clinic with Tiger Woods :lol:

by **JasonD** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 6:13 am

Ehwmatt wrote:
JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

Sounds like you need to go to clinic with Tiger Woods

I know you're joking, but I'll be the first to admit I'm an addict. Some people drink. Others eat. Others gamble. Others smoke. Others do drugs. I boink. That's my vice.

by **Ehwmatt** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 6:18 am

JasonD wrote:
Ehwmatt wrote:
JasonD wrote:WARNING! TMI ALERT: So, all you happily married's out there, what's the secret? What are some of the "must do's" & "must dont's"? I mean, seriously, I know sex isn't everything in a marriage but it's HUGELY important to me & so, (at the risk of sounding like a jerk), I can't fathom the thought of spending the rest of my life having sex with only one person. I can't imagine being that compatible with anyone. Doesn't it get boring? And what about drive? Some people have a strong sex drive (read: Jason) & some people could take it or leave it (read: Jason's ex) & I don't want to spend the rest of my life begging for a little sumptin, sumptin from my honey. I want it when I want it & that is ALWAYS! If I don't have sex at least once a day I get cranky..... I mean REALLY cranky ..... I mean "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY FACE BEFORE I MESS YOU UP !!!" cranky.

It's my kryptonite.

So what's the secret to a lasting relationship?

Sounds like you need to go to clinic with Tiger Woods

I know you're joking, but I'll be the first to admit I'm an addict. Some people drink. Others eat. Others gamble. Others smoke. Others do drugs. I boink. That's my vice.

Everybody's a sex addict.

by **KenTheDude** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 6:44 am

There's an extremely good chance I'll be getting married this year.

by **MartyMoffatt** » Mon Jan 25, 2010 6:51 am

25 years in a few months time.

MR

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